Itsmeroped

Been losing weight and getting in better shape to be an ideal bondage sub. Down almost 40 lbs, and have about 20 to go to my goal weight. Decided I'm going to buy a full chastity belt once I reach my goal both as a little reward, as well as incentive to keep it off.?

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Contemplating my choices, think I'm down to a behindbarz belt or maybe a neosteel. Anyone have any thoughts or other suggestions? Prepared to spend up to say 1500 bucks...

My interests are varied, but they all fall under the same theme: I love losing control. Maybe it's because I'm so buttoned down in my daily life, I don't know, but there's nothing as satisfying to me as that moment when the gag is inserted, the blindfold pulled tight, the last lock clicks shut and you accept that whatever happens next, I'm just along for the ride. As you might imagine, there's many ways that this sort of control can present, but my favorite by far is heavy, long term bondage. I crave immobility, I relish the frustration that comes from the futile struggle. Nothing gets me to subspace as quick as complete restraint and sensory deprivation. Ideally, I'd like to find a Dom that enjoys placing boys in bondage as much as I love being in it. Ever wanted to keep a sub in a straitjacket all weekend? Ever wanted to have a mummified boy on the bed next to you? Ever wanted to have a sub chained in the cabinet, awaiting your whims? I'm the boy for you!?

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My other kinks are all broadly similar:

I enjoy wearing and using diapers, largely as they're an excellent means of extending bondage well past the point that a bathroom break would be necessary, but I do enjoy them for their own charms as well, after all, control over one's own toileting is one of the earliest and most fundamental things humans master, diapers allow you to strip that away.?

I enjoy casts, like for broken bones. I'm happy to introduce doms that are interested to the art. NOTHING comes close in terms of inescapable, comfortable bondage that's safe for long term wear.?

I adore orgasm control. Leave me desperate to cum. I just get more and more submissive the longer it's been.

Pain does little for me in its own right, but I have a high pain tolerance and can appreciate its ability to highlight how truly helpless your situation is.?

Travel: I travel a great deal for work. This means I'm in central Oklahoma, East Texas and the UK with some regularity. I'm happy to meet with doms while traveling for work, but I also have accrued a substantial number of frequent flier miles and am happy to travel to hosting doms for the right scene. Long weekends here or there are the most realistic, but periods of up to a week are possible.?

I figured I would try and fill in the gaps that I couldn't post on my profile, so will start here.?

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First. My sexuality: I marked "gay" because I'm on here to find men to play with. Truth be told I'm not gay, I'm not straight or even Bi, I'm a sub. I enjoy time with anyone that can make me feel submissive, and good bondage beats the best sex to me any day of the week.?

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I'm in an open relationship with a woman. She knows I'm on here and is 100% supportive of me playing with guys (safely). Understand if that's a deal breaker, but can promise no drama on that account at least. Will get in the way of nothing we might want to do together other than a 24/7 relationship. Shorter periods (say up to a week) are totally doable.