I was pleasantly surprised when I discovered there was an online community for soft-fetishes (the 'hard' ones deservedly have more takers).
My fetish happens to be female dominant (f/m) hand-over-mouth gag/smother. Also known as HOM (or simply, handgag). I would say it is related to tease, kidnap and breath-play fetishes.
As far as indulgence goes, I would say it is circumstantial - personally, I've enjoyed the rare occasions when I was silenced by a feminine hand (cousins/classmates). I never really had the courage to ask to be silenced!
Most of my fellow fetishists will agree, we prefer to keep our 'little fantasy' to ourselves and use the mask called the internet (and forums like this) to disclose our soft-fetish.
Thanks to fetish video producers, the HOM community does get by. And thanks to communities like CollarMe, I hope to interact with ladies who understand my fetish. I'd love to indulge, voluntarily!
Thanks for taking the time to read this journal post. If anyone of you is interested in knowing more about this fetish, feel free to send me a message.
Have a nice day! |