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Male Dominant, 29, Louisville, Kentucky
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About AlphaSub1300
Lost my profile - again. Here's another attempt...
I am serious about my search for a LONG-TERM Relationship. I am not here for phone sex, cybersex or a booty call. Please don't waste time if that is your intention.
Relocation is NO LONGER a choice for me - unless you can fund my move AND caregiving for my elderly parents. No? No worries, I'm open to working out relationship obstacles. However, if you aren't within 3-4 hours of Indianapolis, this might be tricky.
I'm sapiosexual and value intelligence. If you can't be bothered to read my profile, I'm probably not the person for you.
I am submissive. I am not YOUR submissive. Ownership comes with time and not you self-identifying as Dominant. I'm here searching for an intelligent Dom who understands the true nature of submission. I want a monogamous relationship and recognize this is a tedious process. I am serious about my intentions.
Communication is the key to engaging my attention. Tell me who you are, what you desire, what you seek. I'll respect your time by doing the same.
Treat me well from the beginning and I will give my heart and soul to this process of discovery. I am discerning. I respect the search for an honest relationship. I would rather toalk to one or two people for a long time rather than talk to 20 people for one or two conversations.
Must like tattoos; the tattoo is on my chest and I have A LOT of other tattoos.
I am confident with a solid sense of self and I am no doormat. My ego is not dependent on what others think of me. I am, at my heart and core, submissive and I deserve a mutually beneficial, honest, sincere D/s relationship. I thrive with a compassionate Dominant. I do not put up with disrespectful behavior or abuse. I am not a pain slut. I am more into the sensual aspects of kinky sex and consider mild to moderate pain, in the right context, a nice touch of spice. If you are looking for someone to tie up and beat the crap out of with your paddle - move on.
During my years in this lifestyle I've learned that no one can sustain kinky play all the time. Vanilla sex will happen. As men age, they are not always capable of susutaining an erection in the same way they could when younger. I'm looking for a man who is comfortable with his body and confident in his abilities -- regardless of how age may have altered them. Gravity hits us all. I'm not the same as I was when I was 33 and I'm fine with that. I like myself and I'm comfortable in my skin.
I also know there are workarounds for everything if everyone is willing.
I refuse to abandon this lifestyle because I was once in an abusive relationship or because my breats sag or because I'm older and society values youth. I'm young at heart and not too old of body to play.
If you've read this far and want to message me, please use the word purple in the opening sentence of your message. I would appreciate it as then I'll know you are serious.
For a long-term kink relationship to survive, the vanilla aspects must be as compatible as the kink. Morals and ethics must be comparable. You have to be willing to commumnicate - about everything from lifestuyle and dreams for the future to how often to have sex. I like kinky sex and I like fine dining. I enjoy working in the garden, going to museums, kayaking and train travel. I am an intelligent woman with hidden depths.
Trust is an essential aspect of Power Exchange and takes time to establish. If I don't know you, and if you don't give me time to learn to trust you, how can I ever give my submission to you?
I am not going to fundamentally change for you. While I enjoy serving my partner, and I am loyal to the core of my being to the Dom who recognizes my worth, I will not be with someone who does NOT recognize my value. This is a journey, I want to walk it with you...at your desire, at your side and as myself. Not someone you wish you could turn me into.
Good luck in your search. |
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I've been on and off this site for a long time, and last time I tried, getting a profile write-up changed - was impossible.
Rather than go through that process, I'm writing a Journal Entry.
I've attempted a couple of relationships the past five years and I have to say that I'm exhausted by emotionally unavailable Doms who only want to play on the internet.
If that's all you want, I'm not interested.
Yes, I can relocate. That part of my life has changed.
No, I'm not going to redo my entire profile write-up. If you want to know about me, ask. I need someone in my life who is a good communicator and this is a great place to let me know you are willing to fill that need.
As of 2026-03-13 I am 65 years old. I'm in pretty good shape for my age and I have some arthritis issues that can be worked around.
That's what I have for today. Who are you?
J
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I am capable of relocating. I will not attempt to update my profile as that can take forever. Currently in Oregon and traveling the country. Life changes and sometimes those changes can be good. Sometimes they can be challenging. Care to chat about where your life is currently? |
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