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i know it's easy to say, but profiles are very hard to sum someone up in a few lines. Master and i are very dedicated to the lifestyle and more than willing to introduce new people into the local scene and always looking for friends. Being poly, we are also always looking for a 3rd that will fit with us nicely. feel free to message anytime.

As always submissively His,










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Journal Entries:
7/12/2012 7:42:33 PM
Thunder in the Mountains!!! Are you here???? Annive rsary year!

7/23/2010 9:22:51 PM
for everyone with Kids, please hold them a little tighter, love them a little longer, and kiss them at every chance. You never know how much longer you have with them. RIP Phoenix age 3

1/7/2010 9:55:11 PM
whelp, i'll be another year older tomorrow... don't know weather to be happy or sad, so i'll just say it's another day...

8/12/2009 7:37:53 PM
happiness is a journey, not a destination...

8/9/2009 10:13:11 PM
i've decided two things...I really can't stand to be without Him.  he's not even been gone an hour, and i am crazy,  It's only a week, and my job makes this happen at least one or two weeks a month... but he usually gets to go with me..... one week turns into two alot... but usually not a big deal... i cried most of the day today....even before he left... for christ sake, i cried over a bag of oreos at walmart!  wtf?!?!?!?!  it's just cookies, and it's just a week... i keep telling myself that, but i really do hope he comes to get me sooner than a week.... i love you... and i miss you more than ever!   and the other thing... i need a new camera... hers is nicer than mine... LOL

7/20/2009 9:43:47 PM
wow another thunder in the history books... how much fun was that!  so many new friends so many new things...... and guess what... a crush!  wow... i never thought i'd say that... i actually have the biggest crush i've had since Master..... blushes...... and it's a gay boy.... sighs.... he's so cute....  did anyone else enjoy thunder as much as i did??????

7/15/2009 10:00:01 PM

THUNDER BOUND!!! at 6am we'll be heading out the door for Thunder... it will be great to see old friends again.  Don't hesitate to stop and say HEY!  :-)

6/21/2009 8:52:23 PM

So glad to be home... i've been working so much that i really haven't had much time to do anything other than wash clothes and leave again... sighs... glad to be home for a day or two!  Yay

3/19/2009 5:49:15 PM
on the road again..... just can't wait to get on the road again..... Work Work Work!!!  off to topeka tomorrow!

3/2/2009 6:57:48 PM
ok i have no clue who's been "chatting" about me, i'd really like to know what the h*LL i'm supposedly saying about the entire community????? either i'm being impersonated or someone really has too much time on their hands.  if anyone has some info i'd appreciate the 411.  Thanks!

1/26/2009 12:44:36 PM
yay the new photo got approved today.  Let me know what you think... it's #10.  Do you like it?

1/24/2009 11:13:12 PM
uploaded a new pic tonight, tested a new look.  When it gets approved, it's #9.  Let me know what you think.  it's the mesh top pic.

11/12/2008 6:48:12 AM
i guess i must still be grumpy about yesterday.... i opened a "chain" email today... The writer was very pleasant, however i must be in a bad mood, because this was my response.......

forgive me i seem to be in a cranky mood today, but.... my profile clearly states that i am collared.  I have nothing that says i'm seeking anything other than a sister, or friends.  I really do not like when an email is obviously a message that was sent to a million people or when someone blatently did not read my profile... sighs.... then people wonder why they don't get replies..........

11/6/2008 6:34:35 PM
OMG... if anyone is taping CSI tonight.... I WANT A COPY!!!!!  it's actually got Lady Heather in it again, and it's going GOOD right now!

11/1/2008 10:33:44 PM
wow.... i just uploaded a new pic, and it's already approved!  way to go CM!  You rock!

10/20/2008 11:15:54 AM
what a difference a weekend makes.  Such a wonderful time, such a wonderful event, so much entertainment and socailizing.  Thank you so much to all the new friends that took the time to get to know us and what our lifestyle is about!!!  It was a great time, and so many horizons were expanded.  It has been a while since Master and i have had that much fun and excitement in a community event.  Guess what else... we have grown again... it's been a while, but in a new atmosphere, we sometimes see ourselves in a new light... I think i like the new me!  :-) 

10/15/2008 8:34:34 PM
is anyone going to whipping in the wheatlands this weekend?

9/29/2008 11:22:43 PM
Yesterday(sunday) Master had his first over forty birthday.  It was a nice day, We had a private tour of the sedgewick county zoo, my personal favorite zoo to take pictures at.....**just look at my myspace gallery of animals** anyway...We goto a special treat by *lexi*.  She works for the zoo, and got Master and i into the elephant area during a special time, and we got to hand feed the elephants.  It was a very cool and enlightening experience to see such a cool and massive animal that is kept in control of a much smaller*animal* , the human zookeeper.....  It was just amazing...... Thanks so much babe!  we love you!!!!

9/15/2008 8:59:57 PM
everyone think ahead and plan for TTK's December 27th event... it's going to be an awsome event with totally new and exciting class, practice time and playtime.... in a nice large building with a capacity of 125.  Whoooo HOOOOOOOOO bring on christmas!

9/9/2008 8:49:51 PM

Changed a pic today.  number 11 is gone and hope the new one gets approved quickly. 

8/26/2008 7:46:34 PM
You know i have to kinda chuckle to myself.  I'm sitting here watching the Democratic National Convention, thinking that these political straight laced politicians are sleeping in the same hotel that hosted Thunder in the Mountains for two years.  giggles... just wonder if those people know that adultery, fornication, sodomy, and who knows what fetishes were performed in the exact same beds that they are sleeping in tonight... laughs.... god how small the world is.. ha ha ha ha  wonder if they'll have our type of good dreams tonight... *winks*

6/7/2008 12:38:58 PM
hey, i know how much most people like their facebook accounts and myspace, but you sometimes caution adding a kinky friend on the same page you have your family on... i hear you there sweetie... We found an awsome networking site just like facebook and myspace.... .... what a fun place... feel free to add me there too... god i love social networking! just think you might find a fun NEW fetish!!!!  yay....

6/4/2008 8:38:11 PM
well it is spring cleaning time.... getting rid of stuff hanging out in my closet that doesnt' need to be there anymore.... selling a few things... 20 gauge shot gun, 410 bolt action, gun case, childrens stuff.... msg me if you're interested!  :-)

4/24/2008 7:05:48 PM
updated picture 13 today... Hope it gets approved soon.. LOL

4/23/2008 8:28:25 PM

I know you are coming home.  I anxiously shower and shave the areas You love to caress.  Jumping out of the shower and quickly drying off, I walk softly into the living room, assuming my place beside the door, kneeling waiting for your arrival.  I can feel the carpet pushing into my knees leaving the tiny indentions.  They don’t really hurt, they just remind me of my submission to Your Dominance. 

Hearing a car pull into the driveway, I drop my eyes to the floor and begin to feel the quivering in my body.  Anticipation…. Many things race thru my mind quickly.  None of the thoughts make full images.  Blurs of things to come pass by my eyes until I hear the doorknob twist above my head and I close my eyes breathing heavy to calm my nerves.  I shake in your presence as you enter. 

You find me in my assigned position.  You are proud to see your girl as requested.  Kneeling, still slightly damp from the shower, You drink in my hair falling down my back, glancing over my shoulders seeing them shiver as you gaze down at me.  You unload your arms and take my chin in your hand.  I exhale and breathe in your scent.  I miss it so when you are not home.  As you tilt my head up to your face, I lay the side of my cheek into the strong curve of your palm and look up longingly into your face.  Kissing your palm, I look up at you and ask “how was your Day Master?”


You lean into my forehead and gently kiss my temple.  “much better now precious.”

4/23/2008 6:59:57 AM

Here a girl sits… wanting, needing, aching. Your words still in her mind.  Sleep is next to impossible.  Wanting You, knowing your touches and the emotions they bring when placed in certain areas.  Thinking of your hands in my hair… your hands hungry running down my body searching for what is Yours.  It is Yours… You know it, you claimed it a long time ago.  Her passions and yearning boiling inside, waiting to leave its mark upon your fingers.  His hands brush across her shoulder with haste.  She yearns to hear your heavy voice upon her ear… your words evoking powerful images inside her mind.  She loves to hear your voice.  His voice reaches to the dark untouched parts of her soul, pulling out tears, fears and chills of the unknown.  If she releases that part of her, will it scare Him? 

4/7/2008 8:52:22 PM
ku wins!!!

3/7/2008 8:35:16 PM
work work work, when is it time for US?... it's so hard to stay away from home so much... sighs maybe soon i get to stay home for a day or two... yay!

2/17/2008 9:17:00 AM
well i made it into St. Louis on my first flight ever!  wow.. that was a ride.  i had never been even close to an airplane before... but it was really fun... wow didnt' think i'd ever say that about a plane... but it was... i had to go all by myself... and i am stuck here with out Master for a week.... sighs.. i hope he makes it ok with out me... laughs

2/10/2008 9:24:07 PM
well, the valentine's day curse has already struck for this year(long story).... i wrecked my car on the 5th... and yes, it's a total loss.  I hope to have my money back by friday so that I can get into my new to me car... I hope it hurries up.... i have to get to the airport sunday morning for work!!!  the whole waiting thing drives me insane waiting for it to get back to a normal work schedule..grumbles  hope everyone else has a great valentine's day... mine will be better now for sure.

1/6/2008 10:20:10 PM
it's almost my birthday... whoo hoo... happy birthday to me... happy birthday to me... happy birthday to meeeeeeee. happy birthday to me.....

12/11/2007 9:51:27 PM
it's that time of year again, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Have a great New Year!  To those of you that i have grown to know and love, you have a special place in my heart... Most of all, i love You Master!  xoxoxo

11/6/2007 7:44:02 PM

Updated a few photos, hope they get approved soon.. :-)

10/29/2007 8:52:47 PM
 halloween munch was fun!  fire anyone?   

9/27/2007 9:25:21 PM
Happy Birthday to HIM... Happy Birthday to Him... Happy birthday dear Master.... Happy Birthday to YOU!!!!  

9/1/2007 8:26:52 PM

Senility Prayer:
God grant me the senility to forget the people i never liked anyway, the good fortune to run into the ones i do, and the eyesight to tell the difference.

I just love the way that people think that just because they read something on the internet, it is a GOSPEL and it's going to happen.  i just don't understand the way that certain people think.  and YES, i do mean YOU... i had really thought that you had grown up and moved on with your life, but things have proved otherwise.  please realize what's important... your child.  causing hate and discontent does not solve an issue.  running from a situation does not solve anything either.  i hope you enjoy being nosey and "checking up on me" (i'm beginning to think you haven't moved on...) and i hope you enjoy my continued journals.  But really i'm an adult...and YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND...  i am always open for constructive conversation as MATURE adults,  but not for negativity and bullheadedness.  If you want to fight, call someone else, i REFUSE to play that game.   HAVE YOU CONSIDERED COUNCELING?  maybe that would help you and kathy....

8/2/2007 8:58:53 PM
wow what a wild month... i have a new temp. position at work and i am traveling alot... it's a fun and exciting time, but boy i'm meeting myself coming and going.. LOL.... Thunder was a Hella good time this year, working on the transportation team was exhausting work, but it was SOOOO worth it when you see all of the people enjoying all of the equipment you helped to get there.  It was kinda sad putting most of it back into storage... pouts... there is nothing like the energy that can be found in a public dungeon during a big convention.... the sounds of the whips, wandering thru equipment  with naked bodies, fire, flames and electricity... etc.  there was an excitement that's not always felt.  There is alot to be said about public play and good things to be said about private play as well.. :-)  any hoo.... hope this finds you all well!!!  :-)

7/21/2007 1:59:46 AM
Thunder is AWSOME!!! is anyone else here, or want to go to breakfast/dinner any time this weekend?

7/2/2007 7:48:25 PM
well it's getting close to that Vacation time again!!!  is anyone else going to Denver for thunder again this year?  it's the 10th anniversary!!

5/31/2007 10:54:03 AM
busy busy busy... it's such a long 24 hours sometimes.... did everyone have a good holiday weekend? 

5/23/2007 2:48:30 PM

i grow so tired of people's crap some days... really.. GET A LIFE!  If you plan on messaging me.... make sure you at least know what intelligent conversation is!  If you can't hold an average conversation with me, why should i even take the time to open your message?  There is only one way to "stimulate" me... and it's not by being childish, rude or petty.  PS... start with the MIND!... I play in the REAL WORLD if you're calling someone a b*tch or a c* had better have negotiated with them first, or at least discussed it with their Master!!  for those of you that do NOT negotiate, glad that works for you, however that's not going to get you ANYWHERE with me!

5/1/2007 8:56:00 AM
Boy this wait for new photos to be updaed SUCKS!!!!!!  pouts.. i wanna see them!!  laughs

3/13/2007 10:27:33 AM
i must admit i have some of the best friends in the world here on this site!  and YES you do know who you are.... the ones that wake me at 6 in the morning when you find someone new!  gotta love that... the ones that call just to say HI... and the ones that are just so very special.....i love you all!! xoxoxoxo

3/8/2007 5:44:31 PM
life throws us curve balls daily.... how we react to those curves can turn them into Strikes or Homeruns.... it all depends on how we look at it, and what we do with it.   Why is it that so many people run when the going gets tough?  if life was easy, everyone would be boring... it seems to be the favorite words of the month are "i'm leaving the lifestyle"... what does the vanilla world hold that the bdsm world doesn't?  thanks to the wonderful world of the internet we find fakes, and cheaters, and haters... as well as genuine lovers here as well.... if BDSM is your life, and something you crave as much as possible, why do you insist on "running" to something it's polar opposite?  We come to the lifestyle because we are missing something in our life, and the BDSM community in hopes of finding what we need to fulfill that desire... but why are so many people willing to run back to "vanilla" the first time things become difficult knowing that what they are going back to is still the same world that isn't  "enough" for them.  BDSM does have its ups and downs, but one has to TRY to make it work...A BDSM FAMILY.. loves you unconditionally, no matter how much you beat yourself up.  this lifestyle has it's own share of loosers, liars and wannabe players, it's when we sift thru those that we find what we are truely looking for, friends, teachers, mentors, and partners.

1/21/2007 7:10:11 PM
well, change is always a good thing... Tuesday i go for an interview in a new city.  Master and i patiently wait for the news that we can start packing... i'm going to be looking at houses also...pouts and Master has to stay here and work.... so much to plan, so much to do... my college prep work is also done, and i start classes on the 7th of March... wow how quickly tides turn.. i can't wait to see where this twist takes us.on a side note, is anyone else tired of the snow yet?  geeze already.. lol

1/8/2007 7:02:48 AM
happy birthday to me!!  LOL i have several wonderful new friends on CM... one much closer than the others... *she knows who she is*  i have great hopes and dreams for our family.  We are also contemplating a change in scenery.... what do you think?  smiles... anyway.. happy birthday to me!   :-)

12/31/2006 7:47:55 AM

in case no one has noticed, i am an avid journal reader.... lol  the other day, i ran across one that i really liked and Kscontrol had some very Wise things to say about meeting people.  i emailed the gentleman, and he was VERY kind about letting me post those well chosen words to my journal.. In this new year, lets see if anyone actually reads journals and takes those words to heart shall we?  Here is Kscontrol's very intellegent thinking!! 

Many people seem to be resistant to the concept of meeting to 'play' without a serious anticipation that a relationship is going to go beyond that.  My slave and I both had met and played with others before we met one another, and I, I know..those experiences helped prepare us for one another.  None of those were long-term, or 'serious', but they helped us discover more of who we were, what we wanted, and didn't want, and helped us recognize the match we had found in one another when we did meet.  My encouragement to those who are seeking a 'significant other' is...stop seeking.  Instead, look for people who seem interesting, seek out some r/l experiences (yes, do it intelligently and safely - safe-calls are an essential part of the exploration of this lifestyle), but do not put too much emphasis on every potential meeting being 'the one'.  That raises too many expectations which may be unrealistic for that particular person and/or relationship, and limits your opportunity to explore. 

You are more likely to find 'the one' by NOT looking for him/her, and will likely meet some very interesting and nice people, even if they aren't the 'perfect match'.  Yes, you need to have some standards, and a husband cheating on his wife (or a woman cheating on her husband), is not likely to provide a positive experience, or leave you feeling very good about what has transpired.  But, don't be afraid to explore, to try things, to experience people.  If you do it with some caution and keep safety issues in mind, those experiences can be very positive learning times (regardless of your level of experience), expose you to people and things you might have missed, and quite possibly, somewhere along the way, cause you to meet the person you have been looking for all along.

Have a wonderful New Year!!!

12/28/2006 11:20:11 AM
has one ever thought about what it means to be unapproachable?  i am the furthest away from this as humanly possible... i am very easy to talk to, and quite a good listener. (devy.. giggles) i also want to make it known that my photos are indeed me, and i am very easy to talk to and get to know, however, i am not going to be the pushy one that wants to know your life history during the first conversation.  i have made several contacts here within the month of december, and have lost touch with a few during the holiday season.  That saddens me. Please feel free to hit that message button because i am very approachable... giggles 

On a side note however, unapproachable when it has been used to describe me, i have always taken it as a slam, like i had some wall up that no one could see or take the time to look over or around or thru, but today, being the "definition" seeker that i am, i've decided that it's not necessarily a bad thing to be unapproachable.  laughs... see below:


Pronunciation: (un"u-prō'chu-bul),
1. not capable of being approached; remote; unreachable: an unapproachable spot; an unapproachable person.
2. impossible to equal or rival: unapproachable mastery of her art.

wow, maybe they were saying something good.. LOL

12/7/2006 9:37:58 PM
finally, time has allowed me to update a few new pictures into my little photo album here.  drop me a line anytime.  :-)  always seeking friends and intelligent conversation.

11/26/2006 2:11:26 PM
a short definition of poly, on my view, Master and i search for a partner, however, recently some view poly as looking for another to satisfy lusts, that is not what we seek, we seek polyfidelity....  not just poly....seems more and more seem to be throwing the poly word out to see what "fish" they can catch... please see definition below, maybe clearing up any confusion:
Forms of polyamory include:
- Polyfidelity, which involves multiple romantic relationships with sexual contact restricted to specific partners in a group.
- Sub-relationships, which distinguish between "primary" and "secondary" relationships

polyfidelity: Most
monogamy define fidelity as committing to only one partner (at a time), and having no other sexual or relational partners during such commitment. The poly version of this is polyfidelity , a specific form of polyamory defined by a lasting, sexually exclusive commitment to multiple partners. But some polyamorists define fidelity as being honest and forthcoming with their partners in respect to their relational lives, and keeping to the commitments they have made in those relationships, rather than basing it on sexual exclusivity. This can be read as the same definition used in monogamy: If fidelity means honoring the agreements you have made about the relationship, then fidelity in the context of monogamy means you've agreed to be monogamous, and honor that. Others prefer to emphasise loyalty , sometimes defined as the ability to rely upon the other person's support, care, and presence.

Hopefully that clears some confusion... Poly familys love just as strong and sometimes stronger than a typical monogamous couple.  Before one passes judgement, one should truely experience a TRUE poly household.
--with upmost respect to Him,

10/16/2006 8:10:18 PM

A short story for those who like to read a bit, Hope you enjoy.

The touch of a true Master's hand

she was battered and bruised, scarred and tattered, the so-called "master" had tossed her aside, sending her to the slave auction.  The old auctioneer thought it was hardly worth his time to present such a poor excuse of a slave, but he raised her up by the chains and collar and with a sneer said, "give me a dollar, who'll make it two?  Only two dollars, who'll make it three?  Three dollars twice, now that's a good price, but who's got a bid for me?"
The air was wretched and hot as the crowd just stood there with the sun setting low.  Then from the back of the crowd a gray haired man bearing a singletail whip came forward  and raised the girls chin.  He wiped the dirt from the girls face and smoothed her mussed hair.  With a simple adjustment of the chains in HIS hands, she suddenly stood taller as if she had a new found pride.  Stepping behind her, the Master whispered into her ear, her face blushing.  It was the first signs of life she'd felt in years!
The man stood behind her and began to caress her flanks, upon easing back away from her, the whip began to sing through the air and fall onto her flesh.  Stinging and cutting into the flesh with a fire she's not remembered in such a long time, she cried out.  Her crys sang out a rythem of excitement and pain.  The melody was so pure and sweet that the energy suddenly moved to the crowd and they began to cheer with delight.
When the Master was done, the auctioneer with a voice low and slow said, "now what's my bid for this fine slave? A thousand dollars, who'll make it three?  Three thousand dollars and thats a good price, but who's got a bid for me?" 
The people cried out, "what made the change?  We don't understand?"  The Auctioneer stopped and said with a smile, "do you not see the difference with the touch of a true Master's hand?"

Now many a person with their life out of tune is often battered and scarred.  They are offered and auctioned cheep to a thankless world much like the used slave, But the true Master comes along, and the foolish crowd never understands the worth of a submissive soul or the change that is brought just by the touch of the Master's hand.

Adapted from a story of a violin my family had for years!

9/27/2006 8:49:34 PM

What is a soulmate?

A soulmate is someone who has locks
that fit our keys and keys to fit our locks.  When we feel safe enough to open the locks our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are.
 We can be loved for who we are and not for who we are pretending to be.

thank You Master, i love You

9/26/2006 9:47:26 AM
off to a wedding this weekend.  we will be leaving friday afternoon and be out until Monday.  But the good news, we plan to update photos on MONDAY EVENING!  YEA!!  out with the old and in with the new!  i guess autumn is the season for change... WELCOME FALL!!  xoxo

9/25/2006 11:48:31 AM
starting a new era with a new cleaned out journal.... i refuse to look to the past when the future is so bright....

the only item to survive from my 2yrs worth of journals.... one quote from a very smart young man...
Excuses are lies disguised as reasons....
   i must admit, there are a few intelligent very young people still in this world. 

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