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Pan Male Submissive, 29,  Nyc, New York
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Greetings and salutations! I am open to a Ds LTR with a Female Dominant leading the way. Gainfully employed in Real Estate. This passionate, witty, and altruistic person strives to accomplish tasks with a humble but energetic attitude. Currently, not able to host but I am active in the local NYC kink scene. Looking forward to talking to you soon.











 Submissive Male


 New York

 5' 7"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

 Lives For:

 Anal Play


 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Body Worship

 Bondage (Beginner)



 Corner Time

 Genital Punishment



 Masks (Wearing)


 Orgasm Denial

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation

 TV Sports



 Alternative Music



 Atheism (Expert)

 Basketball (Expert)

 Football (Expert)

 Soccer (Expert)



 Foot Worship

 Housework Service

 Obedience Training


 Speech Restrictions

 Strap-Ons (Expert)






 Classical Music

 Nineties Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music




 Liberal Politics

 EMO Music

 Heavy Metal Music




 Online RPGs

 Political Activism

 Curious About:






 Eye Contact Restrictions



 Wax play

 Female Supremacy



 Local BDSM Community


 Hard Limits:


 Sitcoms (Expert)


 1950s Lifestyle


 Diet and Exercise

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard






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Journal Entries:
5/3/2016 3:52:43 AM
Another piece of important reading material..Hope you, dear reader enjoy..

4/15/2016 7:18:45 PM

The 5 food groups

  • Finances - Financial control has long been the domain of men, it is ultimate control of a relationship when a mate has no control they find it difficult to impossible to invoke change, take care of themselves or leave.
    • Free Time - Time doing what you want comes after the decision to make time for others, time together, time apart, time for our common interests, time with friends -- all take away from our free time. Free time also includes decisions we make for our time that take an effort -- will he put the toilet seat down or clean up his socks; will she? It takes time to take the garbage out. His choices affect you, if you feel you must do something because he did not.
    • Household Chores - if you have a maid, a gardener and a handy man then this just got easier but if not there is a lot of work to keeping a house going. There is laundry, shopping for food and sundries, taking the trash out. If you control time you likely also control chores because they can be added to a schedule and you can train someone to
      • Life Direction - A decision to move, improve one's education, have children, take on renting borders, make or leave friendships. Of course this takes time so one can control it with free time such as spend your free time in class improving our education. There is also the personal/spiritual/cultural/sexual direction of a person's life.
        • Sex - We all want spontaneous sex but most of us have it at night in our bedrooms and it is likely something you have done before. Control of sex can mean yes or no, what and when, how, who, how much or how hard. Sex takes time too so controlling time is key to controlling sex.
      do it as you would. Management 101 - delegation of responsibility.

4/15/2016 5:14:10 PM
I wouldn't call kink my lifestyle, I'd call it a piece of the puzzle. I do many other things and am many other things. "-intrepidsquirrel 

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