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About Thanat0ast
Hello! Thanks for dropping by! I hope you're having a good day (or night) wherever you are!
I'm a long time lurker in the BDSM community, have some first hand experience, and is always happy to learn more!
Vanilla wise, some of my hobbies include: martial arts (iaido and HEMA), calligraphy (fountain pen), reading about philosophy, and gaming (Primarily video games). If you want to have a discussion about any topic, I'd be more than happy to participate and expand my horizons.
Some of my favorite genre of music includes EDM, smooth jazz, classical, pop, and video game soundtracks.
I also really like puns.
Finally, I do not personally partake in smoking or vaping, recreational drug use, or eardrum shattering loud noises (for my fellow detail lovers, any noise over 90 dB).
Some points I fully stand by are:
- Trust and respect is earned, and both needs to be nurtured with time and effort.
- Nuance and context matters.
- Effective communication is a skill as much as it is an art that everyone can strive to improve.
- Be kind, whether it is to yourself or others.
I am currently looking for my forever sub!
Some key characteristic (in no particular order) of what I expect my submissive to embody/have would be:
- Wishes to pursue a long term relationship with me
- Welcomes all types of physical affection
- Is service oriented
- Able to communicate honestly and timely with me
- Want to have conversations over topics that interests either party
- Welcome a fun gaming session (video games, tabletop games, puzzles, board games, etc.)
- Wants to be subjected to affectionate crueltyon occasion (including humiliation, degradation, etc.)
- Want to grow and learn together
Of course, this list is non-exhaustive, and I would require any needs to be communicated clearly and honestly.
I am more than happy to provide both pain and pleasure to my future pet slave, and a safe space for her to be able to fully commit to serve.
Feel free to reach out and talk to me, regardless if you simply want to chat, or see if there's a chance that you would be the pet slave for me. I am always happy to make new friends and learn more.
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Dominant
100% Master/Mistress
100% Owner
89% Degrader
88% Rigger
88% Brat tamer
84% Sadist
63% Experimentalist
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Hello prospective submissive,
I'm glad my post caught your eye, I've been looking for my pet slave for quite some time now, and I do hope you are going to be the one to fulfill both of our desires. But first, let me tell you a bit about what I'm truly looking for:
I search for a submissive that, from the bottom of her heart, desires a relationship with her dom, her owner.
This dynamic, and relationship, would be built upon a foundation of transparant communications, triplicate (physical, mental, and emotional) care, and proven mutual trust. Within this, I expect that my word and intentions are the law by which the submissive is beheld to, for her to surrender, both her control and her worries, completely to me, for I shall be the one to lead and to guide her.
I do not mind to start off with long distance, but when the time comes, I would expect for her to be with me, and I have the means to ensure this happens, be it relocation assistance or otherwise.
She should expect to have protocols be taught and enforced, be able to execute my instructions in a timely and satisfactory manner, assume basic household duties, engage in pet-play or pet-play adjacent activities, and eagerly look forward to affection in all its forms. Shared hobbies, especially nerdy ones, and deep conversations of whatever topics that graces the mind will be part and parcel for the healthy maintanence of the relationship.
Do not mistake my kindness for a lack of structure or lack of the darker side of play, I am more than capable of providing affectionate cruelty with humiliating remarks, sadistic orders, and physical discipline.
Ultimately, the shape of the dynamic-relationship will be influenced by the experiences we both share. If any of this resonated with you, and you are someone that places her owner first, I invite you to reach out. I want to learn more about you, and there is no substitute for communication.
Do you think you would be the one to catch my eye? I look forward to finding out,
Your future master |
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