CraveToPlease


craveslave Female Dominant, 48, Bronx, New York	craves2serve Male Submissive, 55, S F Bay Area, California	Craven Male Dominant, 35

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	About CraveToPlease If you are genuine, honest, and serious about what you are looking for please take a few moments to read this fully. Thank you. Everything stated in my profile is genuine. They are my thoughts and words. This is me. If you cannot see the beauty in me, or anything I have described after speakingmeeting me then please move on. I need a man to inspire me, lead me, and invoke the joy inside me. To not want to hurt or destroy me. To make me laugh when I cry. Be there for me with a hand to help me get up when I fail. Then tell me that its ok, keep trying. Someone who will not run away from their problems. A strong man who will stand tall and firm no matter what gets thrown at him and I will stand strong and proud by his side the whole way through. As you can see, to me, this is much more than cracking a whip or getting on my knees. Anyone can achieve that, its quite simple. I want something special and extraordinary. Something that takes hard work and commitment from both people to achieve. A deeper level of trust most people never have the luck to experience. I am loyal, passionate, strong, honest, open-minded, loving, genuine, outgoing, giving, considerate, witty, devoted, caring, determined, and many more things once you have me. I also have my faults-one which is stubbornness but I try consciously to fix these things. I have always been submissive by nature and it is who I am at my core. I am the type girl that will get up earlier just to bring you your coffee to enjoy in the warmth of the bed. I dont even like coffee! ) Seeing you happy makes me happy. I have always dated the alpha type males and have had some aspects of a ds. I have taken care of the men that I have been with or at least tried to if they let me. I long for direction and guidance from a man. Someone who makes me the best I can be (while also fulfilling his needs since that is what is most important). I have always been drawn to more dominant men but they were not able to give me all the things I need. Someone that is not afraid to tell me what he wants, how, and when. I am there for him for the sole purpose to please him and make his life as easy and most enjoyable as possible. Most vanilla men do not understand this. Communication is key. I need a man that has intelligence at par with me or better. Which I feel that he is superior to me without making me uncomfortable. Again, someone I can look up to, be proud of, and respect. I am the type of female that will do my best to please you even if I do not like it. I will make myself like it..for you. In return I will learn to love it and cherish it and eventually beg you for it....because pleasing you is what pleases me the most. I believe strongly in the power exchange between a man and a woman. I think a long lasting relationship can only be successful when each gender knows their place and role in every aspect of the relationship. Its just the perfect balance between two roles that go together like peanut butter and jelly. I really enjoy a man that takes control and is demanding. I dont want a Dom that is easy to please. Your dominance is something that I need to work for and earn. I need a man who is strong, intelligent, and honest. Without honesty, there is no chance for a successful relationship. A man who thinks logically, will never judge me, and will always know what is best for me. Even more than I do. Someone I can put my full trust into. I live for pleasing the man I am with and nothing makes me happier to know that I have made him happy. I take pride in anticipating a mans needs and love to surprise and do things that are unexpected. I love feeling like I am taking care of the man in every aspect possible. Sexually, and otherwise. I know what I could be for the right person. I believe I have strong potential and will constantly grow and learn. I would be nothing less than perfect for you because that is what I strive for being with the man I am with. Realistically nothing is ever perfect, but you will know that I am at least trying to be and it is all for you. I am not submissive to any man that walks my way. I do believe it is earned through trust just as I will earn your dominance over me. This relationship is much more than sex for me. I have been remaining celibate since I first started looking for someone. I only need one for the rest of my life and I will wait patiently for him. I am interested in marriage and children one day so I hope that anyone who contacts me is open to that as well. I do not open my heart or spread my legs easily. I take pride in who I am and who I am with. Once you gain my mind and heart though, I will be yours forever. I need someone who understands this and can be patient with me. Chemistry is a big factor, and I need that more than anything for this type of relationship. I am not interested in other women, switches, couples, swinging, or joining a poly household. I also am not looking for an open relationship. I look forward to speaking with you and starting our journey.

The right people don't fix you. They reveal you.

I need to nothing you.

My worth is not defined by someone else's inability to see it.

I have always seen the best version of you that you don't even see in yourself.

You'll have to live with "what if" the rest of your life while I get to live mine free of what "once was".

The moment it was over was when I realized you were just waiting for me to give up. So I did.

The realest woman in a man's corner is the one he hurts the most. By the time he does right by her, it's too late. She no longer knows how to love him anymore.

To love someone so much at her core, she helped him fight his demons while he became hers.

I'll dream each night of some version of you. That I might not have, but I did not lose.

Instead of fearing to lose you.

I took a step back, and watched you lose me.

You have no idea what I had to go through to get to where I am now.

Just so I can look at you and feel nothing.

When you finally let someone go, you don't just lose them.

You lose..

A part of yourself that you will never get back.

I got lost in your every word but where we met was in the silence behind them

The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love without the intention of loving her

There is a big difference

Between

Someone who wants you

And

Someone who would do anything to keep you

Imagine having everything, yet nothing at the same time.

Sometimes, falling in love with the potential of someone can be painfully beautiful.

I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.

Love is so short, forgetting is so long.

Most men are not running away from a great woman. They are running away from parts of themselves they are not willing to fix to deserve her.

In just one word to describe what it feels like to love someone who will never love you back-

Hollow.

Other words come to mind. Empty. Void. Blank. Pointless.

Hollow.

Because that’s exactly what it is.

It’s like eating junk food when you’re not even hungry or hungover because you are sure, so sure that it will satiate you. That it will make you happy. That it will give you some sort of sense of satisfaction and contentment. But that feeling never comes and you’re left just sitting in front of what is essentially, a waste, with nothing to show for it but a mess you’ve done to yourself. Junk food isn't good for you. In moderation it won't harm you but every day it will take it's toll on your health. Loving someone who doesn't love you is exactly like consuming junk food daily. It leaves you feeling so full you're empty.

It’s an uphill battle where there’s nothing waiting for you at the top. A triathlon with no one waiting for you at the finish line. It’s fighting every single day with bloody knuckles and an even more battered heart hoping that someone will be there to make everything worth it, everything okay. Then you realize that you’re standing on your own with absolutely nothing to show for yourself or all your struggles. Then you're responsible for picking up those pieces of your own emotions solo. But they're broken pieces that never will be the same or fit together "just right" any longer.

Metaphors aside, there’s not really anything good or at the very least, fulfilling, that comes from falling in love with someone who you know deep down will never truly love you back.

It’s purposeless. It’s empty.

It leaves you completely hollow.

Loving someone, really truly loving someone, who cannot and will not love you back isn’t something that will make you stronger. It can teach you a lot of things, but make you stronger? Not really. No matter which way you paint it, whatever beautiful embellishment you try to put onto your own cliché unrequited love, of rose coloured glasses.

Because the number one thing you learn when you love someone who doesn’t love you back?

It’s that sometimes, love really isn’t enough.

Loving someone, and continuing to love someone who will not love you back isn’t brave. And it isn’t strong. While there is something to be said for having a big heart and having the capacity to give pieces of yourself to people who don’t, and don’t deserve to, appreciate you, holding onto them when they aren’t holding back isn’t brave or strong or good.

It’s self-destructive.

Because deep down, truthfully, that’s what loving someone who you know will never love you back really is. It’s dousing your core in gasoline, handing them the match to see what they’ll do, and setting everything on fire yourself when you realize that they’re indifferent about what does or does not happen. And the longer it takes you to realize that that’s the case, that you’re responsible for your own entire wreckage, your destruction, the longer it will take you to scoop up your own ashes and rebuild yourself when you finally come to your senses.

Hollow.

That’s what trying to fill yourself with someone who doesn’t truly love you is. It’s empty. It’s unfulfilling. It’s hollow.

It will do nothing but frustrate you, fail you, and leave you standing there with nothing but the remnants of a you, you don’t even recognize in your own hands.

Because that’s the cost of loving someone who does not, and will not love you back.

You.

You won’t lose this person who you’ve idealized, who you’ve loved unrequitedly. You won’t miss out on “what could’ve been” and you won’t fail to jump onto a train that was maybe heading your way. You won't be sad that the ship you were about to board has already sailed. You won’t find yourself gring at the fingertips of anyone else, because the only person you will have failed to truly hold onto is YOU.

You.

So what does it honestly mean to love someone who doesn’t love you back?

It means losing you, losing yourself. It means letting go of things that may be actually tangible, and favouring something you will never actually hold close. It means putting a fantasy in front of your own reality, fragments in front of your own holistic life.

Loving someone who will not love you back is quite simply, a waste of your precious, precious time.

So what do you do? What do you do when you find yourself sitting there, attempting to justify and make sense of someone else’s ambivalence and your own inexplicable need to love them when they haven’t asked for it or earned it?

You let go. You move on.

No matter how hard it is, no matter the struggle. No matter how much you want to cling to them, and no matter how much you feel like you love them.

You have to let them go.

Because in letting them go, you know who you’ll get to hold onto instead?

You.

And that’s the only thing you’ll ever really need, anyway. Love yourself first.

To forgive someone who hurt you is easy but to trust them again is next to impossible.

I often wonder...how I survive being alone and unowned. While this is something I need in order to function, I continue to go through life in mediocrity. It is the sacrifice and suffering I have chosen to make in order to meet a distinguished man whom it would make it all worth it. Choosing to submit to a man does not derive from a want, or need that I have. Rather, an individualized desire of my true nature.

How long has it been since someone touched part of you other than your body?

Sometimes solutions aren't so simple Sometimes goodbye's the only way

Our bodies have five senses: touch, smell, taste, sight, hearing. But not to be overlooked are the senses of our souls: intuition, peace, foresight, trust, empathy. The differences between people lie in their use of these senses; most people don't know anything about the inner senses while a few people rely on them just as they rely on their physical senses, and in fact probably even more.

Taken from a Dominant's profile: "I like subs with attitude. I don't want an empty shell, i want a person with all of her good and bad sides. I want a person that is willing to share fears, wishes, fantasies... I want a submission to be given, not taken or forced. I want a person that will enjoy submission, that will let me know her good enough so every action can be a pleasure for both." A man who actually 'gets it' in my mind anyway..

"You gave him everything you had: your time, your love, your everything. In return, he played the role of a good man until his price went up and he wanted more from you. So, you gave him more. But that still wasn?t enough, was it? Because when it?s the wrong man, nothing you do will ever be enough. He?s a parasite. He will continue to suck the life out of you until you are completely drained of all your money, all your confidence, all your self-esteem, and then he?ll leave you. You have the power to stop him. It?s often a hard decision to leave a man you think you love, but in the end, it may not be that you actually love him. It may be that you love the man he ?used to be? or the idea of the man he ?could be.? Either way, that?s not the man he is."

Something evil this way comes Sure as the rising of the Son A single heart left to bleed A lost soul with a dying need When love proves it doesn?t care In creeps darkness and despair Angry voices from deep with-in Scream I?m a fool once again I now make my soul like a cave It?s the darkness that I now crave Around my heart I shall build a moat With blood sacrifices unto the goat Deep in darkness as a soul can be Father of darkness come feed on me He destroyed the love in my soul I do pray that hate fills up the hole

The hottest place in hell is reserved for those who remain neutral in times of great moral conflict.

Like a small boat On the ocean Sending big waves Into motion Like how a single word Can make a heart open I might only have one match But I can make an explosion And all those things I didn't say Wrecking balls inside my brain I will scream them loud tonight Can you hear my voice this time?

Some thoughts... When someone really cares about you they make an effort, not an excuse. Don't feel sad over someone who gave up on you, feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them. Sometimes the strongest among us are the ones who smile through silent pain, cry behind closed doors, and fight battles nobody knows about. It's funny how sometimes the one you'd take a bullet for is the one behind the trigger. It is during the worst times of your life that you will get to see the true colours of the people who say they care of you. Don't waste your time on revenge, those who hurt you will eventually face their own karma.

Haha! I am baking cookies tonight, I must be happy. The other stuff...just ask my ex

A candle burns at both ends Fire-racing flame My mind is cluttered full of lies all of your answers sound the same I looked up to you with honest eyes I trusted you with my heart But it seems that when I gave it to you all you did was tear it apart The wick is disappearing quickly now Someone please tell me what to do The flame is about to be blown out and so is my love for you The wick is even smaller our love is fading fast. The once burning candle has become part of the past Now I know we're not meant to be there is nothing I can say or do My mind tells me it's over but I'm still in love with you

Be a Dom, not a bully. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to do, especially if they feel strongly for their reasons and it would hurt them tremendously. Bullying only pushes someone further away. A true Dom stands strong, and present during a woman's emotional storms. He is able to voice his opinion while also showing compassion to mine. Not act out in rage or anger, but remains calm.

I remember years ago Someone told me I should take Caution when it comes to love I did And you were strong and I was not My illusion, my mistake I was careless, I forgot I did And now when all is done There is nothing to say You have gone and so effortlessly You have won You can go ahead tell them Tell them all I know now Shout it from the roof tops Write it on the sky line All we had is gone now Tell them I was happy And my heart is broken All my scars are open Tell them what I hoped would be Impossible, impossible Impossible, impossible Falling out of love is hard Falling for betrayal is worst Broken trust and broken hearts I know, I know Thinking all you need is there Building faith on love and words Empty promises will wear I know, I know And now when all is gone There is nothing to say And if you're done with embarrassing me On your own you can go ahead tell them

Train your mind to see the good in everything.

I cannot trust a man to control others when he cannot control himself.

Cheating on a girl is deeper than most people realise. It destroys her outlook on love, her future relationships, and her peace within herself.

If you do not love something, then it does not belong to you. For it won't be long, until you destroy that something, exactly because, you do not love it.

Dominant negativity cheats reality of its mutual positives.

There are things we don?t want to happen, but have to accept. Things we don?t want to know, but have to learn. And people we can?t live without but have to let go.

Nothing can seem so fixed yet change so quickly like human emotion.

The worst feeling in the world to me, is feeling unloved. That is how I feel right now. It's a feeling I can't get over, move on from..sadly it will always be there. I probably shouldn't be on this site anymore, but unfortunately I have no where to go.

To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.

I was sick of restrictions, sick of the boundaries, about to close the door
Such a lack of conviction, no real connection, what should I settle for?
But you caught my attention, you built on the tension, and you left me wanting more
Now I don't know what to do with myself, do with myself
I don't want nobody else

I let you in, I let you in and you infected me
Can't get enough of you, Can't get enough of you
I breathed you in, I breathed you in and now I'm in too deep
Don't think I'm pulling through, Don't think I'm pulling through
Can't get enough of you, Can't get enough of you

Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

A gentleman holds my hand.
A man pulls my hair.
A soulmate will do both.

Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I need it the most.

My new favourite word is titillate.

One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax.

One of the hardest decisions you will ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder.

Perhaps the rubber does not meet the road until they reach the highway...

The best feeling in the World is to know that you actually mean something to someone.

Don't be afraid of losing someone who doesn't feel lucky to have you.

I'm sad today. All my journal entries disappeared. :(

Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer give a damn.

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