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Hetero Male Dominant, 58,  Gates, New York
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Last Online:


 Dominant Male


 New York

 6' 0"

 205 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Friends Only

Online Romance


A Poly Household


 Body Worship

 Breast Binding/Play

 Local BDSM Community

 Massage (Getting)


 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Intellectual Discourse


 Amusement Parks


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining


 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales












 Anal Play





 Canes and Crops




 Electrical Play





 Hair Pulling



 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play


 Orgasm Control

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation



 TV Sports




 1950s Household

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 New Age Music

 Nineties Music


 Seventies Music







 Musical Theater

 Blue Grass

 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires



 Knife Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay



 Wax play

 Goth Lifestyle

 Polyamory (Beginner)


 Hard Limits:


Dominant divorced male looking for a female sub/slave (24/7) to train and for play. Possible long term, poly relationship, and must be d/d free. I'm intelligent, witty, strict, caring, clean, d/d free and desires to stay that way. I am looking for a female submissive/slave to grow together in the lifestyle.  I expect my submissive/slave to be loyal, respectful, femmine and well kept.  Your body type must be height weight proportionate, chubby is ok.� If you have no or limited experience, that is ok. I would prefer to train you My way. Just be willing in your heart to learn and be open minded. Experienced slaves are welcome by all means! You must be willing to be owned as Master's property to be used as He sees fit.
I expect a lot, but I also give a lot.  I'm a Master that knows how to treat his lady, and I highly respect your "gift" of submission and trust.  I can also provide the "vanilla" in your life that you may want in addition as a sub/slave. I'm a person that lives life to the fullest, I work and play hard. Some of my interest include some sports, the outdoors, fireplaces, intellectual discourse, good conversation, music, being around water, romantic walks on a chilly evening with a brandy to warm up after. I will reply only to those who send a picture.  I am very real and geniune, and not a game player. I expect you to be the same.  Please read my journal entries before contacting Me. Thank you for checking me out. If you want to know more, please feel free to ask. I would love to discuss life style issues with you.   Feel free to message me on hangouts at masterjim1952@ Please mention that you are from Collarspace! Hope to hear from you! ***smiles**  

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Journal Entries:
10/31/2017 7:12:13 PM
As I appreciate the opportunity to chat with potential slaves about joining My household, if you ask for any financial assistance while establishing a relationship, or before accepting a trial period with this Master, I will not consider you. I will determine when I will start supporting you. I can assure you, that when the time comes, you will be well taken care of.

9/29/2017 2:29:43 PM
I have finally have partnered with a Domme. Wishing to have a small poly household. If anyone is interested in possibly joining our small family, please feel free to contact me on here or hangouts to discuss possible options.

12/13/2008 1:58:01 PM
Here is something else that I firmly believe in and should be in every relationship.
"If someone gives you their heart, handle it with utmost care. Love someone who laughs when you laugh, cries when you cry, and who loves when you love. The strongest bond on earth is that between two human beings that have come to know and share each other's innermost thoughts and desires. If the bond is true,, nothing can break it. Find someone you can create that bond with, and work tirelessly to preserve it."
I've been there before and it is a wonderful place to be in. I hope someday to be able to return to it, and I hope that you will find it.

10/1/2008 8:08:37 PM
I believe that a collar is a gift on both parts.  For the Owner, it is a gift of Ownership, of their caring, love and desire to possess and have in their life this person who feels they are deserving of utter and complete surrendor.  An Owner gives the gift of his strength and possession, of his life and his home to a slave who gives the gift of her love, devotion, and of herself in all ways.. The trust that is built up, can be amazing and all consuming.  A most intesne passionate embrace of each other. 

9/13/2008 2:42:11 PM
I get the impression that your "likes" & dislikes has to match here to find a partner on this site. The most important thing to me is what is inside your heart that's more important, how you want to work to develope a strong relationship. That should come first. All the other interests are all "icing on the cake"! Wouldn't it be great if you were to look at it constructively and say, "gee, our relationship can be diversified", or "we can explore one another's interests together" to help solidify OUR relationship, something that was accomplished togehter instead of being just one sided.

2/24/2008 4:51:14 PM
I don't feel sorry for all the game players & wannabe's on this site. They only get in their own way by being concieted and stuck up. Letting their so called outward beauty get in the way of releasing their inner beauty. I realize that everyone has to be safe and becareful of the "jerks" on this site, but when an individual is judged by the cover of their book, and not to take time to explore what is in the inside, shame on you. You never know what your going to find, if you don't explore the possible inner beauty of the other's soul. You may be suprised on what you may find.
I know what I'm looking for, and where I'm going, if you decide to take the opportunity to explore, I hope you will not pass up the opportunity, for I will only offer it once for you to explore. 
I welcome your willingness to contact me, for togehter, we can both explore what could be a possible exciting relationship.
"What you think of me is none of my business. What is most important is what I think about myself."

My train is starting to move....

1/12/2008 11:24:39 AM
Just added some new photos, waiting for approval...

8/12/2007 10:38:13 PM

I am able to successfully accept chat invitations at this point. Would be willing to chat and to discuss interests and intelligent conversation only.  Be safe!

7/29/2007 11:10:33 AM

I think that the problem is temporaily solved, would like to be able to chat and see if this feature works, I have downloaded java script. Would love to hear from you! Also, please feel free to us this to chat at newyork1952 at hotmail. Please be well and safe!

5/31/2007 7:54:26 PM
I have been having problems with the chat feature on this web site. I just got a new laptop and has the new windows vista - home basic. If anybody knows of any fixes, I would appreciate an email. I would prefer to chat on yahoo and my id is: thumper195220022002
My chat feature works okay there.

3/5/2007 9:41:51 PM

It would be nice for individuals to post their profiles correctly. When someone says in their profile "willing to relocate" but when they replied that they were not interested in a long distance relationship, why did they post that desire? It just goes to show how serious that individual really is, just another game player....

8/15/2006 9:27:00 PM
I'm not afraid to build a long distance relationship if the end result if the girl is relocatable, and I will explain why.
Through the years of maturity, I have found that it's not all about sex, but a bond that is formed in the heart by very important building blocks like, trust, loyality, communication, honesty, commitment, respect, being able to listen, caring, and many more. No one is more important than the other, but both are justly equally important to build a very strong relationship in each other lives. Physical and mental emotions are strong factors that are involved is everyone's life and no one is exempt from them, they are very powerful and must be handled with care, so as not to destroy the other individual.
Some of the common mistakes that I feel happens is when a person is judged by age, looks, and desires and put the physical aspects first. I have to admit that I have fallen many times to the latter, but there is nothing wrong in knowing what you want.

The physical aspect of the relationship will happen naturally, when there is a deep respect for each other, in receiving a sub/slave's submission, or a sub/slave in giving it to her Dom/Domme/Master.

1/2/2006 11:50:59 AM

I'm returining to this site after a break from looking looking for a girl. One of the items that I did not mention in my profile, is that I'm a down to earth type guy who is looking to establish friendships on this site and possibly more. I look and read the profiles, but really wonder how honest they are. So far, I have meet a couple of ladies and had very good conversations with them and developed friendships. It would be even nicer if people on this site would be courteous to respond either way, but I guess that's life. I enjoy most things in life, including the lifestyle, but would like to find a girl to help her improve herself in many aspects. I do have a web cam and dsl if that helps. I'm not currently involved in any serious realtionships, I have been divorced for almost two years, employed full time, and starting to seriously look into developing a long term relationship. 

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