LeavingLV

I keep putting off posting here but a few people keep reminding me so here’s a bit of an update on my life..

As my profile and prior journal entry says, I’m owned (full time and live-in) by a couple and part of their household. This position is a lot different than my prior ownership position but I was expecting that. I function as the alpha in the household but I’m inexperienced in that position so it’s been a steep learning curve. They have great faith in me and my potential so who am I to question that? ;)

The household is much more steeped in the harder core end of the BDSM spectrum. And by that I mean that it’s not just an occasional role play type thing or the D/s “lifestyle” thing with inane rule lectures or protocols and such. Well, to be fair, my prior ownership situation was similar in that way too but I was also in college at the time so there was a lot of time spent out of the house in the vanilla world. In large part, my decision to take on the position was because it was a more edgy and realistic situation than the more mainstream “lifestyle” stuff I’ve encountered.

I suspect this is going to get horribly hacked up here so I'll leave more until later...

 I suppose I need to update this along with my profile. As I said in my new profile, I am currently living in Virginia and owned as part of a household so I’m no longer looking. I only come here occasionally to chat with a few people I’ve come to know.

A lot changed for me at the end of last year when I moved here. This is only the second ownership situation I’ve ever been in. I have a scattered history with the couple who now own me so they aren’t a complete unknown but much of what is expected of me is very new. I am their new alpha and expected to manage the general household as well as some aspects of others that are brought in, either short term or long term. Their prior long-term slave left the household last month and they have taken on a new one, at least on a trial basis. I’m not sure if she’ll last but the mistress has faith in her becoming a permanent part of the household so time will tell I guess.

For those who were curious about my tech gig work, I took a couple months off and I’m starting some new work next month. It’ll be tricky balancing that with my household duties so I’m not putting much on my plate at first. On the plus side, since I don’t have any expenses here, all of what I take in can go toward investing my future. I guess that’ll be yet another new situation for me.. lol

Just a quick unpdate for those who follow me..  I've relocated and I'm reasonably settled in.  Lots going on for Xmas and NYE but that's kind of expected this time of year.  Right now I don't have a lot of time to be online so catching up to messages is tricky.  I expect that to get better in the new year.

Happy Holidays to all..  lol

Just a quick update for those that have been talking with me..  I'm leaving for my new home tomorrow and I'm not sure when I'lll get a chance to check in here with updates or to chat.  I might update my profile to reflect my new ownership status in a few weeks but I know that might make it disappear for an unknown time..  I haven't decided yet..  Anyway, I just didn't want you to think I disappeared if we've been chatting.  Have a great Xmas, I intend to..  lol

Can anyone out there suggest a good site for maintaining a blog about my journey?  I know I can write in my journal here but I'm not sure it's the best place to post stuff for people whi'd like to follow where things take me.  Does anyone use a site that they'd recommend??

I've been meanig to add some stuff in my journal but time has slipped away and I wasn't sure how many people read this stuff anyway. 

Anyway, I thought I should post here that I've found a live-in ownership situation so I'm no longer looking.  For now I intend to keep my profile here so that I can chat with some of the people I've met but I'm not sure how much time I'll put into keeping up with it.  I should probablly change the prolfe but around here that means it would disappear for an unknown amount of time so I think I'm just going to be leaving it for now. 

Ok, probably need to clear some things up with the insecure types out there.  Yes, I can read your msg wihtout opening it (sometimes anyway).  And yes, sometimes I will delete those messages if they say nothing that interests me.  Women on here get flooded with bullshit so if I don't quickly filter the pointless stuff out then I'll be here reading msgs forever.  And no, not answering even to say no thanks isn't impolite.  Saying no thanks to a lot of guys is just inviting them to argue the point.

So...  if you're serious and really think we might click then maybe you should say something that makes me think you've given it some real thought? 

To answer a question I keep getting asked...  I would absolutely LOVE to be able to relocate somewhere abroad but I'm looking for something REAL and legally moving to another country isn't just a matter of showing up at the airport :)  Seriously, I've explored this idea with a couple in the UK and it's just not realistic right now :(

Wow, serious flood of messages...? it's going to take a while to wade through all the crap :) lol

And btw guys, constantly sending message just says "desperate" and not "confident"...