This is not the first time I've had a profile on this site but a refresh seemed a good idea
I'm a strict dominant, and I have never had a partner complain I was too soft or gentle with her. I like a wide range of activities, but chemistry is more important than any particular activity. I know how to reward a good girl and handle a bad girl.
As a partner I like taking and being in control not because I need to but because I enjoy it and am good at it.
As far as the outside world is concerned, I'm polite (which goes with being British...perhaps), highly educated, intellectual, and surprisingly athletic. I think i'm generally good and interesting company, and you wouldn't have to explain me away to your friends and family.
I'm divorced, with no kids but two cats, and I am deffo single.
I have had my best relationships with women who were tomboys, goths or demi-mondaines when they were younger. This doesn't mean that if you're not, we won't click but it does mean I am not generally borthered by someone's past.
What or who am I looking for? The obvious, really - an intelligent, attractive and at least somewhat athletic submissive, who thinks that, given my profile, we'd be a good match, preferably long-term.