Hezzair

Back from extended hiatus. I see they haven't upgraded this site much and it is still lost in about 2002, tech wise. Maybe some day they will work their way up to MySpace status. You can supposedly link to YT and Reddit, but it still takes a year to reload a page and probably to upload new pics. or change your profile. 

Hey Weirdos,

My past trauma is not something for you to turn into a kink.

Thanks.

What makes a good sub? I am all about being a pleaser and a caregiver. As much as I want my Dominant to take care of me, I want to take care of him as well. That means, I honestly don't brat all that often, unless I am doing it for the sake of getting "funishments" that I actually want. When I am asked to do something, I do it, and quickly. I do it well. If I am asked to maintain a position, I stay there, until I can't anymore. On my knees to throat fuck me? I am there, on the floor, mouth open and waiting. 

The point being, I can be a very, very good girl. For the right person.

Now I just need the right person to come along.

I think as time passes and I get older, I gain a clearer perspective on what I want and need in life. I am less likely to put up with what I perceive as injustice. I don't waste my time with people who like to  play head games. 

I seek out others who want to grasp life by the reins and ride it out at a breakneck speed, crashing through and having an awesome and amazing ride with me. Sure, we will get some bumps, bruises, and scratches along the way. May even have some kick as scars, but oh the stories we will tell! 

What makes YOU stand out from the 9 million other dudes that message me?

I am, admittedly, picky and a bit jaded at this point. I know what I want, and I'm not going to just settle for being a plaything again. I can get laid pretty much whenever I want. That really is not an issue. What I want at this point is a mental and emotional connection with someone who wants to be my Dominant.

How do you prove to me that you are that person? If you're not willing to do something simple like download a common messaging app after I've said that I don't use snapchat any more for personal reasons, then you're probably not the person for me. 

Because honestly, how hard is it to download an app? 

Is that really asking someone to "go the extra mile?" I don't think so. 

What do you do to stand out in a crowd?  

Maybe you're the one with a little more personality than the rest. 

You're the one who knows the difference between to and too, and yes, I notice these things. 

I may eventually give up the control to the Dom, but in reality, we know who has the power here, don't we guys? Let's be honest. If you can respect that, let's talk. 

I am soooooooooooooooooo sick of LIARS. 

Stop Lying about your age. Stop lying about being single.

I'm lowering my age limits because all these dudes my mom's age keep pretending to be "63" when they're really in their 70s.  

Guess what, guys?! I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO DECIDE WHAT AGE LIMITS I WANT TO SET.

I DECIDE WHO I WANT TO FUCK. NOT YOU.

If someone wants me, they are going to make it happen.

I think I am a pretty likeable person. In fact, most people either love me, or hate me. I'm kind of one of those extremes, like candy corn. Then again, I like candy corn, so take that as you will.

I never did say I was mentally stable lol. 

What part of NO CHEATERS/ YOU MUST BE OPEN WITH ANY PARTNERS YOU HAVE did I not make clear in my profile?

I mean, I thought I made that pretty damn obvious. 

I am poly. You can be, too.

I don't care if you have a wife and a girlfriend, and then want a sub on top of that, as long as we all know the others exist!

It's simple respect, people. HONESTY.

If you expect me to form a power exchange relationship with you, I'm going to have to trust you.

I can't trust you if your own spouse or partner can't trust you. It's as easy as that.

Making yourself attractive to other people really does not have to be that difficult.

1. Don't be an asshole.

2. When you send an entre email, consider sending more than just "hi/hey/'sup/you look sexy" because, to be honest, for myself, and for many others, those are auto-dump phrases that will get your email tossed directly into the trash can. Have something to write that makes me actually want to converse with you. 

3. Have a picture of you that is flattering. If you want anonymity, use a filter over your face. This is 2024, figure it out. The number of times I have heard the excuse, " I need to be discreet because of my job, etc" is ridiculous. I have worked in healthcare and in the school system with small children. I have had federal background checks done on me. My face is very clearly shown on several social media platforms where I am nude. I haven't had an issue. Trust me, if the government really cared if you were naked on here, you would know it already. 

4. Actually read profiles and pay attention to what is in them! 

It is pretty sad when you have to add the ability to carry on a perfectly norm conversation as an expectation of your Dom. SMH . Guys, don't bother contacting me if you can't even carry on a conversation.  It isn't MY JOB to keep it up for you. Take that any way you like.