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My name is Jasmine, I am a non op submissive crossdresser who goes that extra length like a TV with hair and on occasion make up. I am seeking a long term arrangement by preference with ownership. I'd like to live 24/7 but in my current circumstances thats not possible, so until it happens I am a part timer.
I am looking for a relationship, with someone who wants to spend days together not hours because the wife will be home anytime after X O Clock
My circumstances have changed and I now live with relatives so I CANNOT ACCOM. My travel range is hindered by having the worsed run of luck with timewasters, if you are more than an hours travel or the logistics is over a certain amount, I am unlikely to travel. If you want a Hotel Meet close to me, thats upto you.
Due to timewasters the following applies
1). Any meets arranged will begin with an initial social at a pub or cafe close to the Train, Coach or Bus Station I am traveling to or near the hotel, this initial social will be with me in MALE MODE. Im not out and proud and I don't go out of my home dressed.
2) You will provide some ID at this social meeting. I arrange safe calls with a friend who knows I am meeting someone. Refusal will lead to no meet. If you refuse while at the pub, you'll go home disappointed.
I take my personal safety seriously, if you do not reciprocate you will be considered a FAKE. There are too many unsafe people on these sites, expecting a naive submissive they can do whatever they want to without repurcussions, due to the submissive not taking precautions, I am way passed that level of naivity and not desperate for attention
I will only meet single men or married men where their partner has told me to my face she's ok with me playing her husband. If she doesn't know, I don't want to either. I want a relationship, not to dodge your other half because you don't get it at home anymore and you're too chickenshit to tell them you want a divorce.
Obviously this doesn't apply if you are a couple who both play. Your partner does not need to play, she just needs to know and I need to know, she knows, because she has told me, personally.
My kink list indicates the things I like, if those things are not on your list, its unlikely we'll get on. If our mutual needs are not compatible, why bother? If you insist on suggesting things I am flat out not interested in, I will just presume you want to be blocked.
I am Gay and thus sexually only interested in cock. I am also a size queen, if you do not have 7inches or more, please dont try your luck. I'm fed up of men with ED issues trying to get me to have sex, Once you've had it so big, anything else just doesn't cut it. IF you have a female Domme partner, I will meet her, I may serve her, but single females I have no interest in.
I ideally seek a Master or a Dominant MM couple. Where both are Dominant. I will accept a Dominant MF couple, again where both are Dominant.
I am diabetic and have issues downstairs. If you are seeking a submissive for cum related activities or denial I am not the submissive for you.
I would like to settle down with someone interested in a long term relationship, I will serve domestically or sexually. I love bondage and being in it for long periods. Diabetes incurs some issues with longer term or unsupervised play. I can submit to some pain play but nothing excessive, my condition does not let me recover from injuries caused, if you are one of those people who expects a pain slut, look elsewhere.
I have a fetish for older men who are 50+, but will play with younger who tick the appropriate boxes. Id prefer them to be Pansexual or Gay.
I have had a rough time with fakes and such, so I have a few demands concerning how we break the ice. If you are a Dominant who thinks these demands are topping from the bottom, I will not change my approach to ice breakers, because 9 times out of 10, someone who doesnt like them, turns out to be FAKE.
I will discuss any activities, which do not surmount to cyber play. I do not do online or phone play. I will confirm my identity by phone call, but not participate in phone sex. I will ONLY do real meets, everything else is fake to me.
The chatroom seldom works for me so I will say here that any attempt to chat on the chatrooms will be declined. I will not go to private emails, especially to send personal pics. If my profile pics do not do it for you, thats all your going to see. I will expect to swap phone numbers if either a phone call is essential for identity or proof of life, or if a meet has been arranged so we can keep in contact on the day. Unless we arrange to play I will not just throw my phone number to anyone who asks.
Some people accuse me of not being submissive because I wont say yes to everything said to me online, I give you my submission, ONLY when I meet you in person. If you think I should give you it from the first message, go back to wanking to porn.
Hope there is a Dominant out there I can talk to and arrange to play with.
Jasmine |
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This site just keeps getting worse. I now log in to find 26 pages of messages received over the course of my time here on the site since 2017. The site refuses to remove them from my list when I attempt to delete them. Of course the site 'claims' it has deleted them.... but no, they're still there
When will the ADMIN here get their heads from up their asses and make a decision.... FIX THE FRICKING SITE or CLOSE IT FOREVER.
Mostly pic collecting wannabees and scammers anyway |
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For the time being, I am unable to accommodate. I have had the ability now for 18 months, but all those 'can only travel' guys who pestered me for years presuming I could accom, have suddenly disappeared. Ironic
I am moving in with relatives and I hope this arrangement is temporary. If it is, I can simply delete this journal entry and leave my profile unedited, If this situation becomes indefinite, I'll make the appropriate changes and sit out the ridiculous review times here. |
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Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday to me, I wish myself a Happy Birthday, because I've got no one else to do it for me....
As I blow out these candles, making my wish, for someone real to enter my life, I can't but wonder, why, oh why am I bothering to wish for it from here? |
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Hilarious, when I couldn't accom I was plagued by men who could only travel. But now I can accom, those men have disappeared....Ironic |
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Hilarious
The amount of people on here who talk to you like your already best mates, meeting down the pub for a drink after a hard days grind at work is in my opinion ridiculous
If your going to upen a conversation, drop the "how are you" pleasantries and just spit out what you want.
Not everyone is here just to have sex with you, we're not mind readers and when we ask the "What do you want" question and get blanked, do you actually think that makes a great impression? Oh no sacrilege, I used the banned word.......... banned in the male brain that is
THINK |
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Some of the things mentioned on my profile are under revision, its easier to put that in a journal than wait til the end of time for my profile to be reviewed |
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This site needs a new name.
WasteofSpace.com
Has a nice ring to it and sums this place upto a tee |
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Still on the lookout for the elusive UK Based, Dom Male or Male lead couple preferably within reasonable travel distance (ME to you).
Only getting talkers and Pic Pervs at the moment.
Perhaps this is the wrong site for genuine folks to find genuine folks |
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I have had an epithany
You cannot find what you are looking for because you seek perfection from the first moment
Perfect Hair colour/length
Perfect Gender
Perfect Body/Height/Weight
Perfect Age
Perfect Wardrobe choices, as if the submissive has tailored their wardrobe thinking of you
You dont get perfection, so you don't give yourself to find someone alternative to what you want, what you seek and let it slip you by
How many of you have been looking for years and decided this ones not for you, cos she's taller than you, or she's younger than you and you feel OLD
Its Pathetic
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Wanted:
Man or M/M couple
Top Only (regardless of whether you identify as a Top, Dom, Master, Daddy). If your a couple, I'd prefer it if the other is a minimum of switch
UK Only, Overseas attention is flattering but its highly unlikely I'll be interested in travelling to you, especially at my expense. Yeah I've been victim to that scam too.
Interested in bondage orientated kinks, Hoods, Gags, Collar and Leash etc
Interested in SAFE SEX ONLY while dating, if you want bareback I'll only agree to it if we live together.
You must accom, I live with friends, no play house rules here, if you cannot accom, go away. Hotels considered if your local. I am TRAVEL ONLY, please be realistic. I dont intentionally catfish but if you live 100s miles away, I ain't paying for that train ticket.
Unless part of a couple (as above) you must be single. I will not play second fiddle to your unsuspecting wife, because you no longer get some at home.
This might seem demanding, for a submissive, but with the amount of fakes on here, precautions must be undertaken for personal safety and to root out those fakes.
Talk to me, who knows, I might be that elusive submissive or slave, you are looking for |
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I find it hilarious, that 9 out of every 10 profiles who complain about timewasters and fakes, turn out to be timewasters and fakes.
They whine about people not responding to their mails, but they can not be bothered responding to mail received
Clicking twice and typing 8 letters and a space is really too much effort for such people? |
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So its 2022 and I have been here a long while. Still no one claiming to be Dominant and willing to prove it has come my way in this time, will this be the year it happens, probably not. I think most people have given up on this site delivering them a submissive or slave that can fulfill their needs, as much as they fulfill theirs
Of course my needs are simple, I would like a Dominant man or couple, who want a relationship which can migrate from a one night stand, to many nights together, and days. But will it happen, I doubt it
I am fed up of having to be the assertive one, I am supposed to be asserted upon, Doms on here too afraid to approach someone because others have been such a let down, well, that concept is also felt by many subs and slaves who arrange to play with Dominants who aren't real.
So be assertive, sweep me off my feet, treat me with some respect, remember your goal is to want me to spend my time serving you, so if you come at me like a total moron, I'll treat you like one. |
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There are some really disrespectful retards on here. They have several Journal entries complaining about this or that premise they claim not to like, but when you contact them, they behave exactly like their own Journal entry complains about.
Is it really too much effort when someone clearly has taken the time to write to you, to answer it with a Not Interested reply if they don't interest you?
Is 2 clicks (reply - send message) followed by 12 measley letters and a space (Not Interested) too much effort for your brain?
You normally complain about the manners of whoever (its not entirely Doms or sub specific, I know both groups have extremely boneidle members on these kind of sites). I appreciate that some of you are looking for a specific niche, a specific thing, a set of requirements essential to your happiness, but grow the fuck up, this lifestyle is generally ruled by one concept, Compromise, because you will unlikely in 99 in 100 contacts get every T crossed and every I dotted to your expectations
Your arrogance allows you to bypass someone genuine whom might be able to compromise in return and give you most of those little quirks, if not all, you seek to get your perfect BDSM partner.... but no you choose to ignore them and let them pass you by, because you seek perfection from the start? |
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Gotta love the audacity of some men on here. They say "I don't do bareback" but their public pics show them performing bareback.... Are you that DUMB? |
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If I contact you, it is because I have looked at your location and the consequential logistics such as cost, travel time and whether I think we might get along based on what dribble your profile says about you, your needs and your interest list appeals. So hitting me with "I think you are too far away is really annoying"
If your profile says you are in the UK as a location, don't get all flustered when I ask you for more precise location information, Your nearest Post Code reference IE LS means Leeds would be sufficient |
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