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	About kinkycplreading 🦇You may call me Victor🦇 1950's household and BDSM, if I inflict the highs then I have the obligation for the comedowns. Cuddling, safe spaces, and emotional and physical support. Pretty self-explanatory, but if you can't engage someone's mind how the hell do you plan to engage their body? This lifestyle is a partnership, the Dom has to be a good and decent person. Providing rules, discipline, and authority. The sub is giving you permission to use and abuse them. Illnesses/Disabilities: PTSD, dyslexia and Hypertention. Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.

just surviving a heart attack puts a lot into perspective, currently off work while they get my blood pressure under control. So far it's been 2 months since I ended up in hospital following the heart attack.

There's only me now that my wife passed away a few years ago. We got into the lifestyle together both being dominant in our other relationships and so we went to munches, kink events and exhibitions. We'd watch the rope training, suspension bondage and anything else that took our fancy.

We were approached to start training submissive's initially just fem identifying and fem gender, but it progressed to subs/sissies and febboy/girls. They would live-in with us and train, kind of a course and they would leave with a certificate back to their owners.

Since she's passed, I've done it a few more times on my own keeping up the training. But the heart attack made me realize that when they leave it's just back to being me on my own again. Which i'm now seeing as sucks lol.

Didn't realise it had been so long since I'd visited the site, not looking for quickies or drop of a hat meets. Had my share of no shows or looking like i'd been catfished when the person turned up and look nothing like the profiles lol.

I am still here every now and again wanting something long term, serious to a point and meaningful. There are plenty of other sites if you want something that doesn't mean anything or to be more notches on bedposts. I've had my fill of that in my 20's!

Amazed by the amount of "live-in" requests I get sent to me from people who a. have never done it before and live hundreds of miles away and b. don't know what they would actually bring to that kind of relationship beyond the what they call sex aspect of it.

The last thing I let live-in with me was a cat I was house sitting for and it shat on all the carpets and had no concept of inside and outside behavour lol.

Forgive me if I'm not into shagging your arse or playing hide the sausage in your face. I'm dealing with a funeral and the grief that goes with it. The last thing I want right now is your pathetic messages wanting to be owned and abused.

If you can't understand that I'm going to say this as bluntly as I can, get a fucking life.

Have you had a threesome? One or two, mmf with the Mrs.
Do you like sex toys? I do, they are pretty.
Would you ever have sex with your best friend? I experimented as you do with a male friend who was transitioning m to f.
Something that will never fail to make you horny? Blood of course!
Favorite parts of the opposite sex? Legs all the way, lips, eyes.
Favorite parts on the same sex? Package obviously lol, smile, lips.

Questions:

Rough sex or soft? I prefer to mix it up depends on the partner.
Weirdest place you have had sex? Under the pier at Carolina Beach during the day.
Favorite sex position? Between a partners legs giving oral. Or from behind if they are strapped down.
Have you had any one night stands? Never I'm demisexual so what gets me going is a personal attachment. The thought of a stranger fills me with dread!
Have you had sex in a public place? Quite often. Restrooms, by a river bank, in a forest.
Have you been caught masturbating? I rarely touch myself. I have gone 12 years without after my wife passed.
How often do you have sex? If in a relationship I want it every few hours. If I'm not in one I don't at all.
Do you prefer giving or receiving oral? Giving, I'm a person pleaser.
Most embarrassing thing that has happened to you during sex? Adjusted position and gave accidental anal. Yeah not good!

So since I'm starting to look again for someone to bring into my dynamic i've had a few questions and statements as to why I am the way I am.

I have PTSD for a few reasons. 1 relates to this lifestyle we arranged a hotel meet when the Mrs was still alive. We met what we thought was one person in a hotel room. It turned out it was an ambush and 2 other men were hiding in the toilet. I was beaten unconcious and they took turns on the wife without lube or protection. Then when I was out and they had finished with her they went to work on me. I was left with internal bleeding, left for dead and issues with my backside shall we say.

So if I'm asking for patience or seem to take a step back, it probably has nothing to do with you as I do have flashbacks every now and again.

If we do arrange a meet it would be somewhere safe first and there will be safe words and someone around just making sure everything goes ok, they will leave when I feel comfortable.

If it ever does go to a 24/7 or prolonged meets, you may notice I do wake up in night terrors, it is to do with the above. I'd ask until I fully wake up just let me come around naturally.

I am the reason you check your phone, to see hoping I've messaged you or replied to your message.

You catch yourself breathing heavily as the need takes hold. You want me to be in your mouth, or to feel my breath on your skin. Long to have my hands on your throat or running up your legs.

Updates again, no longer outside of Bishop Auckland now nearer to Hartlepool and Peterlee.

No longer a couples profile, wife passed away so it's just me. Anyone who remembers meeting us from Reading, Durham etc please feel free to say hi.

Looking for play things, ideally the 1950's household where the wife/lady of the house stays home and takes care of the housegold chores. Man is king of his domain.

Also now looking for tv/cd/subs again, been time away for life but now actively looking.

Well, Partner Mistress Violet or Vixen, as some of you will remember her has decided enough is enough and that she no longer wants to devote any time or effort into this site and BDSM training.

Sorry to everyone who was interested in her.

SorryS

Well, seems like this place is full of time wasters and no-shows. Been stood up for the second time in what seems like 2 weeks.

If you can't be bothered to even turn up for a coffee, how do you expect to turn up for anything more meaningful?

Anyone else had that problem recently?

As of now, we no longer live in Berkshire, Reading, or Wingate. We now live just outside of Bishop Auckland and so would be looking for subs able to come meet here.

Although this is not set in stone, we would also travel to you, if expenses were met to enable you to have some fun with us.

Why does no one read profiles, we are in County Durham in the North East of England. When the profile was created, yes we lived in Berkshire.

However people move, times change. if you message us from London, make sure you can visit if we ask you to.

You messaged us, not the other way round. We do not travel, we accom. We are looking for male subs/female subs & TV/TS subs.

This is not a play thing, we live the life, we are in the scene.

Lady Violet

Well et again we've moved but now back to the North East of England. We're in County Durham back on our own turf and looking for play things.

Drop us a message and we'll see what we can do!

Meridion & Vixen

Well moved again... Now in lymington in hampshire... Sheesh will we ever find a place to stay for more than a few months?

Yet another life change... They become tedious and boring after a while!

Some people, why offer to meet then when you turn up not even offer to buy a drink? Is that too much to ask for? You want to be a sub or slave, be respectful it's only a pint of coke and glass of red wine... Cheapskate

Just tried another wannabe sub from here - turned out was a pretender wanting a bj. If you can't read the profile, check the interest section, don't bother us. We come as a couple and we dictate what happens during a session not you! Anyone viewing just wanting to wank off over images - do it online

If you want our time you have to prove you are worth it

You think just by messaging stating you're interested that we are going to jump to your beck and call? That isn't how this works!

We have simple tests to find genuine people worthy of our time. If you genuinely complete the tasks - you have our attention.

If not move on.

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