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ChangelingSoul13

Male Dominant, 35, Burbank, California
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ChangelingSoul13 - Transgender Switch, Bournemouth | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About ChangelingSoul13

Hi,
I never really know what to say in this sort of thing. I'm Grim, I'm nonbinary (albeit I present masc) and I'm a low support needs autistic person. I'm also in therapy and have been for about 4 years.
I'm looking for a relationship, preferably a long lasting one. I've been a lifestyle sub in the past but am feeling more switchy as I get older, so... Happy to relocate for the right person. I value straightforward communication and honesty.
I have in the past, enjoyed crossdressing, domestic and maid service, spanking and bondage. I've also given spankings and been the tier in light bondage and would be interested in exploring that side of things further. At present, I'm exploring how to explore on my own. I'm curious about playing with men, but at the same time quite scared of them so... there's that, too.
Vanilla me is a nerd and enjoys roleplaying games, comics , Fantasy and Science Fiction and things like that. I'm also involved in my local union at work and trying to create a support network for neurodivergent people. I'm a wannabe author, poet, and quite sarcastic. Working on becoming more ethical in my life, make the final swith to being veggie and so on.
It would be great to chat and make friends here, so drop me a message and let's chat.

Just like that I'm suddenly fantasising about kneeling before a beautiful Woman, in service. Giving foot and back massages, and knowing that I'm a very lucky person to be given the privilege of doing so. 

 

I haven't had that sort of thought of months, yet here we are with that back in my mind. 

Currently reading: 

The Black Company by Glen Cook (Dark Fantasy)

Pagan Britain by Ronald Hutton (About pagan sites in Pre-Roman Britain)

Untypical by Pete Wharmby (Autism memoir/autism analysis book)

Wow that was sorted out fast, so I'm hoping that talking a bit more about me will attract more people (or, I dunno, some people). 

 

We'll see. As ever, it seems like the site is probably unevenly divided between women who get inundated with unwanted messages and then everyone else who sit and watch the tumbleweeds roll past. Not going to say which is worse (I don't think I have the right to do that), but will say it sucks either way. 

Well, I decided to update my profile. Like Captain Scott when he ducked out of the tent in Antarctica, "I may be some time". 

I hope you're all doing okay and life's treating you well. (And thank you for reading my journal... such as it is). 

I'm sure I used to feel much more geared towards submission, but these days I'm really not so sure what I want. (I'm not saying i can't/won't submit but I also feel like I only want to submit to someone I absolutely feel its right with). 

 

However, I'm more interested in being a D type at present - so I guess that boils down to being a switch? I'm very much finding my way here. 

New year, new adventures? I'm not sure. 

Despite the BDSM quiz result I just posted I'm kind of ambivalent about things... (the quiz came from here: BDSM Training & D/s Relationship Coaching | Dom Sub Living

Oh well, keep on moving and exploring and hope that something happens, I guess. 

Your Kink Personality Type is

BDSM CONNOISSEUR
As a BDSM CONNOISSEUR, you're in the perfect position to start exploring BDSM more fully.  You may be working hard on avoiding the vanilla rut right now, but with a little more confidence and support you can quickly take things to the next level.

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