Dominanceismine

So one day you find you have lost the one thing that makes you whole.

Taken without rhyme or reason.

You devote your life to other aspaspects. Your daughter, work, your home…

She grows up and begins her own life. Work was good and helped you live a good life.

But suddenly you find yourself in a quiet moment and the darkness swarms in.. you miss the control.

You miss the power.

You use the tenderness.

You miss a touch.

But the world you knew has changed. You’re expected to be brash and expected to put your life out there for all to see.

I had intimacy. I have safety. I have protection and received absolutely devotion.

I took when I desired, and I held when she cried. Why can I not find someone who wants the same?

And no I am not trying to replace her, or cling to a lost memory of control.

I mean why has the world changed so much, that just wanting more than play is seen as old fashioned.

wow.

So when did we all decide as collective kink, that being called something, gave us the right to do as we chose?

We must earn our place, our trust, our forever.

Is anyone in the UK actually looking for a real relationship (did we all start to forget that part of a D/s relationship?)

Or are they all mer looking for the moment?

I believe some people need to be reeducated.

A female switch.

a female switch who is taking instruction from their dominant is and always shall be submissive, let's not kid ourselves, it is submission.

a male switch? 

ha. Truly deluded.  Once a man kneels, he is less, less than her, less that his male superiors, less than all that breath.

know the truth. Know your place and accept reality.

too harsh?? So is having to read inane spouting from something that has no choice, no rights, no place.

have a wonderful day. 

xan

So where do we define the line or absence thereof in some cases, of the distinction between want and need?

why do we feel that our wants are simply not enough and our needs take over?

Or are we as a species incapable of removing want? Do our little daily prejudices, our attractions, our little pecadilloes always seep into our needs?

And if this is the case, are you truly able to give everything, to remove all self for another's desires and needs?  Or is it merely a game of who can play the better need?

A lifetime of experience and wonderful adventures.

knowing myself and what I am came to me at acrelativy early age for most Dominants, and I flew, learning all o could, taking what I desired, creating d destroying with equal care, control and what to some made seem cruelty.

i have never asked, but always understood the responsibility of that honour.