bunsteel

Enough hurricances! Gotta find a work from home job and get out of Florida before next hurricane season. Have computer skills, must escape this madness.

Some dommes think they can put on sexy clothes and flirt their way into what ever they want, if that is you keep reading.
You like being able to be in charge all the time but at certain times you feed your greed for power by binding your partner because it amuses you to create a little suffering for him.
You may want to enjoy sharing sexual energy but no longer want frequent penetration or you want your man to feel that intercourse is a treat to be earned through submission. I'd like to be able to let you know I am horny for you while at the same time be prevented from thinking I can just grab you, strip you and throw you down to fuck.

I've learned how to shape chastity belts for practical comfort so that you can star in my every sexual thought. Everyday life becomes an adventure when control reaches any distance.

"What is sexual in a high heel is the arch of the foot, because it is exactly the position of a woman's foot when she orgasms... So putting your foot in a heel, you are putting yourself in a possibly orgasmic situation."
"Shoes are just a pedestal. What interests me is the power of the woman who wears them."
-- Christian Louboutin

These things fill my submissive dreams:
My partner wants to lead a relationship based on a happy friendship and sharing positive feelings.
My partner enjoys using chastity to satisfy her need to possess her lover.
She enjoys being center of attention when she wears clothes that men cannot ignore, especially me.
She wants a partner who submits to her excitement for taking control physically using locks and keys.
She would like to use her man's sexual energy to teach him to obey her. She want license to be persuasive on her terms.
She is willing to take time to acknowledge my service with little erotic rewards even when she is tired. Words are enough.
She is interested in putting mutual health activities into our shared routines of life for which we are both responsible.

I'd be happy to do yoga, massage and connective breathing as our most frequent intimate activities.
I enjoy being appreciated for my sexual arousal as a compliment to you at the same time I enjoy being denied sex as sincere submission to you.
I'd like to demonstrate my experience with turning arousal in chastity into the intense desire to make you happy in non-sexual ways.
I feel loved when locked in chastity but still want to make love when you decide to take it off. Please lock it up when you are done.
I want to believe that you require chastity to prevent masturbation so that I stay fully erect when you want me to be.
I am enchanted to believe you like chastity because it prevents anyone else from tempting me, that you now own me without question.

The chastity does not need to eliminate having sex, but to control when. A woman who blocks male masturbation is never lonely. It is an easy way to encourage a man to give more hugs and better kisses if he is thinking about sex but cannot touch himself anymore.

As a late bloomer through high school, I felt like an ugly duckling so I avoided romance by focusing on science and sports. After college I met a free spirit who encouraged me to wear revealing swimsuits, even pushing me to strip for her friend's birthday party. Having women go gaga over me and ask me to wear speedos was mind blowing! However, this shifted my thinking from being a shy nice guy to being someone who could deliberately seduce just to satisfy my urges, making me feel guilty and even fearful.

Then an older friend a hippie doctor convinced me that mental chastity was healthier than chasing bikinis or jerking off. She claimed that I suffered from PE and that Tantra taught how withholding ejaculation during intercourse was best for both partners. She knew I liked bondage so she began tempting me into accepting domination because she discovered she liked the power that my jingling keyring gave her after having escaped an abusive marriage. Sometimes she put me to work in her garden and cleaning her house while she teased me with words and costumes.

I stopped looking at sex as hormonally necessary and starting seeing submission as respect. But after a year without normal sex and no actual device to enforce my agreement to stop masturbating, testosterone won so I neglected my commitment and wandered off feeling very alone. Thankfully she taught me a lot about my self which likely saved me from some serious life disappointments. I think I gave her enough confidence to begin dating again so I hope I also helped her heal.