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Pan Male Switch, 44,  Tacoma, Washington
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sextoy1970 - Tacoma, Washington

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I am married and we are in a poly relationship.

So if that is an issue move on to the next profile and best of luck in your search.

We do have a poly type relationship however the play is separate. She has her boy toys and currently a longterm partner. We are no longer romantic together but are still great friends and life partners. She is not into women. We do have open communication and are not keeping secrets from each other.

I was dating to other married women however we had to step back i to just being friends for now while her family works on things that have come up in their lives.

I am looking for a woman for either a friend with benefits or possible long term relationship with.

I am bi-sexual but only bottom with men. I have also cross dressed in the past and might for the right partner.

Not looking for a male partner (wont say no to friends or possible benefits but not my primary focus) nor am I looking for a cross dresser but will consider the right transgender for a relationship.

I need a pic if you do not already have one on your profile.

I have experience as a sub as well as some experience as a dom. I want to explore my dominant side with a woman though can be a switch for the right partner. Guys I will only submit to and will not be your dom. Tried it and just not for me.

Message me and let me know how best to chat with you.











Last Online:


 Male Switch



 5' 10"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Male-Dom Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales



 Antique Shows



 Travel (Beginner)

 Anal Play

 Massage (Getting)

 Arcade Games


 Horror Movies


 Online RPGs

 Science Fiction


 Amusement Parks

 Bar Hopping (Expert)

 Beachcombing (Beginner)


 Coffee Shops

 Fishing (Beginner)

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Musical Theater (Beginner)


 Volunteerism (Expert)

 Bondage (Beginner)

 Breast Play

 Collars (Beginner)

 Crossdressing (Beginner)

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Gags (Beginner)

 Munches (Beginner)

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Public Play

 Role Playing (Beginner)

 Spanking (Beginner)

 Stockings (Beginner)


 Board Games

 Card Games


 Role Playing Games (Beginner)

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Curious About:

 Raves (Beginner)


 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Electrical Play



 Outdoor Bondage




 Goth Lifestyle





 Hard Limits:

 Knife Play

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Journal Entries:
4/17/2018 3:54:55 PM
I have talked to a lot of people. I have had some great conversations. The issue I have been running into as far as finding the right match is that there are so many who say they are interested in a contract relationship. 

The problem I am running into is that these people are not serious or are too far away to make the commitment. They get cold feet, stop talking, or decide that they are just not ready. 

I feel like I have invested time and energy into these conversations and perhaps my profile is not clear enough as to the things I am looking for. 

I just needed to rant. I do hope that those that contact me in the future understand that I am looking for someone who will commit to the contract dynamic along with everything that comes with it. Yes there will be negotiations before a contract is put in place. Yes the contract is not a legally binding document. Yes if you sign a power of attorney it can be canceled by you at anytime by law. 

So while the idea behind the contract is to have someone stay in the position it can be canceled or even changes negotiated. 

If you are going to talk to me and want to get into this scenario please make sure you are ready for it so you are not wasting your time or mine. 

I am cool with making friends, chatting, and even playing if that is what you want but be up front. We are all adults and we all have a reason we are here or a specific thing we may be looking for. Be honest and up front with your intentions and if we are not a match just say so. Don't be childish and ghost yourself.

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