This is not the first time I've had a profile on this site but a refresh seemed a good idea

I'm a strict dominant, and I have never had a partner complain I was too soft or gentle with her.  I like a wide range of activities, but chemistry is more important than any particular activity.  I know how to reward a good girl and handle a bad girl.

As a partner I like taking and being in control not because I need to but because I enjoy it and am good at it.

As far as the outside world is concerned, I'm polite (which goes with being British...perhaps), highly educated, intellectual, and surprisingly athletic.  I think i'm generally good and interesting company, and you wouldn't have to explain me away to your friends and family.

I'm divorced, with no kids but two cats, and I am deffo single.

I have had my best relationships with women who were tomboys, goths or demi-mondaines when they were younger.  This doesn't mean that if you're not, we won't click but it does mean I am not generally borthered by someone's past.

What or who am I looking for?  The obvious, really - an intelligent, attractive and at least somewhat athletic submissive, who thinks that, given my profile, we'd be a good match,  preferably long-term.