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JohnSteed1998

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JohnSteed1998 - Male Dominant,  California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About JohnSteed1998

Part 1

Hello and thanks for taking the moment to learn more of me.? I'll be fleshing out this introduction more in the near future, but for now my hope is this will suffice for introduction purposes.... :)? BTW, if you you can identify the series related to my handle you get a bonus :)

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So, why am I here, succinctly, for friendship, kinship, and pleasure and perhaps more should the right chemistry be real.? Does that mean I am player, by all means no.? I've been involved with kink interests for over 30 years.? I am known in many parts of the kink community both domestic and internationally.? I well have the maturity and sense of self to say that I seek not to use others, only share and to enjoy on a mutual basis.? That is, I'm not here for selfish satisfaction, but rather for the possibilities of good connection.? Does that mean I desire to be only single or not to have a relationship, by all means no.? I have had many over the course of my life and even in a married relationship so it is well with in the cards but requires the right chemistry and person to make that happen.? In the mean time I delighted to know and share.

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So what about me.... well I've been in the past a professional dominant, though that concluded 15 years ago, so I'm well versed in the arts of ds, bd, sm.? I have engaged with ladies and couples to train both formally and informally.? The range has been from passionate to harsh, mental to physical, impact to sensory deprivation, to formal servitude and submission to slavery, from bimboification to ponygirl, slut to slave, from submissive to dominance training.? At heart though I am a dominant, I am a giver and sharer well able to lead but very comfortable with introduction of kink aspects and elements along with direct indulgences where experience is in place.? This with a keen respect of others, their relationships, discretion, and vanilla world we live in.? I've facilitated sceneing for photography purposes as well as delivered formal training seminars or classes both in the ds/bd arts and with fetish fashion. ? What this means is I for sure know my share, but will never claim to know it all.? All of this however is with in the realms of limits both I and who I am with, choose to have.? I have had the great pleasure of situations where my partner was dedicated to me or was married and was seeking experience or was requested by a couple to provide experience an training such that their relationship was preserved, or were single seeking to grow and learn.

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If you asked me what I enjoy, it is the sharing, the connection, the erotisim, certainly the pleasure.? If you asked me what are my pleasures, they range from a love of fetish fashion (leather, latex/rubber, pvc), especially when involved in play to the physical and mental aspects of bdsm pleasure.? I relish the dominant roll while being balanced and with the strength needed to draw from a partner the mutual pleasures we seek in the manner desired.? I enjoy the visual, emotional, and sensory pleasures with play.? My play, again with in mutual limits, can certainly stretch or introduce and can range from light to quite sincere, and sever if so desired.? How so? Well when I worked professionally, my clientele typically sought releases through certain approaches which matched to triggers they new or discovered during our time together.? As there was trust, things could be explored as there was always a reality of values in play.

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What values, well I do feel a dominant's responsibility is first safety and protection of a submissive.? Even in very harsh play circumstances, this is paramount. ? Included in this as well is straight honesty, and the ability to observe and listen and to support or provide leadership with confidence that is not cocky.

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As to what I am presently seeking, first LOL, a woman, not a girl.? Having a young hot body does not guarantee you know what you are doing or are even ready to explore.? It does of course visually stimulate but is not the requirement.? I well respect what other search and do not judge persons by that, but accept it and just honest in return.? I seek a person who is open, curious, sincere, honest, and real.? One is willing to invest faith and trust where it is earned.? A woman who enjoys eroticism, physical pleasures, sex, fetish fashion, mental play or role play, and just plain fun. ? I enjoy and prefer a woman, even of the most dominant of ladies.? And believe me when I say this, I am good friends with many who literally have written the book on dominance including in the most sadistic of manners. ? I am hetero. I do not seek at this point to rebuild a person or to assist with recovery.? I've done that and well appreciate the commitment it takes.? Candidly, I do not have it in me any more to do that.? So I seek a person with character, esteem, and balanced for the most part.

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I seek the company and opportunity to share and be with quality persons of any experience level that share mutual values and kinks and desires.? All I ask is for honesty, openness, candor, and character.

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I am happy to well offer further details and certainly images when conversations begin.? Out of respect of my Vanilla profession (we all have to keep roofs over our heads), I do not set my image here but will share it upon an interest to learn more.


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I hope you are intrigued, interested, and curious.? I'd be keen back at you and am ever forward to discovering more :)

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?Also I am a non smoker ? I would prefer you not be as well.



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My late wife whom I lost 10 years ago, loved bondage in many forms. On a trip to vegas I setup a situation to totally driver her mad..... We went out to a nice dinner very well dressed and a show. She attired as follows for it..... thigh boots well heeled, stocking with garters PVC Garter belt, a steel chastity belt no plugs, all under a leather mini skirt, tight strong pvc under bust corset well laced, pvc string bra, covered with a white satin blouse. She was my arm candy for the night. Needless to say she was whispering in my ear delicious thoughts, needs, desires, and beggings to be used. Being so bound and restricted via the chastity belt meant she was not able to effectively finger herself in the booth as we ate and had to endure the knowledge that I controlled her sex and its release. When we retired after some gambling and teasing by both of us, once in the room she seductively stripped her shirt and begged me to release her, i made her spread against window in the hotel room and released her chastity and held her firmly by the hair and ravished her to my pleasure..... that evening she stayed booted and corseted and skirted but bound at the feet and wrists... I took her 2x more that night and she crawled on me begging for cock and talking about how much she was made into a object of sexual pleasure.

As an enticement Here are two decsriptions that I is did actually did perform and enjoy. That are not requirements, but a reflection of creativity and strength and fun. Perhaps these may motivate your interest

 

Tale 1 Years ago I was working professionally as a Dominant. My clientele typically were well off, all female, and seeking release from their careers. One in particular was seeking to be very much brought down in a submissive manner so that she could see herself and decide if that submission needed to be part of her life. One weekend, and yes, it was a stormy winter night, I went to her palatial home as arranged. The mood was to be very dark and I was to be dominant and very unyielding. She had only one way out of any situation, that was to ring a bell tied around her hand. That said, she was prepared for depths of dominance...... upon arrival, she was awaiting as instructed. Leather slave harness, well heeled thigh boots and kneeling in the entry way. I asked her if she was prepared and ready... she said yes. I placed my bag down, ball gagged her from behind, and clamped her nipples. She had a fine body and was already aroused. I place a posture collar on her and leashed her and made her follow me to her special room. Over the course of our encounters she had setup her own dungeon in her own place. There I stood her facing me and bound her limbs to the cross tightly. I then roped her to the cross at various points of her body so that her weight could be taken. For the next 2 hrs about, if flogged her, vibed her, made her orgasam at my will, and did what I wanted with her until she collapsed in her bondage. She knew this was the goal. After 2 hrs She was exhausted and emotional.... still though, she was defiant in verbiage to me as I worked with, but I always at all times called her how on her defiance and punished her for it. Seeking to drive her to submission forcibly was the mutual desired goal. In the end she did yield, where upon I released her and made her kneel properly holding by her hair roughly to the position. I removed the gag, and place a tight pvc hood upon her and regagged her with an in mouth penis gag. I then took her to a floor stock where she was bound and restricted at the arms, body, neck. I then plugged her ass with a plug and then placed a lubed fucking machine dildo in her and switched it on..... I told her she had to endure 2 hrs of forced fucking by an unyielding mechanical device or until she admitted she was a worthless cunt that was good only for fucking. This was a trigger phrase for her that she knew if she said it would allow her to descend mentally to the state she wanted to discover...... I sat in a chair and enjoyed controlling the unrelenting machine using her...... Interesting enough she lasted only one hour where upon sweating, and having orgasamed 5 times she begged for mercy and said her phrase and rang the bell in a believable manner. I release her and sat back in the chair an watched. She crawled to me..... rubbing her face against my boots, but pointed to her gag to be removed..... I did, and she at her own initiative said she was now truly a fucktoy, and cumslut slave craving only the release in submission she so desperately wanted..... I permitted her to orally pleasure me to seal the deal in her mind.

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