Hi everyone,  Thank you for looking.

I am in a bit of a quandary at the moment with regard to what I am and want to be.

Am I sub, am I slave, am I Dom(me)?  I just don't know --- yet;

I have had experience as a sub/maid but due to circumstances beyond either of our control we had to stop.  This has left me in limbo, not knowing where I should go next.  I have a dominant profile here to see if that is a role I can fulfil and so far I have have a limited success.

I fell into the BDSM world by accident; I started out only as a crossdresser, something I have done for nearly 30 years, mainly in private since the job I had was not compatible with 'dressing, but have been more public in the last few years attending munches and even out in the open fully dressed. 

My BDSM introduction was at the hand, quite literally, of LadyVillen at a play club I went to, now sadly no more, and the rest, as they say, is history. I discovered that I have a tolerance for the pain induce by CP and flogging, that I am a total violet wand slut and that I enjoy ropework from both sides of the knot.  I am also a fan of hugs and cuddles!

If you feel that you can help me discover myself more please feel free to get in touch.  I don't bite (unless ordered).