was going to update my profile, then read the warning. so here are the updates for anyone interested: Moved back to Leicestershire now, no long in Cheshire.  also modified profile: well as per usual, another one bites the dust....ghosted so many times, met in real life, had a real connection, love, lust and longing.  Not sure why I am back on here, just nosey I guess! I know I'm unlikely to find what I seek here, but I'm happy to chat with male dominants who don't mind an overweight honest submissive/slave to chat too. If it leads to more, well so be it, but I am not going to suffer fools for long.  If you want to insult me, then please, just don't bother wasting the energy typing a message to me then to block me! At least have the decency to explain why you feel so compelled to send a revolting message, because, I mean, you must be perfect in every way possible - are you?  I am fat, I know what I am, thanks for pointing out the bleeding obvious. But I do have a mind and can hold down a conversation with the best of them. I am sarcastic and will be honest.  My kinks, are knife play ( i do have scars from previous cutting over my body and I bloody love them), breath play, hoods, rope, oh so much rope, breast torture. I'm NOT into dressing slutty, wearing stockings and heels, all that lady shit! I'm a tomboy through and through. I will not grow my hair for you, but I will shave it off if you ask nicely.  I'm not everybody's cup of tea, a bit like the old marmite comparison I'd guess.  I love with a big heart, which means I get hurt very easily - I'm only human.  Well thanks for reading this far. You have yourself a good day now. I hope that you find all that you desire.