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	I've been a dom / master for many years now and am now looking for a submissive female that I can experience bdsm with. I've dealt with too many girls that have no idea what they expect in this lifestyle but if you are serious about the lifestyle, contact me and let's see where it goes from there...I'm jon33lewis on yahoo IM...

12/21/2011 3:35:42 PM

Well, I liked this from someone else's profile and so, I'm copying and pasting it here.

Have you heard the news? Collarme has just published some new rules:

1. You can't be owned by someone you haven't met in person.

2. You can't own someone you've never met.

3. People with usernames that include the words, princess, teenage, nigeria, xxx, financial, will be automatically escorted out of Collarme.

4. 18/19 year old submissive girls with just one photo will be removed.

5. The uglier the photo, the more likely the person will be real.

6. Anyone claiming to be from the UK/Europe with a photo showing American plug sockets will be publicly mocked.

7. Couples contain two people. These two people must have pictures of themselves - together!

8. If you're using professional pictures it's probably a good idea to say you're using professionally photographed pictures.

9. You can't talk your way into being a sub/dom to another. Either you're what they're looking for or you're not. If you get a rejection move on - plenty more profiles in the sea.

10. When someone gives you their e-mail address 'Google it'. If you can't find anything be suspicious. If you find they're not who they say, be even more suspicious.

11. Anyone giving a kink e-mail address ("HotMistress55 {at} yahoo {dot} com") rather than a normal e-mail address ("sarahSmith {at} yahoo {dot} com") is almost certainly a fake.

12. There will henceforth be a seperate category for professional dominatrix types and those willing to pay for them.

13. It's far better to reveal the names of people whom are genuine than the fakes.

14. They are a fake until they can prove otherwise.

15. YOU are a fake until you can prove otherwise.

16. The worst time to message a newcomer is when they're new. They're bombarded with messages. Wait a week..or a month.

17. A referral from someone you know is real is the best way to meet someone.

18. You may no longer delay a real time chat (phone, mic, cam etc...) for more than 72 hours.

19. You must now spend 5 minutes on every message you send. Each message must be completely personal to the person you're writing it too. Mention elements in their profile.

20. There is no chance you're going to move abroad to be with a someone you meet here, nor will they move over here. It's pure fantasy.

9/15/2009 6:14:03 AM

Well obviously, I get my share or maybe even more of contacts by those who are not really into the lifestyle or who really want to explore this lifestyle in real life and so, let me share with you something that I am now convinced of, courtesy of someone else on CM who has gone through similar experiences.

Five sure-fire ways to spot a fake. It's not an exact science, but this might help.

1. The person is new to the site, between 18 - 30, with a single posed photograph which simply isn't a 'normal' photograph. Typically, any picture of a young girl that looks too good to be true, is too good to be true.

2. You have to 'earn' pictures (Usually via some sort of 'cam' performance)

3. Their name begins and ends with an 'x'

4. They struggle to send any vanilla photographs.

5. Refuse to chat on a microphone, or on the phone, or use a webcam.

8/23/2009 8:12:52 PM

As you can probably tell, I've had my share of people who lead me on and this is also is some wisdom that someone else has shared on CM:

How to spot a fake on collarme.

1.Their profile is 3 years old yet they only have one pic to show you.
2. Their profile says they are a well to do professional yet they can't seem to afford a web cam or digital camera.
3. They say "let me see you first on cam then after your good I will think about letting you see me"
4. They use a lot of small words and 3 word sentences when chatting.
5. After they refuse to prove who they say they are, I get called the fake.
6. If their photos seem to good to be true they most likely are.

8/17/2009 1:02:08 PM

Copied from someone else:
Ok, it's been suggested and requested that I give a little more information about how to spot the scammers that are afflicting those of us that are using online dating sites. The first thing to know is that most of these scammers are from other countries. Now, this is not to say that all the people on here from other countries are scammers. They will say that they are from your country, but that they got stranded in another country due to circumstances beyond their control. Then they will ask for money to get to you. They will tell you to send it to them through western union or some other wire service. They don't want you to buy them a ticket on your end. They want the money. Very often an easy way to tell if someone is fake is that they don't have a webcam so that you can see them. Now, as to some other scams. I think that there is a reference to these on the mail preferences here. Watch out for people who tell you that they will send you a money order for you to cash. They will want you to send the majority of the money back and you get to keep ten percent. The money orders are fake and you will get arrested. Also, watch out for the ones that send you a letter telling you that you won a lottery or raffle. They will ask you to send a finder's fee to hold the winnings for you.