BDSMtoygirl77

Must be International Idiot Weekend in North America this weekend ?

I've had 2 morons ask me dumbass questions already

The first was so Geographically Challenged, from Pennsylvannia, wanting to collar me all the way here in the UK, like I can just jump on the number 5 bus round to his house. He didn't actually know what it was meant by, being Geographically Challenged.

The other was from Canada and so stupid he was making Interests on my profile up out of nowhere asking me about this, that and these interests MY PROFILE says I don't have any form of interest in.

Who's next...... who knows

(By the way, those reading this and thinking, its Monday... here in the UK its a Bank Holiday, so its part of the weekend here)

In lieu of the entry directly below, spent the first 2 weeks of February this year, in a Hospital bed dying from kidney failure. Thankfully the doctors caught it before it was beyond complete failure and before the need to discuss transplants became a topic. The issue basically meant my kidneys weren't cleaning my blood properly and my blood was effectively flytipping excess body proteins the kidney didn't transfer to the Bladder and Intestines, into the rest of my body, this was clogging up arteries, clinging onto muscles and organs slowly crippling my bodies ability to function.

I went into hospital weighing in at 23 stone, and came out at just under 17 stone. Hell of a weight loss regimine, but I don't recommend it, its a potential killer (pun intended)

I am now mostly free to pursue what I would like from this lifestyle, however I am still on the mend in some capacity and cannot perform every task I once used to enjoy to the full capacity and this will reflect on what I will agree to submit to.

This problem is mostly physcial stuff like housecleaning, but also things like going out dressed in heels, as I get very dizzy sometimes with headaches when I stand for long periods, This is mostly a blood pressure issue, which I am in discuession with my doctor at solving, but in the meantime I need understanding from would be Dominant's I agree to meet, that these sort of things are not high on my list.

I am still seeking a Dominant Male or the Elusive Dominant All Male couple, whethr they're married, friends or whatever isn't important. I see myself mostly as a sex slave who wishes to be put into bondage and used eventually with rough face fuckings and rear end action. I can submit to some pain play but nothing excessive, as a diabetic I just don't heal wounds such as welts and lesions on the skin, they take months to recover from and I am just not that kind of pain slut. If you cannot restrict your sadistic needs to sore skin or keeping your slave in uncomfortable bondage situations or furniture, I am unlikely to be what you seek. Any initial sex dates need to be safe anal sex, we can discuss things like bareback if we become a full time relationship, as I see bareback being between 2 people or more, who are only fucking each other, and theres trust in place that they're not sleeping around with anything with a pulse.

Ideally I seek a Master or more with a decent sized cock, I am sorry but if you are under 7 inches, you are just not big enough to arouse my sexual interest and you'll be wasting your time. 

If you're UK based and you are ok with my medical issues, at least willing to discuss their impact and accept my limitations on what I can and cannot do, lets chat and see if there is a spark.

After a disastrous 2025 on the dating scene here in the UK I have decided that 2026 is already going to be a waste of my time, as was 2023 and 2024.

Therefore due to ill health I need to take a break from some of the activities I used to enjoy performing.

I am unable to perform any physical role, such as being a House Maid, my mobility is shot and my balance is non-existant. Me tottering about on heels is like waiting for the tree to choose a random direction to topple over in once cut down

I am unable to chase a Masters cock around the house, my ability to breath has escaped me and my heart cannot keep up with the strain.

Unable to wear any gag that blocks the mouth because I can throw up at any moment and don't wish to drown in my own vomit... open mouth gags are still an option though to shut me up

Still open to Masters who want an immobilized bondage plaything or a sex slave handcuffed to the bed

For the time being, I am unable to accommodate. I have had the ability now for 18 months, but all those 'can only travel' guys who pestered me for years presuming I could accom, have suddenly disappeared. Ironic

I am moving in with relatives and I hope this arrangement is temporary. If it is, I can simply delete this journal entry and leave my profile unedited, If this situation becomes indefinite, I'll make the appropriate changes and sit out the ridiculous review times here.

Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday to me, I wish myself a Happy Birthday, because I've got no one else to do it for me....

As I blow out these candles, making my wish, for someone real to enter my life, I can't but wonder, why, oh why am I bothering to wish for it from here?

Hilarious, when I couldn't accom I was plagued by men who could only travel. But now I can accom, those men have disappeared....Ironic

Hilarious

The amount of people on here who talk to you like your already best mates, meeting down the pub for a drink after a hard days grind at work is in my opinion ridiculous

If your going to upen a conversation, drop the "how are you" pleasantries and just spit out what you want.

Not everyone is here just to have sex with you, we're not mind readers and when we ask the "What do you want" question and get blanked, do you actually think that makes a great impression? Oh no sacrilege, I used the banned word.......... banned in the male brain that is

THINK

Some of the things mentioned on my profile are under revision, its easier to put that in a journal than wait til the end of time for my profile to be reviewed

This site needs a new name.

WasteofSpace.com

Has a nice ring to it and sums this place upto a tee

Still on the lookout for the elusive UK Based, Dom Male or Male lead couple preferably within reasonable travel distance (ME to you).

Only getting talkers and Pic Pervs at the moment.

Perhaps this is the wrong site for genuine folks to find genuine folks

I have had an epithany

 You cannot find what you are looking for because you seek perfection from the first moment

Perfect Hair colour/length

Perfect Gender

Perfect Body/Height/Weight

Perfect Age

Perfect Wardrobe choices, as if the submissive has tailored their wardrobe thinking of you

 You dont get perfection, so you don't give yourself to find someone alternative to what you want, what you seek and let it slip you by

How many of you have been looking for years and decided this ones not for you, cos she's taller than you, or she's younger than you and you feel OLD

Its Pathetic

Wanted:

Man or M/M couple

Top Only (regardless of whether you identify as a Top, Dom, Master, Daddy). If your a couple, I'd prefer it if the other is a minimum of switch

UK Only, Overseas attention is flattering but its highly unlikely I'll be interested in travelling to you, especially at my expense. Yeah I've been victim to that scam too.

Interested in bondage orientated kinks, Hoods, Gags, Collar and Leash etc

Interested in SAFE SEX ONLY while dating, if you want bareback I'll only agree to it if we live together.

You must accom, I live with friends, no play house rules here, if you cannot accom, go away. Hotels considered if your local. I am TRAVEL ONLY, please be realistic. I dont intentionally catfish but if you live 100s miles away, I ain't paying for that train ticket.

Unless part of a couple (as above) you must be single. I will not play second fiddle to your unsuspecting wife, because you no longer get some at home.

This might seem demanding, for a submissive, but with the amount of fakes on here, precautions must be undertaken for personal safety and to root out those fakes.

Talk to me, who knows, I might be that elusive submissive or slave, you are looking for

I find it hilarious, that 9 out of every 10 profiles who complain about timewasters and fakes, turn out to be timewasters and fakes.

They whine about people not responding to their mails, but they can not be bothered responding to mail received

Clicking twice and typing 8 letters and a space is really too much effort for such people?

So its 2022 and I have been here a long while. Still no one claiming to be Dominant and willing to prove it has come my way in this time, will this be the year it happens, probably not. I think most people have given up on this site delivering them a submissive or slave that can fulfill their needs, as much as they fulfill theirs

Of course my needs are simple, I would like a Dominant man or couple, who want a relationship which can migrate from a one night stand, to many nights together, and days. But will it happen, I doubt it

I am fed up of having to be the assertive one, I am supposed to be asserted upon, Doms on here too afraid to approach someone because others have been such a let down, well, that concept is also felt by many subs and slaves who arrange to play with Dominants who aren't real.

So be assertive, sweep me off my feet, treat me with some respect, remember your goal is to want me to spend my time serving you, so if you come at me like a total moron, I'll treat you like one.

There are some really disrespectful retards on here. They have several Journal entries complaining about this or that premise they claim not to like, but when you contact them, they behave exactly like their own Journal entry complains about.

Is it really too much effort when someone clearly has taken the time to write to you, to answer it with a Not Interested reply if they don't interest you?

Is 2 clicks (reply - send message) followed by 12 measley letters and a space (Not Interested) too much effort for your brain?

You normally complain about the manners of whoever (its not entirely Doms or sub specific, I know both groups have extremely boneidle members on these kind of sites). I appreciate that some of you are looking for a specific niche, a specific thing, a set of requirements essential to your happiness, but grow the fuck up, this lifestyle is generally ruled by one concept, Compromise, because you will unlikely in 99 in 100 contacts get every T crossed and every I dotted to your expectations

Your arrogance allows you to bypass someone genuine whom might be able to compromise in return and give you most of those little quirks, if not all, you seek to get your perfect BDSM partner.... but no you choose to ignore them and let them pass you by, because you seek perfection from the start?

Gotta love the audacity of some men on here. They say "I don't do bareback" but their public pics show them performing bareback.... Are you that DUMB?

If I contact you, it is because I have looked at your location and the consequential logistics such as cost, travel time and whether I think we might get along based on what dribble your profile says about you, your needs and your interest list appeals. So hitting me with "I think you are too far away is really annoying"

If your profile says you are in the UK as a location, don't get all flustered when I ask you for more precise location information, Your nearest Post Code reference IE LS means Leeds would be sufficient