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Male Submissive, 24, park forest, Illinois
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About Chrisin98003
HHi, I’m Chris.
In my professional life I’m a manager, and I enjoy leading and taking responsibility. But in my personal life, I’ve always leaned toward a relationship where my partner prefers to take the lead. For me, a friend, partner in a relationship isn’t about fantasy or constant intensity—it’s about structure, trust, and knowing that we each have roles that support the partnership. with that all said,
I am submissive- even slave and perfer that be my place in the relationship. Being submitive or a slave is not weakness, its the exact opposite in that it takes a lot of strength to give oneself to another and to give the other control.
I am not a big believer is switching as it can get compleicated and who decides to be the dom one day and sub the next, only way to go is to have clear roles within the relationship and i lean towards the sub side.
I believe every healthy relationship, whether traditional or not, is built on mutual respect. Both people contribute, both support each other, and both have a voice. But when decisions need to be made, I prefer a dynamic where my partner is ultimately the one who takes the lead—whether that’s choosing dinner, planning the evening, or navigating bigger life choices. It’s about teamwork, clarity, and exploring life together with shared purpose.
A bit about me:
• I don’t drink, smoke, or use drugs.
• I’m active with Weight Watchers and have made significant progress, with more goals ahead.
• I love travel, exploring new places, and revisiting familiar ones with someone who enjoys the journey as much as the destination.
• I work full‑time, and like many people right now, I’m navigating an uncertain economy and adjusting my retirement expectations.
• I’m looking for someone local—closer to Seattle is ideal—because real connection grows through time spent together, not endless messaging.
There’s much more to who I am, just as there’s much more to who you are. I don’t post photos publicly because of my career, but I’m happy to verify and share privately once there’s a genuine connection. I’m not interested in long email chains or endless texting. If we connect, I’d like to meet in person in a simple, comfortable, vanilla setting.
If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you and see if we share a spark.
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I have been on this site for years and see the same profile of ladies seeking a someone like myself. Contact is made, profiles viewed yet nothing. occassionally someone says hi and we exchange messages, and then nothing and i find that often times the dead air is asking for verification on where they live or interest that they have already posted in their profiles.?
So many ladies want to be in charge, they advertise they are dominant seeking a male sub/slave, thye want to take the lead, yet nearly all wait for the guy to make first contact and when it happens they ghost or get upset that an I was not dotted or T not crossed. I realize the ladies may get slammed by a lot of players espcially on a freee site like this one. But if you reallyh want to be in control, ignore the players and seek out us real guys, make the first move and follow through. You seek perfectionn from the first hello but that is impossible for anyone including the ladies making contact.?
We are two adults seeking to meet connect and build a relationship, if the only connection is BDSM the connection will be lost quickly. So my request is to stop searching for the ideal submssive and instead focus on building a relationship with said person and through your guideance and training help us /me to be perfct for you? |
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I have been on weight watchers for a few years, and I am happy to report I have lost 100 POUNDS!!!!
I have more to go,.
I would love to find someone that is also working to lose weight and be in better shape or someone that has and knows what it takes. Even better would be to have a friend to go walking with and support each other. having the other person be dominant would be even better to give me a push or a pull on the leash. |
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Another year is nearly over and what a year it has been, yet I continue to be on the search to find a partner. I continue to see the same profiles of people searching for a partner too, yet we are all stil single and searching, Why?
I have reached out to some, said hi and waited for a respnse back and nothing.
Many pf us here are close in age and all seeking the same thing. Some still love the games of making others jump through hoops, and others have set the bar so high that it wold be impossible for anyone to reach.
I'm seeking a partner to enjoy life with, explore and do things with as friends and more. Take the lead, stop being shy and say hi. What have you got to lose, other than another year searching for a partner and being alone
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