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About DocMidnyte
I've been at this a long time. I've trained many slaves over the years, but now find that I'm seeking to train a new female. (Yes, females only!) I have taught at conventions, seminars, events all across the country over the years and I find that it's been too long since I have had ownership of my own property. I am firm, but fair. I seek to train you not only to serve me better, but to be able to achieve your full potential. I have delved into virtually every kink and fetish at some point, but don't necessarily favor all of them. For example, I am decidedly not into scat, blood play and a few others. I do have a very strong sadistic side, amongst other things. Yes, I am "Daddy" age, but that gives me decades of experience over these 20-something kids that think that just because they can swing a flogger, it makes them dominant, or Masters.
I will provide you a home, protect you and care for you as long as you serve properly. I will train you and make you more than you’ve ever been. In return, you become mine in every way. Expect daily training, use and discipline. I will give you a place with which to be able to embrace your true nature and purpose. Understand that I am not looking for an online relationship. My slave will ultimately be with me in real life as it should be. Throw off the constraints, emptiness, and shackles of your old life. Live as you were meant to be, as the property of a superior male. Message me and take the first step towards the true happiness that comes with living without fear or judgment over whom and what you were meant to be. |
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I've been asked many times over the years, what is the difference between a submissive and a slave? One could say, by common definition, that is submissive, gives up control, but only within the constraints of the bedroom. The submissive can set limits, boundaries and more. So, it's not truly giving up control, but they giving up of limited control within certain areas, usually limited to strictly sexual. The slave, on the other hand, gives up all control at all times, both within and outside the bedroom. Her limits may be observed by her or his master or mistress. But, they don't have to be. Furthermore, giving up of control usually applies to all areas of life, not just strictly sexual. Still, that can be seen as a rather limited definition.
if one truly wants to defined the difference between the two, it boils down to this. A submissive will give up control within the parameters of still satisfying her needs, wants and desires. A slave is able to sublimate her own needs, in order to put the needs of someone else before her own at all times.
That's the big difference. A submissive may give up control, even total control, but only within the duration of a scene, or a particular situation. A slave not only gives up control, but puts the needs of her master before her own at all times. A submissive can always say, "Not tonight. I'm not feeling up to it." A slave has no such options. Her place and purpose is to put the needs and wants of her Master ahead of her own, and if Master decides that he wants to use his slave, it's her place as a slave to meet and even exceed his expectations.
The problem is, with so many, having been raised with this being either fantasy or online role-play, combined with the Tinder culture expectation of "If this doesn't amuse me, I can just ghost him." It's becoming increasingly difficult to find those that truly have a slave mentality. So, those of you who are putting yourself out there as slaves, make sure that you understand the difference between submissives and slaves. Not only for your own benefit, but for the benefit of others as well. That way, no one's time is wasted, not expectations dashed and you'll be more successful at finding what it is you're truly looking for. |
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