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First and foremost, social graces and protocols are a must, anything lesser than will rejected and not considered. You must demonstrate and valid to me that you are well schooled in mannerisms

Is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dom knows that things will happen as a progression of the interaction it is not the activities, but the surrender as a result of the Domination that is the ive and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation.
These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They do not like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender.

She "wants" to as a result of the Dominant's knowledge and skill at Dominating. Sensuousness is the rule and light pain is given and received as a form of sensuousness stimulation.

If you cant enjoy and relate to the Art of Erotica, in Words, Scenes, and Writtings ... then continue on viewing others .... as their is nothing more to see here .nline romance, submissives or sex slaves are invited to say hello ! All this are preludes to possible meetings in real life
Within the qualities of a submissive ..the lady must be self respecting, elegant, and one who takes pride in her femininity and sensuality ...... I believe two people can weave a tapestry that blends both "Vanilla and the" within their day to day life ..... simply meaning when the senses reveal the desire to please and be pleasured .... it happens naturally and not via a time frame etc.
She must also have appreciation for his acts of Chivalry, Romance, His Seduction and desire to please and be pleasured in return. I read many sub/slave journals and profiles that comment about the "Thin" emails they receive and what little is shared about the person sending the note.

On the other hand its a two way street, in how some sub/slaves do not have the same social grace, to simply remit a "Thank You" for a respectful note of introduction along with a return statement of "Interest or Non-Interest."

Oh and another clue for you subs ..... have the courtesy of posting a comment that you only seek locals .... if that is your choice and if you state you are willing to relocate .. make it clear where and where not your willing to locate.

"Lead me not into temptation ..... I can find it myself... " "For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. ~Isabel Allende"

“Men are easy to get but hard to keep.”
Mae West
6/26/2014 10:38:13 AM

My methodology Is Simple: 

Add 1 part Chivalry to 1 part Romance & Charm to 1 part Erotica

... let the ingredients simmer within her mental and emotional state

... and her natural submissiveness will soon rise
... and he will be gifted and seduced with her appetizing intimate servitude
... all for his total pleasure and fullfillment


"Lead me not into temptation ..... I can find it myself... "

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9/12/2013 8:51:56 PM

Quote "if you cant reach me mentally and intellectually you wont reach me intimately" 

3/13/2011 10:33:49 PM

One issue that I find consistent on this site by both males and females ... is the appearance of those seeking "Instant Gratification" vs the lost art of Developing a friendship that leads hopefully ..... into a relationship ....

For those seeking Instant Gratification ... I suggest you find a Brothel/Bordello where Objectification is socially accepted .... or find a Male Escort Service where Objectification is the Norm ...

My Neighbors two dogs created more shovel ready projects ....than the current administration .....LOL

I agree with a recent posting by a "Lady" here on CM ..when she asked why so many people take self photo's from their bathroom ... with the Toilet in the picture ... Personally I dont find those type of pictures appetizing, charming or romantic .. Just Sayin

You may notice that I have not included a list of fetishes and kinky likes/dislikes. I would prefer you take the time to get to know me. I am more than a checklist and more than simple titles.


Thank you for your interest .... if just to say "Hello"

7/11/2010 8:17:35 PM

Reading the journals, about the transitions from Joy of being Underconsideration, to finding the one ..... to the Sorrow ... of being released .....

Is like watching a Western Square Dance where they change partners every sex steps.

And if you look at the used "Collar" table here on CM you will see many still have the original price tag on it ... much like the little old lady who only drove her 1955 chevy to and from Church and the Grocery Store.

If you are feeling Stress during these economic challenging times ... Suggestion: Get a long piece of bubble pack ... listen to your favorite music ..and enjoy breaking each bubble ... this method of stress relief is cheaper than "Therapy"

A friend recently said this method is also known as "Bubble Wrap Orgasms"

A good test of your "Intimacy Impact Play" is to put a large piece of bubble wrap under your sheets while engaged in intimacy ... the greater number of bubbles you break ... defines your score of intimacy on a scale of ten ... "Can each of you have the Endurance and stamina to break most if not all the Bubbles?"

I love this cliche ..."Dont Leave a Mark ... Leave a Lasting Impression .... as we dont get a second chance to make a first impression"

 Age: 47
 Palmetto, Florida