urbanleatherlife

Today marks the beginning of my search for a domestic servant to assist with various household tasks. I am looking for a unique arrangement that emphasizes mutual comfort and understanding. 

Position Overview:

? Type: Unpaid

? Responsibilities: Light housekeeping duties, organization, and general assistance around the home.

? Skills: Massage skills would be a notable plus, as I appreciate relaxation and wellness.

Working Environment:

I welcome a clothing-optional atmosphere, prioritizing comfort and personal freedom. It’s essential to foster an environment where both the servant and I can feel at ease.

I will take time to thoughtfully consider candidates, ensuring they align with these criteria while maintaining a positive, respectful dynamic. 

As I navigate this search, I’ll focus on effective communication and transparency to cultivate a healthy working relationship.

As an experienced Dominant in the leather community, I can certainly understand the appeal of consensual objectification within a safe, sane space. When I discover that my submissive derives pleasure from being treated as an object of desire, it elicits a complex range of emotions.

There is a sense of power and control, knowing I can shape their experience and push the boundaries of their submission. But there is also a deep well of trust and responsibility that comes with that. I must handle their vulnerability with the utmost care, ensuring their needs are met even as I strip away their agency.

It's a delicate dance, really. 

On one hand, there’s the thrill of reducing them to a mere plaything for my enjoyment. 

On the other hand, there’s the profound connection of being entrusted with their most intimate desires. It's a privilege to be granted that level of trust and intimacy. And with that privilege comes the duty to wield it wisely, to push just to the edge without ever compromising their safety or well-being.

Does that resonate with you? The heady mix of control and care, power and responsibility? Please speak to me, and let us explore this dynamic further in the confines of our sacred space.

Spanking scenes available with notice.

floggers

crops

paddles of differing assortments 

all for O/our pleasure

I am ONLY seeking real time play. 

Real Time meaning live and in loving color. 

Daytime service and bdsm play available.

Hosting Only

This was a wonderful time as Covid ended 

Finding a balance for the things inrequire In life has been the greatest treasure hunt.

ask me about it 

I love a straight forward message which means I give whatever I love to receive.  If youre not in Chicago or planning on traveling to Chicago it's a great chance my interest level in you is going to be low.  While I do enjoy conversing from time to time I've noticed the different breed of humanity that touch this site.  There have been the indentity thieves preying on the community because they think they can suck information by aggressively love bombing.  There are those who refuse to commit to their local communities for whatever reason.  There are those who only want online and are relentless in pursuit of any nut they can get.

please respect my replies.

please respect my word at a non interest.

sont give a community with many dark stories another reason to be looked down upon.

If you're not local I'm it interested.

let's not act like the world isnt still a shit show and you have more luck in your locals rea especially if you're not traveling to me.

also....those of you only trying to suck dick

get a dick in your area....

While I appreciate the messages from those from across the globe.  I'd like you to keep in mind that I'm only seeking real time sessions and arrangements.  Thank you for understanding

This week provided an opportunity to meet two beings from this site and I'm happy to report that the meetings provided just what I sought in a first impression.

Something to ingest while playing with yourself scrolling profiles.

This profile is not the overlay to find something to fuck.  This profile is for BDSM/ kink & fetish play ONLY.  If your messages and profile are designed to find someone to fill your holes please reframe from reaching out to me as that's NOT why this profile exist.