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Hetero Male Slave, 54,  Erie, Pennsylvania
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** To be able to live life is what everyone does. To be able to "share" life is a simple need.

slave seeking Mistress to completely own and control him.

Somewhere out there is a Woman who understands the intense need of a slave who is driven to serve and obey completely, without reservation or question. It is very difficult to describe the sense of desire and total focus on pleasing my Owner.

The need that i have to please my Owner by doing anything that She finds pleasureable and comfortable is such a motivation, that i know i will never find happiness until i make Her totally happy.

This is not about me and please excuse me if it sounds like it. These things are very hard to write.

This is about You, Mistress. It is about pleasing you and in turn, i have a reason to give myself.

i hope that You are educated, that You wish to own a slave who thinks on his feet just as he does on his knees. i hope that You find pleasure in contolling his life and giving him no choice in any matter with the exception of when You wish to hear his views. If it pleases You to whip him, or to keep him in chains and a cage he has no choice but to comply with Your wishes. he needs to grow in to what You wish him to be and he will dedicate himself to doing so.

Please dont be into any illegal activity and please be drug free. If it pleases You to know more about this slave, please write.














 Male Slave



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 0"

 195 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples

 Lives For:

 Being allowed to beg you for things

 Being blindfolded (Expert)

 You tying me up (Expert)

 Being allowed to wear your collar


 You placing masks on me


 You treating me like your butler

 You binding me with plastic wrap

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play


 Female Sovereignty

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Being allowed to worship your body

 Being placed in a cage by you

 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 Eye contact with you not allowed

 You punishing my gentials

 Rear End Play (Beginner)

 Being gagged by you

 Being humiliated by you

 You putting me on a leash

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Mental Bondage

 Being allowed to be obedient to you

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak

 Wax Play



 You disciplining me with a cane

 You giving me corner time

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing

 Being spanked by you



 Curious About:

 Diapers (Beginner)

 Electrical Play


 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community

 Housework Service

 Modern Primitivism

 Public Play


 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Crossdressing (Beginner)


 Orgasm Control

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Journal Entries:
12/24/2021 9:44:08 AM

Merry Christmas 

12/7/2021 12:42:50 PM

I love to train and torture sissy gurls

4/1/2018 3:12:18 PM
Happy Easter E/everyone

3/13/2018 3:27:51 PM
I have been speaking with a wonderful Domme and I am no longer searching.

3/1/2018 6:26:50 PM
more wind and more snow. I thought winter was behind us. Apparently, that is not so.

1/28/2018 8:22:56 PM
sadly, so many say they are "not" into this or that. Open yourself to possibilities.

12/5/2017 10:25:28 AM
Looking for harsh and cruel Female Domme who is strict, yet caring. i know You are out there and i offer complete obedience to the One.

i have found that I love to top and torture sissy gurls too.

10/31/2017 7:00:45 PM
Happy Halloween.

10/28/2017 7:22:11 PM
seeking to find?......Learn grammar

10/25/2017 12:22:27 AM
so many have no clue. It's sad

10/10/2017 9:22:11 PM
Place has nothing to do with common decency.

9/26/2017 7:07:52 PM
experienced, real, and with the knowledge that two must build. Nobody else matters.

9/9/2017 4:12:41 PM
I see many profiles that ask if there are any real people out there. The answer is yes, there are many more than one would imagine. Stay real, it works.

9/6/2017 2:14:59 PM
are findommes from Finland?

9/4/2017 3:03:53 PM
findommes've got to be kidding me. Idiots abound.

8/29/2017 9:06:56 PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to the people of Houston and those affected by hurricane Harvey.

7/27/2017 6:08:50 PM
i have to say that it's very sad when 19 year olds try to dominate those that could easily be their grandfathers. They have no clue as to what life is about and yet their kink or their fakeness drive them. Learn about life before you ever attempt to take on the responsibility of owning a slave.

7/23/2017 5:30:26 PM
bondage, helplessness, and servitude. That is why a slave exists.

7/15/2017 9:34:16 PM
i love to share thoughts.

7/13/2017 2:56:41 PM
Life is such a wonderful joy. Each day is filled with more life. Sharing life is a blessing. I hope that everyone feels blessed.


6/29/2017 9:19:27 PM
Happy Fourth of July everybody

6/19/2017 5:18:58 PM
i am waiting right here Mistress. Please find me.

6/1/2017 3:29:39 PM
new summer, new beginnings

5/25/2017 10:14:04 PM
Don't presume you can dominate if you are not dominant.

5/14/2017 12:49:13 PM
Happy Mother's Day to all of the Moms out there. Without You, we guys wouldn't be here.

4/28/2017 8:42:09 PM
why?....because it's worth it

4/25/2017 4:05:26 PM
Being real is far more important than attempting to portray.

4/7/2017 4:46:11 PM
collar space needs to enable admirer editing. The bots are taking it over

2/3/2017 3:33:15 PM
I think we all have spoken with another and without reason they block you. That is probably one of the finest blessings one could have. Why waste time speaking with someone that bases their life upon bullshit and crap. I would rather be me and real, than speak with someone whose only motivation is a lie. Thank you for blocking me, it saves a lot of wonderful time and emplaces my concern upon those that are truly whom they are.

1/19/2017 3:56:40 PM
Never call yourself worthless. Everyone in this world has tremendous value and so much to offer.

1/16/2017 3:39:38 PM
i am very happy to be me. i hope everyone can say the same.

12/24/2016 12:44:53 PM
Merry Christmas

12/16/2016 4:46:35 PM
most here have absolutely no clue. It's very sad

12/5/2016 4:40:00 PM
I'm looking at you....but I'm talking to myself

11/14/2016 4:38:56 PM
so many have no clue

11/9/2016 6:08:53 PM
wow, after viewing tons of profiles, all I can say is really? get a life

9/25/2016 9:45:45 AM
I know She is out there

8/11/2016 4:08:28 PM
what's the point of being here? Living and sharing life as one.

8/8/2016 2:16:34 PM
For each of us, there is someone. i wont give up!

7/10/2016 11:08:34 AM
i am deeply sorry for whatever i have done wrong Ma'am

7/4/2016 11:40:21 AM
i really miss speaking with You Ma'am.

7/3/2016 3:52:22 PM
I am already paying for these findommes through taxes. They have no life, no job, and suck the life out of those that work. I just don't get it. They are on public assistance or are so deeply in debt that the only recourse is behaving the way they do. I tell them all....get a job

7/1/2016 3:48:46 PM
blah, blah, blah

6/28/2016 4:59:17 PM
i guess there is no point

6/24/2016 1:50:48 PM
i was told that She would initiate all contact. i would see Her online and just wish Her a nice day, each time cringing, thinking i shouldn't write. i did not want to be punished. Maybe i should not have written.

6/17/2016 2:45:59 PM
i am sad today

6/16/2016 3:50:55 PM

6/15/2016 4:22:33 PM
i know You are out there, i shall remain here

6/15/2016 3:23:28 PM
i would rather be real than attempt to be something i am not.

6/9/2016 4:42:06 PM
oh well

5/22/2016 5:14:11 PM
Never forget that i am human. While i may be perhaps future property, i am human and shall remain so until i am owned.

3/29/2016 4:29:29 PM
Why? Because it is more that worth the effort.

2/28/2016 8:41:54 AM
i got bored and took a quiz. Here are the results.

== Results from ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope Bunny
99% Degradee
98% Slave
96% Girl/Boy
95% Pet
93% Masochist
93% Primal (Prey)
93% Experimentalist
89% Exhibitionist
82% Ageplayer
73% Non-monogamist
48% Voyeur
45% Brat
22% Switch
12% Vanilla
8% Degrader
7% Rigger
4% Sadist
3% Primal (Hunter)
3% Daddy/Mommy
2% Dominant
2% Brat Tamer
2% Owner
0% Master/Mistress

2/14/2016 8:43:38 AM
Happy Valentine's day!!!! i hope joy and happiness pervade Your lives.

2/7/2016 12:08:53 PM
looking for my last Owner

1/24/2016 2:46:08 PM
it takes a strong man to be a submissive.

1/21/2016 3:57:52 PM

i cannot say that i am a member of the academy of motion pictures, i never shall be. i do believe in diversity and i do believe in talent. Having said that, i do not believe that because people of color are not nominated for a ridiculous award means that there should be a mercy nomination. If a movie is good, it gets nominated for whatever talent was involved. If it wasn't so good, then it doesn't. Each of us have been judged, at one point or another, upon talent or ability. Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose. It's not racial, it's judged talent by peers. i am tired of having to allow lesser talent to be chosen over better talent in the name of some idealistic stuff. If your son or daughter won the 100 meter dash, they won. But for them to be robbed of the victory because a person was judged better by trying to comply with a diversity ethic, then everyone has lost the race.

1/20/2016 2:44:45 PM
funny, you tell a supposed "findomme" to get a job and they ignore you. i guess the truth hurts.

1/19/2016 3:03:47 PM
snow stinks

1/18/2016 4:35:21 PM
so many times, it's just nice to talk

1/16/2016 5:08:49 PM
total obedience for the right One

12/31/2015 9:14:27 PM
Happy 2016. May there be peace on earth and goodwill toward man.

12/27/2015 8:52:08 PM

all of the crap and fake people here makes me question the value of being here.

9/11/2015 2:14:49 PM
Please take a moment to think about 9/11 and the people that were killed, injured, or lost loved ones and friends. It changed our world, but goodness will win.

9/11/2015 1:50:40 PM
If you're going to contact me, then you're going to contact me. lol

9/7/2015 2:45:22 PM
Yes, a good man can be a complete slave. He just waits for someone worthy of his goodness.

7/20/2015 2:43:44 PM
the bliss of bondage, the helplessness. Heaven

6/15/2015 3:57:21 PM
yes, i am a slave. But, it takes a man to get upon his knees.

4/25/2015 3:24:43 PM
i have worn two diapers all day as You directed Ma'am. Thank You for not making me use them. i went out to the store to pick some things up and my jeans were all puffy and full. i am sure people noticed, but i just wanted to obey You.

4/24/2015 4:14:35 PM

i work hard for a living and will work for You, but i will not give tribute as it seems to be called, to some lying bitch. Get a job, and get a life.

4/23/2015 3:03:55 PM
to serve and please a Mistress is not all about bondage and kink. It is about daily life

4/22/2015 4:14:25 PM
it is normal to desire to serve and please. It is pleasantly abnormal too

4/16/2015 4:50:24 PM
restrained in seeking restraint

4/15/2015 2:59:13 PM
can a slave be a gentleman too? Of course, a slave must always be a gentleman and a kind obedient man.

4/14/2015 2:10:09 PM

i am looking forward to the warmth of summer. Sunshine, take me away!


4/12/2015 10:25:11 AM
every slave needs rules.

3/25/2015 3:11:20 PM
Do You want a good and obedient slave?

3/22/2015 4:33:30 PM
it is so nice to see the sun shine again. Goodbye winter

2/18/2015 3:16:18 PM

fin dommes, worthless. they should all be reported and banned

1/30/2015 2:42:12 PM

sometimes it's not the dominant that sucks, but the person claiming to be dominant that really does

1/22/2015 3:06:29 PM
i have seen many people use the word "deion" in there profiles. i have no clue as to what it means. Do they? Is it an attempt to use the term deign? i was just wondering.

1/20/2015 3:54:26 PM
spoil me

1/17/2015 2:01:10 PM
sometimes, just holding hands says everything.

1/14/2015 7:52:08 PM
these supposed Dommes that require a picture with an email. Where is you picture? Life goes far beyond living in your double wide, if you have one

1/13/2015 2:45:13 PM
bound, gagged, helpless. The only thing that matters is You

1/7/2015 2:48:39 PM
yes, real men can be absolute slaves

1/6/2015 3:10:30 PM
yikes, more snow

1/5/2015 2:39:40 PM
yikes     snow and cold

12/24/2014 2:59:09 PM
i would like to wish E/everybody a magical Christmas. May all your dreams come true

12/22/2014 8:25:01 PM
a gentleman always.

12/17/2014 10:16:12 PM
pro dommes ....if one has to be paid for love, that is your thing. i care to love, not pay for it.

12/17/2014 10:09:14 PM
fin domes've got to be kidding me

12/17/2014 9:32:55 PM
i was left helpless ...why did i like it ??

12/12/2014 12:51:27 PM

i do love to chat with real people.

12/10/2014 6:11:38 PM

financial dommes, you've got to be kidding me. Get a job

12/3/2014 8:07:05 PM
that i dislike chastity, because it hurts and denies me touch, or that i dislike crossdressing because it is humiliating, does not mean that i wont obey. i exist to please and to serve in any way that is pleasing to the One i serve.

12/2/2014 7:13:34 PM
why do i keep getting messages from people in Nigeria?

12/2/2014 1:11:58 PM
still searching and i wont give up

12/1/2014 4:41:43 PM
time will tell

11/14/2014 2:45:05 PM
i have to say that i love the teachings of Elise Sutton. She is wise and has lived as she has because of that wisdom.

11/3/2014 4:54:06 PM

kink means absolutely nothing. Life means everything

11/3/2014 4:33:18 PM
the best thing about being real is just being real. The frightening thing is serving and having no choice.

10/29/2014 1:42:06 PM
i miss summer already

10/27/2014 5:03:48 PM
i hope E/everybody has a nice week

10/24/2014 3:04:15 PM
It is so wonderful to meet people and be accepted. There are so many nice people. Even if there is no connection beyond being friends, it is nice to connect.

10/23/2014 12:12:00 PM
Continuing my search.

10/10/2014 3:37:02 PM
the press is causing the fear of ebola it sucks. Don't fly, don't do this or that. It's sensationalisation.

10/10/2014 2:42:03 PM

i was just perusing journals and find that some are so negative yet, others are so positive. To me, regardless of natural tendencies or presumed place, people are who they are. The key is to find the right person. What those people do together is really nobody's business. Quit the negativity and be happy just being yourself

10/9/2014 2:34:31 PM

i am here Mommy

10/6/2014 3:20:21 PM
even Monday's can be good days, i hope Y/you had one of them.

10/3/2014 1:54:43 PM
i hope everyone has a nice weekend

9/28/2014 1:29:35 PM
yikes, what a lousy day for football. Pittsburgh lost!

9/28/2014 1:08:37 PM
what a great day for football!

9/16/2014 4:42:09 PM
a real slave seeking a real person

9/12/2014 8:38:40 PM
sometimes, it sucks to be human and real. But to do otherwise would simply be a lie

9/8/2014 4:21:08 PM
yes, it's true that one can be a gentleman and a slave. The combination never leaves, it is ever present.

9/5/2014 2:08:06 PM

i hope E/everyone has had a very nice day today.

8/28/2014 4:24:57 PM
Yes, i know that there are players and fakes here. But, there are some very real people here too. i keep the faith.

8/27/2014 4:40:31 PM
a little boy in a man's body. i don't like to crossdress, i find it very humiliating. But, i serve and i obey.

8/25/2014 4:43:08 PM
Real boy for real Woman

8/20/2014 2:35:22 PM

As i browse profiles, and i do so every day, i have come across a term of which i do not know the definition.
"Deion". i assume it has something to do with either a summarization or an understanding of some topic. But, i really don't know what it means.

8/2/2014 12:48:33 PM
it's been a nice day thus far. i hope E/everyone is having a nice day.

7/26/2014 9:29:08 PM

i don't need to spanked or disciplined to be me. i will obey. If it brings you pleasure to do so, then that is your right.

7/18/2014 8:00:42 PM
my emasculation is not even close to being complete. It's hard to submit to weak people and i simply wont do it. Don't portray yourself as something you're not just for a kink.

7/9/2014 7:50:48 PM
i know You're out there Mistress, i will wait for You

7/6/2014 2:07:24 PM

i hope that E/everyone had a wonderful Fourth of July.

7/1/2014 3:43:39 PM

this is in response to something that MsKayNH wrote. Apparently, She had blocked me so perhaps the point is moot, but i wanted to share my thoughts as to Her post about slaves not accepting punishment or discipline. So, here it what i wrote before i realized that i am obviously one of the people She doesn't like:

Dear Ms. Kay,

i just read your latest journal and i would like to respond Ma'am.
There is no excuse for disobedience and there is no debate when one's Owner chooses; for whatever reason, to dole out any type of punishment. The life of a slave is not a debate. Those that think it is a fair world have no clue as to what service is nor what it means. The debate should never happen for the slave is what it is. While a person may not like what is happening, a slave accepts it for what it is. his Owners decision. There is no debate.

i just wanted to share my thoughts Ma'am.

6/21/2014 12:59:01 PM
the search continues. Thankfully, i have been blessed with patience.

6/17/2014 4:00:35 PM
Yes, i am real. Yes, i am a slave. Yes, i am a productive and inventive member of society. Isnt that life?

6/11/2014 3:10:59 PM

i am so happy to be me. i only hope that everyone is happy to be who they are too.

6/2/2014 7:26:55 PM

tugging the chain again, trying to free himself. It's anchored to an eyebolt in the floor, yet he still tugs. he sits down and realizes that he cannot escape, all he may do is wait.

5/31/2014 4:49:24 PM

What a beautifully, pleasant, day here in Erie. Perfect weather for a hike and the beach.

5/30/2014 3:00:15 PM

The light began to slowly creep into my dark world, as the straps were removed and the hood unlaced. Shrouded in darkness was slowly turning into soft light. Then, very bright light. My eyes adjusted to the new environment but it seemed to take forever. There it was, light. Wonderful, gorgeous light. I was thrilled to have it back. Something so normal, but abnormal for a me lately.


My eyes adjusted as I found myself staring at Her knees. Instantly, I lowered my eyes hoping that I had not violated another unspoken rule. Leaning forward, I kissed her heels as I knew to do and stayed that way, wishing for Her to speak.


Thusly, I remain.

5/25/2014 9:06:27 AM

To be helpless is happiness. To be in service is bliss. To be owned is heaven. i hope i find heaven.

5/22/2014 7:51:49 PM

while i love to pursue the things i need and enjoy, i do not believe in being rude.

5/11/2014 2:30:58 PM

To see what i am about visit

5/7/2014 7:42:55 PM

i am to the point, i just don't care anymore. Take me for me, or leave me alone

5/6/2014 4:02:39 PM

trust, but verify

4/29/2014 12:59:40 PM

The people suffering through this severe weather are in my prayers.

4/28/2014 5:05:53 PM

i am a curious guy, so if i have viewed you, it is simply a result of that curiosity. i don't mean to be rude.

4/23/2014 4:25:49 PM

i don't want to sound like i am on a rant, but i just watched an entertainment show. Within that show, they showed the most beautiful person in the world,...who voted? the Hollywood sect?  they showed that Jodie foster had just married a girl, and they attempt to make us think that those people matter.


They don't matter. The mother that is raising her kids all alone, working two jobs, matters. The person putting going to school while they work a jobs matters. i really don't understand how these celebrities are celebrated.

4/22/2014 7:28:00 PM

You demand a gentleman, i will only serve a Lady

4/20/2014 12:08:05 PM

Happy Easter E/everyone

4/16/2014 4:14:30 PM

yes, i like bondage. yes, i like pain. yes, i like to be humiliated and controlled. Does that make me odd?,,,,,,,, no, it makes me normal

4/15/2014 3:52:25 PM

i don't get why supposed dominants don't understand reality. A slave offering himself to a good person, because that slave is a good person, goes unrecognized. i wont change, i will recognize real people.

4/15/2014 2:06:51 PM

yikes, more snow

4/14/2014 8:29:57 PM

so beautiful this weekend. The temperature was 80! Who would think that there is going to be snow tomorrow or Wednesday. Weather is a lot like life, just fickle.

4/5/2014 2:29:12 PM

shiny, happy, people

4/4/2014 1:28:02 PM

real life is really good

4/2/2014 3:03:55 PM

it is really neat to see the sun and experience the beauty of a day filled with sunshine.

4/1/2014 3:43:06 PM

wow got up to 72 today in Erie. i think that spring is here!!

3/28/2014 1:30:21 PM

i know She is out there and i know She will find me here.

3/27/2014 7:56:14 PM

i think it's easier for Women to move on from heartache and pain than it is for a guy. As a man, i have had a very hard time with it. To state it simply, it sucks.

3/27/2014 5:20:55 PM

Go Dayton Flyers

3/26/2014 8:04:49 PM

why should i care about the editorial remarks of a person that reports the news?

3/26/2014 7:44:19 PM

the very best i can ever do is be me. The very best i can offer to anyone is myself.

3/26/2014 3:28:55 PM

i find the feeling of being dressed in Women's clothing to be very humiliating for me.

3/25/2014 7:50:17 PM

surf through the noise and don't let anyone affect you!

3/23/2014 7:18:22 PM

if it's wrong for me to share my thoughts, or if it is wrong for me to share my feelings, then you don't know me. i would rather be wrong simply being me, than i would being what someone thinks i should be.

3/22/2014 8:19:01 AM

sometimes, i just need to be whipped

3/20/2014 8:13:42 PM

for the record,


Dominants are just as human as are slaves. Don't play a game, just be You

3/18/2014 6:32:03 PM

i don't see any point in looking anymore. i know that there are real people out there that are just as real as i. But to continue to search is pointless. i hope E/everyone finds what they really want.



3/17/2014 3:07:44 PM

Happily awaiting spring

3/5/2014 7:12:18 PM

For the record, i am a completely masculine man. I have always excelled at sports, physical completion, intellectual discourse, music, and shooting from the hip. i just think differently that most masculine men. i encourage you to challenge me, but i will not suffer fools or idiots.


just a thought for today

3/2/2014 5:15:32 PM

To answer some questions i have been asked, i will try to articulate my place.


Yes, while i am a slave, i am still a majorly productive member of society. i have no issue with my masculinity nor standing up for what i believe in. Those that know me would never guess that i could ever be a slave, nor would they understand it. What makes us happy is up to us individually. i will always seek happiness ..whatever the venue. But, my innate soul is that of a slave.

2/24/2014 3:26:26 PM
Sometimes it is just nice to talk and be human. i may be a slave, but that doesn't mean i don't come to the table with intelligence and skill. Respect the human, embrace the slavery.

2/23/2014 2:03:26 PM
It is another beautiful, sunny, day

2/22/2014 10:27:58 AM

It is a beautiful, sunshiny, day out today. It is so nice to see the sun.

2/22/2014 7:44:33 AM
Bob Evans for breakfast. Leaving now

2/21/2014 3:44:20 PM
Almost springlike, the wind thing sucks, but i will take the temp in the 40's any day

2/20/2014 2:53:50 PM
Rain, but warmer

2/19/2014 4:52:12 PM
It's warm today

2/14/2014 8:59:07 AM

i hope E/everyone has a happy Valentines Day!

2/11/2014 3:07:11 PM
Tuesday and it's still cold. Oh well, it's winter. Stay warm with hugs

2/9/2014 4:16:38 PM
There will be One out there that truly understands what i whole heartedly wish to give. i am in no hurry.

2/9/2014 11:23:32 AM

yay - - more snow

2/8/2014 2:51:57 PM
Still cold.

2/7/2014 8:52:31 PM

good Lord,


why are there so many supposed dominants out there that cant construct a sentence?

2/7/2014 3:38:18 PM
It's just plain cold

2/6/2014 7:48:57 PM

slave does not equal asshole or idiot

2/5/2014 2:08:59 PM

snow more

2/4/2014 3:29:29 PM
Snow again. Yikes

2/2/2014 6:59:49 PM

i guess that the teams i root for lose. Please don't ask me to root for your team.



2/2/2014 6:01:29 PM
This game sucks worse than i

2/2/2014 5:09:26 PM
Darn, the broncos better turn it around. I think I would rather be hooded and tortured than to watch this.

2/2/2014 2:20:03 PM
May the best team win

2/2/2014 2:18:51 PM
i hope it is a great Super Bowl

1/28/2014 8:00:12 PM

i would rather drive 200 miles to meet with someone i know is solid than i would drive 3 to meet someone that isn't.

1/27/2014 7:34:30 PM

i am enjoying speaking to a Woman that understands. i will not be foolish, but i will embrace honesty.

1/26/2014 1:38:49 PM
It's only going to get colder

1/25/2014 4:24:18 PM
It's confirmed , it's really cold

1/25/2014 1:51:33 PM
Windchill sucks worse than i care to think about

1/23/2014 5:27:10 PM

yes, i am a slave. yes, i will obey. But i wont ever place myself before a fool.

1/23/2014 3:06:12 PM
It's still cold. I feel like the slave of ice

1/22/2014 7:51:05 PM

i guess it's better to be cold and state what it is than try to portray warmth, when there is no warmth.

1/22/2014 2:56:32 PM
It's still really cold

1/21/2014 3:21:26 PM
Yes, it is very cold. Thank God for clothing and heat!

1/20/2014 2:56:13 PM
It's going to get really cold this week

1/15/2014 7:53:05 PM

you know, sometimes you speak with people and it turns out they are not real at all. Nothing but a SUCKS

1/9/2014 8:39:26 PM

if You don't care, i don't care.


1/8/2014 7:44:09 PM

so many just don't get it.

1/7/2014 9:39:01 PM

What has happened to the lifestyle? i guess i need to be a professional submissive to help cancel out all the financial dommes who supposedly deserve something. Try getting a job and paying taxes.

1/6/2014 9:03:55 PM

Before you ever claim to be a dominant, you must understand and embrace the strength it takes to submit oneself.

1/6/2014 8:12:04 PM

i am a mature gentleman who is in complete control of my life. i have goals and direction and wish to share them with someone that gets the entire package. i think that, perhaps, i have been wasting time on people that have no goals nor a life. i would like to think not, but sadly, it's the conclusion i have come to. Carpe Diem

1/3/2014 9:36:41 PM

why do i want to spank dommes in their 20's. Learn about life, then get one

1/3/2014 8:50:54 PM

It is a new year and i still feel like a little boy.

12/31/2013 11:37:14 PM

i am seeking nothing more than sharing life and enjoying the innate service of doing so.

12/31/2013 10:18:41 PM

Happy New Year to Everyone


12/31/2013 4:22:22 PM

i am not some person wishing to live a life that makes no sense. i am a slave. If You don't understand that, then you have no clue of depth and deep need. i wont offer myself to fools that have no clue about complete service, nor to those that don't have the same values and goals that i have.


Happy New Year

12/29/2013 7:55:14 PM

19 year old mistresses? Good lord

12/27/2013 5:06:59 PM

yes, it's confirmed...even a slave can be a gentleman and a productive member of society.

Long live vitality!

12/26/2013 6:04:33 PM

sometimes, i feel like i am just a bother. i am far more a man than that, but i feel that way at times.

12/24/2013 4:26:56 PM

Merry Christmas Everyone

12/24/2013 4:15:55 PM

Just because one is a slave does not mean they cannot and should not be a gentleman

12/10/2013 9:29:50 PM

wow, i am so sorry that i ever view and write to others. i feel more intrusive than i care to be.

5/7/2013 2:32:17 PM

why do I want to place a sissy in a very tight corset and her little clitty in chastity only allowing her to feel through her pussy?

5/28/2012 8:31:15 AM

Happy Memorial Day to E/everyone!

5/14/2012 2:19:12 PM

Wow, it is so nice outside!

i wish it would stay this way all the time

4/9/2012 9:36:36 PM

What do you have to offer beyond your supposed dominance?

Is this a game?

Do you have life goals and stretch goals?

Do you dream of sharing life and all of its foibles with someone that has the same views?

But there are so many who limit their view to one aspect of life.

Make it wonderful and complete, not one aspect.


a rant

3/19/2012 8:19:57 PM

that i am a slave does not mean that i need You

2/14/2012 5:31:57 PM

i hope E/everyone has a happy Valentines day

2/9/2012 2:58:50 PM

When i am on, You will often find me in the male-submission chatroom. There are some nice and friendly P/people there.

1/29/2012 7:49:54 PM


1/9/2012 11:41:37 PM


youve got to be shitting me

1/8/2012 6:05:50 PM

i am just looking for a TPE good life. i am a productive and thoughful person and i can stand on my own feet. i would rather kneel and ensure that Mistress had all of Her needs taken care of.

12/27/2011 3:16:19 PM

Being very real and seeking very real does not mean that one is stupid. We dedicate ourselves to finding the right fit and the right connection. i see no point in cyber. But, it is a vehicle upon which two real people can initially learn to understand each other.

12/24/2011 7:06:01 PM

Merry Christmas E/everyone

12/1/2011 1:36:18 PM

Sometimes, it is more fun to just talk and not worry about anything other than the conversation and the peace of it.



9/6/2011 2:55:03 PM

i love this lifestyle so much!!

i love to talk about it.

i love to share experiences.

i love the help others.

i love to express myself.

i love to learn.

8/30/2011 3:41:20 PM

Yes, i am a slave. Yes, i am a human. Yes, i wish to serve obediently and make the One that owns me the happiest Woman on earth.


But yes, i want to love, and to be loved. Acceptance is just the beginning of the building process.



7/24/2011 6:52:23 PM

There are those that wish to live the life of a slave for an hour, those that have lived it for a day, those that have lived it for whatever fleeting moment in time it was lived.


For the lifestyle slave, it is essence and sustainment. Not a moment in time, but ALL time.



7/19/2011 4:16:46 PM

to be loved

6/15/2011 4:21:56 PM

submissive does not equal fool

slave means that She understands the complete package.

6/8/2011 8:20:11 PM

i am a non-professional slave

6/8/2011 8:14:52 PM

Yes, i am a slave.

No, i am not a fool

5/30/2011 4:51:18 PM

Good Women look for good men. There are so many fakes and liars about. But, it wont change my definition of good.

2/16/2011 8:09:25 PM

i am not looking at this time.

i wish E/everyone the very best

2/1/2011 9:03:22 AM

This slave will be in Tampa until Thursday.

12/25/2010 7:14:51 PM

May E/everyone have a wonderful Christmas.

May the new year bring all that Y/you desire.

12/4/2010 6:01:28 AM
i can only offer myself. i look for serious slavery and honest and open lifestyle. If You wish to truly own a male slave and You now what it means, please contact me.

11/24/2010 8:47:41 AM

Somewhere out there, there are good people.
It is just a matter of time until you find them.

11/18/2010 8:34:15 PM

i tend to view so many people's profiles..and it is not because of rudeness...but because of interest.
i hate to say that if there is a common theme amongst most of them is that they have experienced liars and fakes.
i dont get the point of not being real.
Is there a point in doing so?
To me, it's a sad statement of the physchology here. If you cant be really you, then why bother being here?

11/10/2010 9:24:30 PM

i am just me ...i wont lie..i wont portray myself as more or less than i am. If i risk acceptance by others for being so, then i wouldnt have it any other way.

11/1/2010 4:29:05 PM

If You dont like me for me ..then go and find what You like.
i wont change until im molded. From there, i will be me.

11/1/2010 11:16:38 AM

i exist to serve and to please
i exist to make Others happy
i wish to be owned in totality
Then i really exist

10/8/2010 6:24:06 PM
if you cannot be you..the who else can you possibly be?

10/5/2010 7:52:44 PM
too many fakes's really sad

10/4/2010 4:07:41 PM
it's a beautiful day

10/2/2010 8:25:32 PM

rather than me having to prove who i am do You prove who You are

Just a thought

9/30/2010 5:01:42 PM
my cock ..whether sissy ..or masculine doesnt need liars nor fakes
life is not sex is life ...i hope that people get the difference

9/30/2010 4:21:58 PM
i dont get nor care to get the politically correct thing. i am a slave, i always have been, it's up to You to see that. if You dont..pass me by ..
Games are crap ...i dont see the point.

9/27/2010 5:05:58 PM
if You are not real, and have no substance, dont bother writing. i dont get the crap makes no sense.

9/27/2010 4:44:56 PM
i have been blessed so in my life ...
Thankfully so

9/27/2010 4:30:36 PM

if You are not real...i will know instantly....
i dont need to say more

9/21/2010 7:53:08 PM
i am gagged

9/21/2010 5:22:12 PM
i dont need you if you dont need me.
What else is there to say?

9/20/2010 5:21:18 PM
Life is good..we all lead it.

9/18/2010 6:23:02 PM
i have learned that above all, i am looking for a good person..not just some domme

9/18/2010 3:44:15 PM
i dont need Your crap.....i need to be owned.

9/17/2010 5:57:40 PM
You know
while i will alway stand on my feet i still need to kneel.

9/17/2010 4:42:10 PM

while we slaves are simply what we are there any reason to allow oneself to be lied to? If one does, then who are we fooling?

9/17/2010 4:22:04 PM
i dont care to suffer fools or idiocy, and even a slave chooses.

9/17/2010 4:17:12 PM
The only rules i have are to be a human, to care, and to give obedience to the One i know will own me.

9/12/2010 8:41:09 PM
that i am a slave does not mean that i am some stupid sheep who will follow the direction of one that has no direction.

9/10/2010 5:22:47 PM
i will never give up..anyone that does becomes complacent. But i wont search anymore. There are too many who think that life revolves around a dollar, or that a slave cant advise them in their direction. Real people only. i dont have time for fools.

9/9/2010 7:31:18 PM
it's not our of frustation that i say this, but if You are not willing to own, then don't claim to be an Owner.

9/9/2010 7:26:52 PM
what is th value of lying?

9/9/2010 5:28:54 PM
if You are not looking for life, please dont look at me.

9/9/2010 5:22:24 PM
i dont need you dont need me. What each of us need to be is who we are and to be accepted in all ways for who we are.

9/9/2010 4:27:56 PM
Those that dont go to munches and play parties deny themselves simple reality. Pixels are crap, they always shall be.

9/9/2010 3:52:57 PM
i will try to be as honest as i can. i am a man...i am a slave..i need to be owned and to have no rights.
i can plumb, rewire, mow, build, solve problems, give advice, direct when needed, be stronger that You when needed, see things as they are and find the next place to move, it goes on and on.
Dedication is just that and to not be dedicated in all one does tends to end in nothingness.
While i want and need to be nothing, i dont care to give my being to One that is nothing.

9/9/2010 3:43:52 PM
i have learned to be me to be truly as i am. It's not an easy lesson, and it is very hard to talk about. But, it is what it is.
This slave doesnt need You...what this slave needs is reality and acceptance. If i am not accepted, it is just part of life, and i will live my life.

9/8/2010 2:47:43 PM
i love to talk about the lifestyle and to be allowed to share my thoughts. Please write to me if Y/you have any questions ...or just would like to talk

9/6/2010 5:25:18 PM
i was asked what slavery means to me. One word describes it to me ....Everything.

9/4/2010 12:54:19 PM
i hope E/everyone has a wonderful holdiay weekend. Bondage for one, freedom for all.

9/3/2010 11:06:03 AM

Making Your life happy is the most important. Slavery through service and obedience is how i can do it.

9/2/2010 8:54:18 AM
i would love to become a rubber object, a doll, with all of my functions controlled and owned.

9/1/2010 4:31:37 PM
if You dont need a focused and dedicated, obedient slave, then you dont need me.

9/1/2010 4:15:09 PM
i have had to be away for too long.
i do what is right and take care of things that must be taken care of.
now i am free, and i seek a sadistic owner who knows what slave means. my manhood is still present, but basic need to take control needs to be taken control of. i do not want to be allowed to make decisions. i do not want to be allowed to touch.
i need an owner.

8/11/2009 8:23:38 PM
It is so easy to say that so many are players, fakes, and wannabes. Have A/any of you really taken the time to know? Further, do you know yourself?

6/28/2009 1:07:16 PM
Dear LadyMa_____ Ma'am,

Thanks You for writing to me Ma'am. i respsponded to Your letter Ma'am, but i think You have me blocked, as it didnt go through Ma'am. But thank You for the definitions and perspective You provided Ma'am.

6/12/2009 4:21:30 PM
i deleted this entry out of respect for a Person that wrote to me. Thank You Ma'am. 

6/7/2009 4:38:30 PM
Iit is great to be on course and on track. Just not allowing people to try and change that course.

6/5/2009 4:27:17 PM it just me or does anyone else feel that they miss so much when they write back to Another? i think about so many more things after it's sent....yikes

6/4/2009 7:42:28 PM
if one cannot be real..then what's the point?
i just dont get it

5/10/2009 8:30:18 AM

slave wishes Every Mom a very happy Mother's Day. Without the nurture, guidance, and care, of Mothers, men become nothing.


5/3/2009 2:05:02 PM

Spring brings with it a new growth and a new outlook. It is the time of new beginnings. i wish and hope that E/everyone has a joyous and happy spring.

2/17/2009 3:18:26 PM
No longer looking, i am happy to chat and share thoughts, but i have no desire to seek anymore

1/21/2009 5:55:52 PM
Being a slave does not mean one is weak. In fact it means that they have come to terms with life and need. A combination of the two does not mean that one cannot be productive, nor less of a person. If more knew the depth and focus it takes to be a slave, more would see beyond the viel of sexuality!

12/31/2008 2:07:19 PM

It is a slave's true hope that E/everyone has a very happy New Year!

12/25/2008 7:15:06 AM
To awaken on Christmas morning hooded, in chastity, chained, and caged, awaiting Mistress to allow me out to serve Her, would be pure heaven.

Merry Christmas E/everyone

12/24/2008 4:11:27 PM
a humble slave wishes E/everyone a very Merry Christmas. May all of Y/your dreams come true.

*lowers his eyes in hope and respect**

11/23/2008 10:54:34 AM

Sometimes, i am just too shy to speak. i love to talk, but that shyness is rooted in past training that a slave only speaks when spoken to.

11/18/2008 4:23:21 PM
Life is not a fantasy, it is life. If A/anyone wishes to talk about real life, please let me know. Too many games and too many times trust is placed for what appears to be reality, when in the end it is a silly game to them.

11/3/2008 8:55:59 PM

To be owned, what does it mean?
It means that there is absolutely nothing that isnt controlled. It means that even going to the bathroom is not a right.
To be chastised or diapered, to serve obediently, to give an entire human life to Mistress, and to serve Her faithfully and regardless of happiness, to simply serve.

10/2/2008 8:52:45 PM
Due to supposed dommes attempting to collect people for false reasons, you have been ignored

9/30/2008 7:12:55 PM
To be lied to put your feelings in the hands of trust and to be recognized for that trust and it's all a lie?
What is the point?..what value is there in it?
It may make sense to some people ..but it sure as hell doesnt make sense to me.
Live a life of lies and you only live a life of falsehoods that will never shine.
i have had the had the very unfortunate meeting of the minds with a liar and a person that think she is better for her lies.
Not a mistress ..but a loser

9/24/2008 4:37:35 PM
Sharing honestly is a conerstone of any lifestlye. O/our lifestyle demands open and honest sharing. Why would a person "me" put myself at the feet of someone that has no clue?
i wont
Sharing and accepting where someone is in life honestly, has a risk. But it's always the best policy to share and be open

7/11/2008 3:40:05 PM
The most wonderful thing about being a true and real slave is knowing that there is such value in it, such gold amongst the tarnished souls that do not understand true committment and hard work that it takes. i will not lower myself to the level of some i see here, nor will i be anything less than my complete self with values, politeness, and a sense of being good to O/others. It is a good life

6/25/2008 7:39:19 PM
i guess there will be S/some that understand this..but i am here to please, not to displease. If i displease Someone, it cuts me like a knife.

5/29/2008 4:47:32 PM
i had the opportunity to travel to new york to meet an unnamed Mistress who has a TG slave that lives away from her ..but his wife understands his need. i was able to give her massages and treat her to well as put molding on her ceilings in her basement and bathroom ..something i have never done before. i was able to put trim on two coners of her living room and spent hours toiling away to be helpfull to her.
W/we spent time at a local casino and slept there that night, and after a complete massage, i was allowed to touch her sex with my fingers. It was a hard but great weekend.
She placed a collar of consideration about my neck and slept while i worked. i had no problem doing what was right and wanted to complete the job that the incompetent people she hired could not do.
In the end, she was looking for another tg to live with her 24/7, and while obedient, i do not have a desire to become a woman.
That collar of consideration was removed indirectly because she found a tg that picked up and moved to her instantly.
i wish her well, but i do not see a lot of success there. i hope it works for her ..but i have my reservations.
life is not a fling, it is life. i will happily live my life with a person of substance and understanding, and not live a pipedream of instant happiness. To me ..happiness takes work from both parties and mutual happiness will only happen from there.
i may be a slave, but i need to be happy too.

2/28/2008 8:33:45 PM
It is always a slave's pleasure to speak with Those that really and truly know

1/21/2008 8:16:32 PM
some think that because of the picture i have up that i am a sissy. Frankly, i hate to wear women's clothes, i find it very humilating, but does what i hate matter?
Somewhere out there ..there is a Person that understands what it means to own a slave, and what it means to be a slave.
i do not understand the song and dance that people tend to do here just for some jolly. Servitude and slavery are so deeply ingrained within me, i only hope and pray that Someone will understand. Off to the new year

12/13/2007 9:19:16 PM
sometimes i want to say that i am seeking "generous" dominant females. LOL

12/11/2007 8:41:57 PM
i that i have to ask myself..and yes i mean myself, what is the point?
Is life about connection or is it about meaningless sexuality?
i have always thought that growth together is far better than growing alone. i do not wish to grow alone, i just wish to grow. If She finds me, i will be blessed. If She does not, then i will continue to seek Someone that understands a gentleman and a slave combined into one. W/we take each other at face value initially, from there it is the process of growing together.

11/22/2007 6:18:38 AM
We all have blessings in our lives Happy Thanksgiving

11/13/2007 7:59:09 AM
he woke up, feeling pain in his groin as his slave meat tried to expand beyond the chastity devices allowance. his balls burning from the encircling device, he wanted to rub them. The chains and mits kept him from touching, just as She wished. he looked around but could see nothing because of the hood She placed upon him, thus he stayed in his cage, listening hopefully for Her return

10/18/2007 7:59:22 PM
Maybe it is me, but i think it is rude to be direct and say what i need. i do not want to be construed as a trolling person, nor do i want to bring out the disciplinary juices of any Mistress that views me.
It is a confusion within me that is overcome only by the fact that i do not want to be rude. i would gladly serve and lay at the feet of One that has a heart and a mind and real goals...But how do you find them?

11/24/2005 7:20:49 AM
i want to wish E/everyone a happy Thanksgiving day.
Those that do not celebrate Thanksgiving, i wish Y/you a great day anyway!!!

11/6/2005 2:22:46 PM

i am Hers

8/17/2005 10:06:25 AM
i am a worthless pig

8/13/2005 7:06:46 AM
thank You for the messages, i will keep to my course. It is very hard not to touch sometimes. i think i need to wear mits or boxing gloves to stop. i hope E/everyone is having a great summer!!

8/7/2005 12:40:27 PM
slave is going to Las Vegas in!!! i am really looking forward to just seeing that city

7/26/2005 11:30:45 AM
Financial domination?

7/11/2005 8:05:13 AM

i hope that E/everyone had a great 4th of July, and i hope that the people in England stand strong. i hope that the people in florida and surroundning states will recover from hurricane dennis.
i is really hard to even talk about a latex fetish when there has been so much going on in the world.

5/15/2005 5:34:29 PM
For some reason, i get the sense that most of the P/people here are here because of some kind of sadness that has taken place. i hope i am wrong. There is a whole, big, and wonderful, world out there to explore and i sure hope that E/everyone explores it.

sorry if i am babbling

5/8/2005 6:54:05 AM
To ALL of the Mothers in the world, may You have a wonderful Mother's Day. Every day should be Mother's day, to care for and obey the Women we love!!

1/9/2005 9:50:57 AM

this slave is a slut and a pig, he is nothing but a slave who knows that so Many are far better than he. Sometimes it is very difficult to explain that he needs to take time to know what is right, not only for his future Owner, but for a simple slave. Please forgive a slave if he does not rush right in to something for he is cautious and concerned that he is always safe, and that She is fulfilled in what She needs.
i do not have the right to choose otherwise, once i am owned. Please understand that i cannot make that choice without knowing my Owner.

12/23/2004 6:37:39 AM
This has been so great!!
Thank Y/you all for speaking with me and i hope that E/everyone has to most wonderful of holidays. A whole new year starts soon. i hope that it is the best for Y/you!

10/1/2004 6:57:32 PM

there are so many that have asked me if i like to be dressed as a girl. i really dont, in fact, i hate it. If i had a choice of clothing it would be just as any other man. It is very humiliating and degrading to have to be in those kinds of clothes. Someone asked if i was a tv or cd...well im not unless that is what makes my Mistress happy. i would really like to just be naked all the time, unless it was really cold.

10/1/2004 6:48:56 AM
it is so nice to be able to say hi and be really honest and share thoughts and ideas. Thank You so much for letting me share mine

9/28/2004 7:49:59 AM
sometimes it is just so nice to just talk and chat and have fun speaking to E/each other. Even if i dont have that often, i sure hope Y/you do

9/9/2004 8:56:06 AM
i have been away for a couple of weeks now and it is because i met the most wonderful Woman in the world. She guided me and told me what my life was to be like. She knows me more that i think i even know myself. But i got scared, really frightened to even think that i would live the way that i need to live. i drew back because of being frightened, i dont know how to say it other than She sees me as i really am.
She deserves so much better than me, i have too many issues to work out before i can really be free.
i thank Her for seeing me and guiding me and i only hope that She finds someone so much better and capable than i could ever hope to be.
This is such a wonderful site for those of us who just want to be accepted as we are. i have to thank Her for ever spending a second with me.
You are a Goddess

7/27/2004 9:08:15 AM
it's so sad that those of us that want a real connection are frustrated by those who really dont want one.
if its a game then why be here?

7/25/2004 8:23:45 AM
i know i will get the hang of this some time.
i have been looking at all kinds of profiles and i dont know if it is ok to write to People or not. i dont want to be rude to anybody.
But some of the profiles i have been able to see are great!!

7/24/2004 2:33:31 PM
the primary picture is not me, just so A/anyone wanting to know knows.
i guess that the pictures i have of me are not allowed as profile pictures.
i will try to upload a few of me as secondary pictures.

7/24/2004 12:26:45 PM
i have to appologize to E/everyone who has written to me, i was having trouble with my profile. i think it is ok now

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