Seeking an open-minded, trustworthy, playfully sincere Dominant personality yet with the capacity to be a stern demanding disciplinarian at times, to whom one day I can eventually assist in making our mutual experience memorable as often as possible. Ideally I would like to find someone with whom I can explore D/s with in a full manner as possible as I don’t know the full extent of my limits yet but as of now I'm not into blood, needles, permanent marking, feces and sounding scares me.  For the most part events and outcomes are not as important to me as the journey, as in I'm not looking for personal sexual hedonism through a fetish check list but a true connection with a Dominant(s) that fosters evolution for both parties through trust, honesty and kinship.  However ultimately the deeper over all commonalities I feel with a Dominant, the more I am drawn toward total surrender during play.  Although, I must confess I adore, desire and crave the experience, maturity & ultimately deeper levels of intimacy found with older partners, where resistance evaporates. Most of all I enjoy the company of people who are happy, healthy, intelligent and unconventional, whose ideas of fun aren't on the beaten path and who don't live their lives as society dictates just because others think they should. Secondly I would like to meet a wide variety of interesting and intellectual people both locally and in the cities I travel to regularly to both socialize with & continue my refinement with (women, men, couples, transgender, aliens from other planets, doesn't matter…) Those experienced with life in and outside of the lifestyle, fun confident people who know what they want and are confident with their kink! Not looking for endless chat or online service but real time with those of like mind.  I'm stable and independent in my everyday life, travel several times a month to various locations for work and enjoyment and only seek online communication as a gateway to real life interaction. Safe, sane and consensual partners only please, I am drug and disease free and am intent on staying that way. Thank you for your time and consideration.

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