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Hetero Male Dominant, 62,  Wichita, Kansas
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I am A Dom

I am seeking a submissive person, not a switch, or a fake. A person who clearly knows who she is.

I am not married, this is real and not a lie, live alone, work full time, and am lonely. I'd like to find a friend first, get to know someone, then perhaps more. If you are looking for things besides company and pleasure, then look elsewhere. I am well off, and intend to stay that way. Have been taken for a ride my last time. It is evident.

I am not looking at this time, if I find someone they must be submissive to start, then maybe later be as desired. I will respect everyone but I will not cater to someone who needs more than I can provide. A friend and companion is needed, so if you like my profile or are interested in my world, then message me. I do not play games. I would expect that someone else would not either. I have another profile and I will explain that, if you care to ask. You will not judge me without knowing the facts please.

If you message me, I will too. I'm lonely and like to chat very much.













 Dominant Male



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 0"

 150 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Female

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples


Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Garage Sales (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Corsetry (Expert)

 Alternative Music



 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets


 Renaissance Faires


 Breast Play

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)


 You wearing stockings

 Puzzle Games

 Web Surfing


 New Age Music


 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Going to the Opera



 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Spanking you (Beginner)



 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)

 Folk Music

 Rock Music


 Shopping (Beginner)


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Curious About:



 Crossdressing (Beginner)

 Rear End Play (Beginner)

 Oral Service

 Rubber Fetish


 Watersports (Beginner)







 Corner Time


 Electrical Play

 G-spot Stimulation

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Journal Entries:
3/19/2011 11:27:19 PM

I left the dom environment for a more stable life.  But, I still get interested submissive's that wonder what he's like in private.  Well, I can tell the most truth if I have you completely and press your body against mine.  Sure, I love for you to do what I wish and only for what I wish, but not for the azure of the deep concentrated connected manner of being you have to desire from your dream someone.


You will get my message when you dream and fall for the desires of deep that appear for your heart.  If you understand this message, you will message in your sub way and desire the magic of your inner person.  To do this you will solve the desire of your being in three ways.  Say all of them and you are immortal in your body and submissive soul.  You want these three desires and will say them for me and in order of importance to my desires. 

1/15/2009 7:36:13 PM
I am finding myself more and more every day. I have a chance to change my life with someone. I am finding I like to be in control and to inflict control. I cannot be someone else. I have tried. Everyone who knows me thinks I am passive and it is far from the truth. I love to have my body carressed and touched, I have found that it is the ultimate turn on for me. If somone is not willing to oral me and touch me, then they are not for me. I am finding myself in ways I never thought possible. Anyone who reads this may know this already but, I am sensual, but strong willed. You have to know that everything will be about me and not you. If you can't accept that, then don't bother and go away.

10/4/2008 7:34:21 PM
There is someone that I was interested in but she is hung up on everything except wanting a nice and good relationship. I can't make her see what she is like. She does not even think about anything in the future. She could have had it all being with me. But, she did not want to even try. And will not contact me on her own. This is the last straw for her. She has one more chance on a Sunday in November. One and only one chance. We shall see.

9/13/2008 9:43:49 AM
I have now a friend who is wonderful. And best of all, is not married. A someone who understands that the world does not revolve around me, and it does not revolve around her, it just goes on as a world. There is nothing more sacred than honesty and someone who can be with each other. No tricks, no hiding, no having family first, when there is a relationship to develop. This is a noble and rewarding virtue to find in someone who can tell her mind and still be commanding with what is important. Money is not anything important. She understands this and will demand only the pride she deserves. Respect and understanding. A willingness to be open, and honest. Someone who does not teach children to hide from someone. This is the virtue which is utmost important to children. They will continue to be bad spirited if the teaching continues. Hate is taught not learned. I just regret that has allowed to snag my judgement in people. A married woman evidently is constantly hating others if she tries to allow another in her life. Children are taught to hate, but only the one they should love and accept. It is very sad.

9/6/2008 11:06:23 AM

I would like a person who will be honest with me and not avoid me. She has a webcam, she has a microphone, but she will not talk to me face to face with it. I do not understand this at all. It does not cost anything and it does not take away from SKYPE calls. She does not care then. I am very hurt that she will not even try to answer me.

8/26/2008 8:32:39 PM
I am happy that you are willing to give yourself to me completely. You will do well in your journey. I have trained you well to be a good and respectful little one, who respects others and will remain true to your own spirit as well. Your training is almost complete and with your spirit being a console of grace and trust, you can be your own, for a while. You can be punished, for your regressions and you have learned that well. Have your intentions made known to your Master as your journey ends with a resign of your objects. Have being treated for the object that you desire, your soul now belongs to the one who you submit to completely. Align your spirit with your heart and commit to your Master with honor. My little spirit, you have done well to honor and submit.

8/25/2008 8:29:33 PM
Just got back in town. Had some challenges to overcome. Dog doing fine just picked her up too. Have gotten some offers for business arangements that will be promising to me. Over 30 K invested, this scheme better work or I am not happy. Let us know KPD and PEK. I will be waiting. Secure the candle first. Garters and stockings to follow. At 1 east 4 south. All greater than 1. Thank you.

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