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So some people don't like someone contacting them telling them what they are into, like it's some sort of afront, like they can't have kinks, because you know, it's all about me.  

But here's the kicker, it isn't all about you, it about a mtually beneficial arrangement.  If one side is not having their needs and desires met, then they will lose interest.

And if someone writes to you and says hey, I like you profile, I'm into...

Maybe they're just excited, maybe your profile excited them enough to open up.

Unless the message is basically them demanding you do stuff to them without negotiation, then what's the harm really?

This is not from a place of experience, I myself do not contact people and go hey I love being humiliated do you like that?

Because it's not how I am, I'm a little less excited about this lifestyle after 30+ years in it.

But that doesn't mean I don't get excited, it just means I take my time doing it.

So don't be harsh on people if they get excited by you, to be fair it's probably a compliment.

Anyway, stay safe, have fun

OK last one for now, going back to bed, still horny.

I work in software, and I was thinking about the term Alpha male, we have a thing called alpha software....

Got it, here's a comparison joke that makes the alpha male look bad:

- Alpha Male: Constantly needs validation.

  - Alpha Software: Constantly gets validated by QA.

- Alpha Male: Shows off muscles.

  - Alpha Software: Shows off robust features.

- Alpha Male: Only appears confident.

  - Alpha Software: Only appears in production after rigorous testing.

- Alpha Male: Tries to control everyone around him.

  - Alpha Software: Allows users to control everything.

- Alpha Male: Thinks he's flawless.

  - Alpha Software: Admits to bugs and gets better with updates.

Checks mail...

oh yeah I'm a guy  no mail for me, except from other guys "Hi", yeah even as a guy also I'm not responding to that low effort.

I can't sleep, it warm and I'm horny, which reminds me and makes it harder to sleep...

thinking about a really hot time I had with an old friend of mine.  She new I was a slut, and that I was into kink.  I was staying at her place one time.  It was a hot night and I was laid awake, and I heard her get up.  Then my room door opened and she came and laid next to me.

She said she was awake because of the heat and feeling horny.  Sh e then whispered in my ear, saying "I know how kinky you are, are you a slut for anyone, even me"

She pulled the covers off me and could see I was getting stiff, and said "I guess so".

She then held my cock, and told me she was thinking of telling her female friends about me, what I was, and asked me if it turned me knowing that they'd know.

Of course my cock got hard, and she said "well I guess that's my answer"

She made me flip over, and then just rested her arm out underneath me, making a grip with her hand, she then told me to fuck her hand.

I said instinctively "yes Miss" and proceeded to slip my throbbing cock into her hand and stated to fuck her hand.  With her other hand, she began to play with herself, it didn't take long for her to make herself cum, after which she just opened her hand and said 

"goog slut, now I'm going to bed, no touching until I say"

She kissed my cheek, and promptly left.

It took me a while to get to sleep with my cock throbbing and the heat.

After reading some journals, I have abandoned the idea of putting a weighted blanket in a duvet cover, even if it does hide the colour, which always seems to be "mental illness grey" I think they call it 

I think I might just put my cats in the duvet cover, that'll cheer me up

Well almost a week now since my last entry, not that anyone is concerned 

I've been off work since the 15th, and will be until the 8th of August, all this time off and I can't even go on holiday, thanks to petrol prices and Brexit ruining everything.

So here I sit, with my kinky thoughts, seeking some kind of stimulation and escape.

I hope everyone is having a nice time.

Warm weather always makes me really horny and submissive.  The same when I'm not feeling well, maybe something to do with being more vulnerable?  Makes me just want to be used.

So because of my journal entries and weirdly my tattoos. I've been contacted by a few very lovely people actually most from the US and I just like to say that that was really nice of you. It's been a pleasure chatting with you no matter how brief. It's nice to know that there are genuine lovely people still out there. I wish you all fun and exciting times and that you all find something that you really want.

You know who you are x

Feels like the UK representation on here is static, not even sure it's worth the effort of logging in sometimes, it's sad really, years ago this place used to be so much more active.

I've always found, I don't know if anyone else has, that I always seem to be 100's if not 1000's of miles from people that seem to be a good fit?

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So this is a recurring fantasy I have, I hope some of you enjoy it :)

Miss wants me to be a slut, she asks me all the time, “what are you”, “a slut” I have to reply, then she punishes me for being such a submissive slut.

Then she organises for me to go and serve others. I have no choice, and I have no idea who it is until I go to their place.

There I must act as if the commands were coming from Miss, I must do as I am told.  Miss says I am not allowed to cum, if I do I will be punished for it, the people I am sent to know this, but, as they are controlling me, they can make me cum for them.

This will result in them being able to watch the punishment from Miss, so they get to decide if they want that to happen to me.

When I am finished I have to return to Miss, I kneel naked in front of her, and I have to explain everything I did in great detail, humiliating myself, I have to describe what I did, how I felt, what it smelled like, absolutely all details.

Miss then punishes me for being such a slut.

Then at the end she asks if I had cum, now the other people don’t tell her, I have to admit to it myself.

I have to say that these journals are a far better introduction than a message!

So I went out last night for a "few" drinks with friends, and I was staying at a friends house, and there was that few seconds this morning were I woke and was like 'where am I, who's bed is this, what have I done' then remembered it was the spare room at my friends house, panic over!

Did you know the ducks in the park are free, you can just fucking take them

Is it just me or is the UK demographic quite sparse on here?

Anyone going to Doni Xtra on Friday 8th July?  Message me if you are if you want,  I don't think I know anyone that's going.

So about 13 years ago, I was in club pedestal in London, it was nearing the end of the night, is been my usual shy self and not spoken to anyone.

So then I saw this amazing looking woman, dressed in a green dress, with some beautiful flowers painted on one face cheek. 

So what did I do? 

That's right, I stood up, walked right across the dance floor and introduced myself to her. 

Not long after we were meeting regularly and we embarked on a year long experiment in Domme, slave dynamic. We both learned many things.

Eventually it ended, we became the best of friends and still are today. She's now a professional Domme and is damn good at it too!

Why am I telling you this? Well there are new people out there, who don't know what to say to a dominant or how to act, it's easy, they're people just like you, tray them like a person, be yourself, unless you're a cunt! 

Most submissives and dominants just want to be talked to like humans.

BTW I'm on fetlife if anyone wants to make friends? Same user name.

Checks my inbox, weird, still no messages, hmmm maybe it's broken?

Anyway, how is everyone today? 

There's a kink event on the 8th in Doncaster, is anyone going?

So, many years ago I met someone on here, who absolutely blew my mind. 

I'd never experienced control before and it was an amazing journey.

From the very beginning, the controlling of my time, as in what I did with my free time, updates of where I would be at certain times in the day so they always knew where I was.

Having to be available at specific times. Not a minute before or a minute after.

Controlling how and when I touched myself if I could have an orgasm.

Even my clothing having to replace my underwear with women's underwear. Sitting to go to the toilet. All these things which I was told was leading up to a very hard limit of feminizing.

Which was a total mind fuck. Because with each step that I was pushed and you eventually that that limit would be pushed as well and if both scared and excited me at the same time.  Now I never knew as we never got to it if that would have happened, whether I would have been feminized or whether because it was a very hard limit of mine, it was simply used as a mind fuck.

Either way it's certainly did the trick.

The less freedom I had and the more control she took made me feel so submissive and so desperate to continue to please.

So, here I am back on here in the hope that maybe there's still something here.  Not holding my breath.

If you like the sound of me, then please do just message me, hell, I'm a sub, I get excited after I view my profile when I see that someone viewed my profile :D