Like most REAL couples and singles that have been in this lifestyle more than a decade (in our case even longer), we find it important to share the changes in our living, evolving, profile to make it simple for those that don't read past the intro.

What we are NOT seeking:

1. We are not swingers or interested in one night stands at your favorite swinger club.

2. We are not porn actors looking to entertain travelers or have a manual or playbook read to us of how sex and D/s should play out in order to meet your fantasy, bucketlist item, or expectations.

3. We are not seeking some long distance digital dating relationship based on email picture exchanges, cyber, skype, snapchat, or phone text.

What we ARE seeking:

1. A unique bisexual female, transgender, or couple that possesses the unique ability to see the future beyond play and is open minded, and able to grow from a simple friendship into something long term and intense. Polyamorous comes to mind but we are not the Woodstock free love buffet type. We like our partner/s to be very selective and not necessarily trying to enjoy all of Baskin Robins flavors of the world.

2. A unique mindset that does not see D/s as a cookie cutter type relationship with predefined roles that are set in stone. The ability to evolve and grow with us is critical. We've been at this a long time and we still evolve and grow and open our perspective.

3. Since we are a couple, we do need a poly minded soul/s that seeks to make this a lifetime adventure with both of us, not a fantasy. This requires a lot of chemistry because our search is very unique, and we are 2 very strong personalities, so patience and communication are vital.

Seriously, we are no longer in our 20's and 30's and we're looking to settle down. Our debauchery is far from over but we'd rather invest our time in something REAL that pays long term dividends with one couple.

If you feel something we said rang a bell, reach out to us and we'll reply.

As far as our unique personalities, I (Wife) am a bi switch hypersexual nympho but I don't play with women just to put on a show or mentor the curious. As far as men, I am not a size queen and prefer the total package of a smart, confident, classy, HWP, clean-cut man (no beards and shaved or trimmed downstairs) and loves slow kissing and is not afraid to grope or fondle me on a first date, with lasting stamina in bed.

NOTE: I am very selective of my male playmates and want to see plenty of pics so I can make the decision without asking for pics 3-4 times. Profiles with no CLEAR face and body pics of the husband or 1 ry pic of the husband  or just a glorious cock close up = no reply and no date. We put all our cards on the table with plenty of pics of both of us and expect the same of other REAL couples/singles with experience in the lifestyle that understand the nature of this physical sport and aren't here to play picture mystery games.

Hubby is a fitness trainer and sexual submissive who is attracted to extroverted, bossy, aggressive women (no shy, introverted, or submissive women) and loves to give full body massages. Husband is more interested in the mind fuck and intellectual connection than a perfect body. He has an intense foot fetish (his weakness), and is completely turned off by submissive, shy, or quiet types so if you really don't like to chat or text, pass us by because he isn't interested. He doesn't want to hear that your wife is a sexual lioness... but only after she meets and gets drunk! (not interested).

We are really not into wasting our time or yours, so if your email ignores our basics, you will not receive a reply.

That being said, we wish all the REAL people seeking something deeper than fantasy, the best of luck in your search. 

NOTE TO HUSBANDS OF COUPLES: Please make sure your wife has read our profile, likes our pics, understands our kinky sexuality, and feels the same. We are very respectful of couples and relationships and will NEVER meet you, the husband, alone.

We also bring NO jealousy, drama, or backdoor intentions so please leave it at home and above all, don't leave us stood up on dates.

MAJOR TURN OFFS: Orgies, Swinger clubs, Black men, BBC, gangbangs, shy, introverted, or submissive wives, cheating spouses, heavy drinkers or drug users, smokers, inactive people, or ANY type of drama.

IMPORTANT: WHETHER YOU ARE SINGLE OR A COUPLE. WE ONLY MEET TOGETHER. WE NEVER PLAY ALONE. NO ONE SITS NO THE SIDELINES WATCHING. THIS IS OUR SANDLOT AND IF WE INVITE YOU TO PLAY IT'S OUR RULES.