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A FemDom, F-m Hand-over-mouth (HOM), handgag, handsmother (asphyxiation, breath-play) fetishist.

Apart from relevant femdom role-play, I am also curious about soft bondage.

I do have a wide spectrum of real-world interests that ranges from the academic (history, mythology, literature, philosophy, etc.) to the queer and obscure (astral travel, the unknown, etc.)

All said and done, Id love to indulge and I hope to meet dominant women who share or understand my fantasy.

Thank you for making time to check my profile.

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1/19/2022 4:24:15 PM

Good lord had I pretty much forgotten about this space or what. I think the last time I'd have been 'properly' active here, the pandemic was perhaps not even in the making. Oh well, now that I have moved halfway across the planet to a more 'open' country, I'd love to get back to exploring the kink/fetish scene again. I've come to understand LeoList is NOT the way to go as noone there seems to even respect soft fetishes. So, here we are once more then. Take two. And I do hope I come across like-minded ladies :) 


3/12/2016 7:07:00 AM
Been idle in these forums for nearly 4 months; not likely to be too active going forward, either - the thing called 'life' acts in mysterious ways. Those that want to get in touch can use the messaging system (I have subscribed to email alerts from this website). Be well, everyone.

6/23/2015 8:02:58 AM
Visiting my favourite city again - London, how I've missed you! Will be there between 27th June and 18th July. If only my research work allowed me to stay longer. #sigh 

Hope to connect with like-minded fetishists :) 

4/24/2015 11:01:42 PM
Time certainly flies! Logging in after a fortnight. 

Had my second HOM Session on 11th April, my first in India, thanks to @mistressmakali! Very, very pleasantly surprised by Her willingness to entertain me and explore soft-fetishes. And boy am I glad overjoyed that I reached out!

Three of the best hours of my life... So much more than just the Session too - a peek at some "gear", their use, the troubles with transport! And philosophising about life, people and times. Can't help but muse - The world truly is a small place, made even better when you find someone you can connect with.

Thank You very much and I hope to see You again soon :)

3/26/2013 6:52:52 AM
I was pleasantly surprised when I discovered there was an online community for soft-fetishes (the 'hard' ones deservedly have more takers).
My fetish happens to be female dominant (f/m) hand-over-mouth gag/smother. Also known as HOM (or simply, handgag). I would say it is related to tease, kidnap and breath-play fetishes.
As far as indulgence goes, I would say it is circumstantial - personally, I've enjoyed the rare occasions when I was silenced by a feminine hand (cousins/classmates). I never really had the courage to ask to be silenced!
Most of my fellow fetishists will agree, we prefer to keep our 'little fantasy' to ourselves and use the mask called the internet (and forums like this) to disclose our soft-fetish. 
Thanks to fetish video producers, the HOM community does get by. And thanks to communities like CollarMe, I hope to interact with ladies who understand my fetishI'd love to indulge, voluntarily!
Thanks for taking the time to read this journal post. If anyone of you is interested in knowing more about this fetish, feel free to send me a message.
Have a nice day!

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built4urpleasure
 
 Age: 45
 Fort Worth, Texas