yourgirljoy

I have been asked to update my journal and my relationship status since its been a few years. 

I am polyamorous. I believe in multiple loves, multiple relationships, communication, trust and respect for everyone involved. I currently have my own submissive whom I've been with for 10 years. He lives with me and does not expect to be included in my exploits.

I love being poly. I have so much of myself to give.  I am looking for a Dom of my own. 

If you have any questions and would like me answer them here in my journal please feel free to write me. 

I'm flattered by all the letters I get from those of you who are out of state. I am not looking to relocate. I as my profile states am looking for someone local.

I've been asked a lot about being poly and I thought I'd make a note here about it.

I am polyamorous. I believe in multiple loves, multiple relationships, communication, trust and respect for everyone involved. I currently have my own submissive whom I've been with for 7 years and a vanilla boyfriend I've been with for two. They both live with me. They date seperately and neither of them expects to be included in my exploits (IE we DON'T DO threesomes) 

We practice a "kitchen table" type polyamory where we have this cozy, happy little household where everyone gets along with everyone else. We often invite our partners and dates over for little wrestling parties (we're all huge WWE and AEW fans) and Cards Against Humanity. 

I love being poly. I have so much to give. 

If you have any questions and would like me answer them here in my journal please feel free to write me. 

your girl joy

ON DDLG

So I promised to write a bit more about DDLG. 

I have had a Daddy before. I love the safe, secure feeling of being little at daddy's feet. I love my coloring books and lap time. 

I love a daddy who is firm but fair and fun. I'm definitely not into the mean, sadistic type but more of the caretaker who says good girl and holds me close rather than seeking excuses to punish.

I'm a pleaser both as a little and as a submissive. I seek to please and get upset to the point of tears when I disappoint. Funishment is one thing, but I'm not a brat, I don't push, and I don't LIKE to be punished. I strive to be your good girl. To hear those words when ever I can. 

babygirl is my favorite term of endearment. slut is a close second. 

I hope this helps to understand what I mean when I say I'm a little. I answer questions, just feel free to ask me. 

Eclipse

Pendulous in darkness

Stagnant in twilight.

Alone amid the stars.

Is anyone out there?

Does anyone feel me?

Am I alone?

yourgirljoy 2021

ABOUT ME:

I'm quirky, blunt, fun, wild, and just a little shattered. My days are sometimes too dark, sometimes too bright, and my nights are sometimes way too long. I am often strangled by my own insecurities as much as I am my over confidence. I require attention, long for passion and wish to be desired, to be lusted after, to be romanced darkly. I use music to speak when words fail me. but words are as important to the writer in me as the air I breathe. I am manic, overly optimistic and a dreamer who finds one beautiful thing about every day, no matter how bad it seemed. And even with all my flaws, even though I am difficult at times, I am worth every second.

So many letters. I'm trying to answer them all so please be patient.

So many amazing people from all over the world! I'm making new friends fast.

But where are the Dominant men in Illinois. Are they shy? 

tune in for the next journal, where I'll be talking a bit about DD/LG and where I fit in with that catagory. 

your girl joy

So many letters asking about the intro quote in my profile. Nope, it's not from a book. I wrote it. For all those who are asking, here's the full version:::

That sweet girl, with the world in her soul, the heart of it on her sleeve, tears like diamonds never shed for the pain of the world felt too sweetly. She holds it all, your dreams, your desires, and the ability to take your darkest fantasies and make them whole. She is strength of spirit, and her soul flies free above you. You can take her to arm, like a falcon coming to roost, but you will never tether this feather of sunlight. Yet, fragile is this creature. As if to say, all your words were glass in delicate hands. One false word, and the glass shatters, shards of bloody pain amidst her fragile fingers. Oh, speak you the truth, that her gentle hands stay soft and her eyes glow for you. Speak you the truth, that the world, your world, not shatter and leave her with glow extinguished. Rather let her fly, admiring the curve of her as she soars, knowing that it is to you she returns, that sweet girl, to let you glimpse the heart of it all deep within falcon green eyes." 

by yourgirljoy 2022

I think I'll use my journals to clarify a little bit more about myself for a while. Talk about what I'm looking for and what I'm not without having to update my profile constantly.

To start with:   I am polyamorous. I am in a committed relationship I won't be leaving anytime soon. If you have a One Penis Policy or can't handle poly, best to move on.

what should I write about in my journals? Write me with suggestions! 

PLEASE BE FROM ILLINOIS or a driveable distance

I have a medical condition that has temporarily prohibited me from driving. You'll need to travel to me.