Sweetdahlia

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fyi- fish, alcohol, or x rated images as your profile, I'm not your gal.  Thank you and happy adventures!!!

Absolutely no idea where this came from but it resonates so profoundly!

The Equalitarian Dom: Is one who controls by teaching, mentoring, and leading. This Dominant knows that when he finds a comparable submissive that things will happen as a natural progression of the interaction. Usually just a short learning phase is required to receive the correct response from the submissive. Both the Dom and the sub “get it”, there is very little need for so called “training” and they naturally know what the other needs and seeks.

The Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. Besides the activities (sexual and others) it is the surrender as a result of the Domination that is the drive and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. 

They tend to intellectualize and be more into the philosophical and psychological mechanisms of this life style. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many rules like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities of the Authoritarian, preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She “wants” to submit as a result of the Dominant’s knowledge and skill in dominating her, as well as in life.

Sensuousness is the rule. Pain is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light pain as opposed to severe. Sensuous torture is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must naturally be this way. These are the people who will claim to be “born that way”. They fully understand the concept of D/s, it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive that truly and naturally desires to please and who will observe and sense what it is that the Dominant is communicating; 

and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The “doing or saying without having to be told” type. The submissive begs easily and surrenders sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly.

These individuals usually form very intimate relationships. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen as well, and their attraction is based on a strong mutual respect. 

Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24/7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders is a great source of pride, satisfaction, and loving. They are the opposite side of the coin from the Authoritarian. Whose pride, satisfaction, and love come from strictness and forbearance.

Warrior Worship, Service Sub for Service Members, Active Appreciation, Value of Veterans, Uniform Unicorn.  However it is described, there must be a clarification made.  

For some it’s nothing like the badge bunny!  It’s not how You look in the uniform.  It’s not that chicks dig scars.  It’s definitely not the rowdy stories of conquests.

It’s YOU.

For some of us it is a deep and authentic appreciation for what You have given.  The strength and fortitude, commitment and valor.  The sacrifices, costs, tolls, consequences, all that You have dedicated.

i am deeply and absolutely grateful for Your Service.  

THANK YOU

May You be Worshipped, Cherished, celebrated, honored, appreciated, All day every day!