I know this sounds harsh but due to all the players it has to be said...

dont bother to message me if you are here for a quick hook up, mind games, players, people that have no idea what BDSM is and even ones that think you may know ...first I am in a monagamous relationship and it will stay that way. Ive been here for years. i know all the games and the attempts at control and topping from the bottom or pretending to be whatever to get what you need ...i am real and i have real friends. I also have great knowledge about bdsm in all ects and have experience. I am not seeking to partake in the lifestyle with anyone else other than who I am already in a relationship with. Im not here because i need anything other than just to be here. my reasons for being here have nothing to do with trying to be with anyone else. REAL convo is hard to find and most people pretend and as soon as they find out they cant get anything from me that they need they stop talking.   Im here im not leaving the site . I want to be here . 

what really gets my attention is honesty and real ...no masks... just real honest open people who are not trying to get what they can out of another person with no care about them what so ever  ...

I am so happy that the journals are back here !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I enjoyed this part of the site over the years more than any other part. 

I thought i was dreaming when i noticed the link to the side with the word JOURNAL.

I though this must be a joke or it cant be back and boom its back. 

I have been here since 2009 off and on and i used to journal everyday. It was where i kept all my thoughts. 

It is an immediate way for us all to communicate and see what we are all doing. 

There are many real people here . 

I dont know if this will be saved immediatly but I am hoping its saved live...that was one of the best features of being here.