I'm a 49 yr old Domme and a BBW. I'm looking for a long term sub or slave that understands the need to combine bdsm an vanilla for equal balance. I'm strict but caring and affectionate. The sub could expect a best friend an confidant as well as Domme and partner. I believe in mutual pleasure an respect as well as trust honesty and open communication. I am Not looking for Married or Attached so please don't waste My time or yours. I am Not a Sadist so if your looking for one I'm not the Domme for you. All subs or slaves must be relocatable or local. Also not to be rude but please no subs 60 and over.