RuDomme4Me

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	About RuDomme4Me I seek a woman who I can admire, adore, please and serve.I am looking for a Domme of quality for my first time as a submissive. I have been involved in D/s my entire life, but as a Dom, mainly as a Pleasure Dom or Daddy Dom. However, I am tired of protecting, teaching, supporting, motivating, and caring for a submissive. They have all been disappointments, unable to meet their parts of the relationship. I'm done teaching basic adulting skills and giving without receiving back. I now realize that what I have been seeking is instead a woman who already has her life and herself in order, who knows what and who she wants from a man, a partner, her submissive. I seek a woman who wishes to have me and my abilities at her command, to enjoy the protection, strength, comfort, love, and partnership I give the woman I love and adore. I seek someone who is my equal or more intellectually, physically, in conversation, in interest in the larger world, education, broadmindedness, manners, in short a woman who deserves the adoration, service, and submission I will give her. She should be supremely self-confident so she can appreciate what an intelligent, dedicated, loyal, strong, and talented man can do for her and how to communicate her desires. I seek one who can clearly tell me what else she wants, both sexually and in the vanilla world. She needs to be able to say thank you and to show that she understands the devotion she receives. In the vanilla world I am take charge, natural leader, strong, and the one people look to for help and support. Former soldier, the primary parent for my children when their mother abandoned her responsibilities, teacher, mentor coach, literal savior of many during the pandemic. I am accomplished, possibly handsome, very masculine, strong and healthy. I am not looking for classic male submissive activities. I have no desires to be humiliated, cuckolded, sissified, let alone given corporal punishment, admonishment, or anything else like that. A look of disappointment is all I need. What I seek is as I said above, a woman I can admire and adore. I have plenty of self-discipline and know how to become a better version of myself. What I lack is a reason, a purpose, a person other than myself for whom I strive and work. I want to please you sexually and otherwise, make you happy, take care of you, protect you, take the burden of your world from your shoulders And, while this might sound a bit crude, and apologies in advance if it comes across that way, simply being female, having female reproductive organs, or breasts, or being attractive is not enough or justification for my submission. If you need to see your sub degraded of admonished move on, plenty of man who crave that.I have big strong arms and a great chest on which to snuggle, a world-class snuggler, USDA certified hunk of a man, gold medal kisser, and expert at oral pleasure. Nothing give me greater satisfaction than pleasing my woman to the point where she collapses or passes out and just wants to sleep on my chest. I love being teased sexually, forced to keep my natural male assertiveness and aggression in check until Mistress allows releases me from my either menta or perhaps physical restraint. I have been known to give orgasmic foot massages, and breast massages of the same caliber. Fit legs in nylon or silk are my kryptonite. The list of weaknesses goes on. I can and will relocate for the right person.

1/25/25

Are there Dommes of quality in New England or NYC?

As I have said in my profile, I'm nominally a dominant man, very much the take-charge sort of person, and have fully explored D/s as a MDom. I was hoping that there would be a few Dommes who could make my head spin, my heart race, and shift my libido into overdrive. Someone to make me want to throw caution to the wind and put myself in your hands, kneel and worship you.

Sadly, the landscape is pretty barren, barely out of school “dommes’ who want money, or others who wouldn’t catch my eye on the street.

Engage my mind as well as my libido and I will worship and please you as only a well-rounded, complete man can.

BTW, if your screen name has Goddess, or Mistress or other nonsense in it, we are not a good match! Likewise, if you start a conversation asking to be called any sort of honorific, then you don't have the same understanding of how D/s works.

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