The submissive thoughts in my head have only become louder as I've gotten older. I feel they will only calm down once I find someone to submit to and become theirs to control.

I'm heavily drawn to something with longer term potential, as that has a deeper mental component to it (high protocol, dehumanization, regular tasks, etc). That mental component seems very powerful and I hope to experience it. That said, I'm not afraid of many of the more physical aspects as a means to get there. I gravitate towards the slightly more extreme side and looking for someone who's not afraid to go there, right from the start even.

This could be online, but I hope for it to be IRL at some point. My preference is for women, but I'll consider anyone.

While I could list off a bunch of interests, I'd prefer if you sent me a message and start a conversation.