If you are age-gapper or worthless, please contact me.  I would like to document "daddy" and/or build you back and document.

Long List of Ways to Punish your Submissive

1. Give her a good spanking with your bare hand. If you are firm, this can be quite painful for her. For added effect, have her lie across your lap like the bad girl she is. She should find this position humiliating and that's a good thing.
2. Spank her with your belt. Fold it in half, and hold the buckle end in your hand. Spank her with the doubled over loop end. You should use a solid belt made of real leather otherwise this won't be effective.
3. For a more severe punishment use a cane on her. Caning can be very intense and most submissive girls really dislike getting caned. You should be very careful with the use of a cane, as you can easily break the skin and cause extensive bruising and even bleeding. You can cane many parts of her body including her feet, hands, breasts, buttocks, both sides of her thighs and even her vagina.
4. Flogging is a much safer way to administer a punishment although most submissive girls enjoy being flogged and so this might not be effective as a punishment at all. You can use a flogger on all parts of her body other than her face.
5. If your girl is a masochist and enjoys pain, punish her by giving her a 'time out' instead. Most submissive girls really dislike time outs. For extra humiliation, have her stand in the corner with her back to the room.
6. Double up her punishment and her humiliation by giving her both a hard spanking and then a time-out. Have her lower her pants as she stands waiting so you can see her red bum from the spanking. This makes for quite a satisfying sight for the dominant.
7. Have her write lines (like a child) on paper. Have her write the same line over and over, admitting what she did wrong and promising never to do it again. Have her write it in c

The Rise and Fall of Relationships: What I miss from the “Old Days” of BDSM.

I have been doing this on and off for a very long time.  In my 20’s I attended all of the great clubs and events like the Black Rose in DC or the Leather Ball in London.  Overall, it was a great time with a “True” sense of community.  There was respect and the old taught the young (both Masters and slaves) without judgement or nonsense skills and the “How Too’s” of BDSM.  I can even remember when I was taught “Fire Play” by a true Master at it, using my slave at the time, him turning to me and saying “You only learn by doing, you only succeed by failing”.  All I heard in my head was, “Please don’t let me fail and burn her to the ground”.  I was truly scared, and for those who know me there are very few things that scare me including death.  But I learned and succeeded.

In the last quarter of life I have decided to re=immerse myself back to find one last slave to share this years with.  To pass knowledge too.  To document her training and therefore give back to the community the knowledge that “Old School” harbors.  But alas, as I wade through what used to be a puddle and is now a “swamp” of fakes, both men and women, with so many scams and agendas you need AI to keep up with it.  What was once so pure, is now murky at best.

For example from the example above,  that woman, a slave to me, was bound and knew I was about to set her on fire as a ROOKIE!  But we had build a trust and relationship that 99% of the vanilla world could NEVER understand.  She knew first and foremost that my duty as her Master was to protect her from harm.  She knew I would not fail at that even if it ment my life.  She trusted me with her life.  Could things go terribly wrong?  Yes.  But they did not.  Today all I see is many (not all) what the vanilla world calls “Gold Diggers” and male “Doms” that only talk about sex.  Sad.  The sense of community that I loved is barely no more.

Your thoughts?

I have been on this site for 14 years. (Including the old site)  I have met good people but I have noticed that most have agendas (men and women).  BDSM used to be so pure and honest and safe as we policed our own.  Now it seems it is a free for all.  Very sad.

If you are real, and have an interest, contact me.

If you want real M/s, DDlg, Age-gap contact me.

Once again I believed.  Was again I was disappointed.

There has be one real person here?  Read my profile and contact me...  Way to many.....

Wow... Years and years.  Spoken to many but none real.  Sad....

Ok, why is it so hard to find one female who is what they say they are.  I dont waste time if you have not written what attracts me.  You want honesty but you start with lies.  I am looking for property, not a GF or agenda seeker.  Does not mean you will not have fun or treated bad.  If your real you will understand that.  For all the trans out there that contact me I am ok with chatting but will only train if you are part of a coouple m/f. 

Some had said I should do pet training....maybe that is so..but I would have to breed the dogs...:)

My advice to all the fakes and wanabees is that you tell the truth to yourself first and go to rooms marked fakes, lairs, wanabees and abusers welcome.

I have to say that it is very disheartening that everyday in the real world you have to deal with liars and cheats and then you seek refuge in a lifestyle that has rules and structure where liars and fakes are outcasts.  Alas, even a place of refuge is invaded by the losers of life who want to be owned as long as you have a credit card and think that a slave’s only purpose in life is to suck your cock.  It is so sad that something that had such beauty has had such mud rubbed into the respect and honor that once was the D/s relationship.

I have found some who understands and practices the art, one who is worthy of consideration.

Thank you all that have written that where real slaves truly seeking 24/7.  As for the rest, good luck.

I have met some wonderful people here and I am sure that this will be a great adventure.

First, let me thank all those who have written looking for a 24/7, but I think that after a few days here I need to state some realities.

First, my dick is NOT attached to my wallet, second, while anyone would like to screw a 21 year old, paying your airfare from where ever the hell you are goes with my first point.

If you are a TRUE slave, extreme in nature, then feel free to contact me.  I will answer any question once trust is established and we can go from there.