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I first read something last night that I've wanted to find a way to express for years.  I'm decent with words so this was a gem for me to find.

So many dominants think they are dominant when really they are service tops.  They mislabeled themselves.

What I get pleasure from and get off on doesn't work IF your primary motivation is to please me or you do what I want you to do.  

"I get off on you getting off" does NOT get me off.  

Another journal entry.  I encourage anyone who wants to know more about me or what I seek to read them.  My profile was basic so it would become active.  

I often wonder how often people have cock/pussy on their mind. More then me or less then me?  Do some never think about it?  

I also often wonder if someone had someone willing to fuck anytime they wanted how frequently would they want to?  Being a woman I'm less reliant on specific things working.  I can theoretically spread my legs, insert cock, fuck.  I dont have to have an erection to fuck.  I dont even have to be turned on for a dick to find its release inside me.  I dont think it's quite the same for men.  They can't always go round after round.  It may take 10 dicks just for 1 woman to get enough.  Or more.  Lol

Hello.  Hi.  You happened by my profile. 

I think I'm just an average woman who happens to not shy away from searching out what she desires.  Am I a sub?  Yes.  Am I a slut?  Yes I am that as well.  I happen to also have a slightly masochistic streak in me.  I am many other things but those are fairly irrelevant within the context of my purposes here.  

I am real and sincere about what I seek.  I wonder if that's common?  Oh wait.  It's not that many aren't real or sincere they just seek attention and other things. Not actual experiences in real time.  Some do but many don't.  Which you find in droves both with women and men.  So I typically reply to those who have similar goals in being here.

Have I been a sub before?  To be clear sexually I am naturally submissive and yes I've had a couple doms over the years.  A role I treasured because it is so difficult to find the right dom.  

The right dom for me craves control.  Not the micro managing kind.  Not old school types with a bunch of rules and routines ahd (shudder) honorifics.  One who recognizes I am a fully capable woman who simply enjoys allowing you to use me to enjoy your own selfish and perverted proclivities. One that seems strangely foreign to men.  That's how it appears at least.

My interests or what I will do are so vast.  There are certainly things I won't as well.  Your best approach is to simply share what you desire.  I won't demonize you for your desires.  I just may not always be the right person for them.  Keep in mind if you don't have any or cannot share them you don't need me.  Lol. Also the more basic and common they are to me signal too safe of a reply.  

I have to run for now.  I'll add more later.

I tend towards being an opportunistic slut. I would also love to find an ongoing partner but that is like seeking a needle in a haystack.

I really like to fuck. Feeling cocks inside of me feels good. Stranger dicks even better.

I say opportunistic because I don't fit into the classic mold too well. I am not a tease. A game men seem to like. I am not an attention whore or classically an exhibitionist. I do not do the hair, makeup, etc...what a waste of time. I am also a tad dense and oblivious. I like assertive men and really you have to be because it will go over my head.

I have different interests.  Some blend into each other but others can operate independently.

When I am a slut I am not your sub unless I am your sub and you choose to use me as your slut.  Does that make sense?  Men tend to forget that.  They also mistakenly believe that sluts will fuck anyone and exist solely to please them.  That's what whores are for.  Which I am not.  I am in it for MY pleasure.  If I do not reply or opt out it is because I either do not foresee my needs being met OR that I don't share the interests that you desire.

Ultimately I'd like to find that needle in a haystack.  One whose drive matches my own and has enough compatible freedom and time for something ongoing.  

A dominant needs to recognize I am a slut. I'm not a little or a bimbo or brainless.  In fact I'm quite capable of being a fully functional adult. Lol  I don't need "help".  What I do want is a dominant who likes control and enjoys fulfilling his primal and sometimes twisted desires with a sub who will defer to his whims and needs.

So what are my interests?  I would say I have a core set and additional ones that arise with someone I may meet.

I like nipple/breast play/torture.  I like being restrained.  I like a swollen pussy and marks.  I like anal.  I have a decent pain tolerance and I do enjoy some types.  I am not what one would call a pain slut.  Pain for me is correlated to pleasure.  I would love to be shared.  Use me wherever and whenever.  I love wearing cum.  Throat fuck me, gag me...you can be pretty brutal.  I am not into cock worship or endless oral.  Youve heard of lactose intolerance?  I have a semen intolarance so I cannot drink it down.  <----100% true.  I cannot change that and the side affects are identical.  

I am open to so much more but I am not bi.  No women or couples.  No scat.  Don't even mention eating pussy because no you won't make me like it.  

Clearly this is a sexual type relationship.  I am married as ive stated so looking for those who need someone more for their own perverted/kinky fun.

Other questions?  Ask.  

I want to clarify my relationship status so no one is caught off guard.

I am and have been in an open relationship for years.  He is not a part or aware of what I get into with other men.  He knows my kinks but does not share them.  Vanilla as they come.  He agreed long ago to let me pursue my fun and to be happy being me.

Therefore while I have and will be involved with someone ongoing I also do one offs.  I seek play partners and no one should expect more to come of it.  Play partner being a catch all term for sub, slut, toy, etc...

Also I have a profile with the same name on fetlife for those who want to learn more.  

Woo-hoo approved.  I kept it fairly safe cause I've heard of so many others having issues.

As stated I was around when it was collarme.  Probably 2005 until it went poof.  So thrilled to see this new site.

I did in fact meet quite a few men from that site over the years.  Some were one offs.  Some were play partners for a while.  Some we just weren't as compatible in person.  

I do my best to avoid the latter issue by getting to know someone enough prior to meeting.  Ensuring our wants and needs are both going to be met and that expectations are realistic.  If someone cannot engage my mind prior to meeting I already know that won't happen magically just because we do meet.  

I am genuinely a kind person.  I can come across bitchy because of my writing style and bluntness.  I also do not have much patience for those who will not read and are here due to boredom or for me to entertain them via writing and pics.  I am looking for real time meets.  That is all.

I do lean submissive.  I love being used.  I am not an idiot or a brainless child.  I am a slut first who also happens to be submissive. If "training" is in your repertoire move on.  That's a game I'm not into.  I'm also not into submissive men or switches.   I am simply not attracted to them.

I want people to reach out but please be interested in real time and local.  If men would respect what women want I think both our experiences on this site would be so much better.  

I will post more and get into the good stuff.  Take care for now!