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Male Dominant, 55, Staunton, Virginia
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About golden1
Hello, I am a single female. I am not a fake. So if you are looking for a friend then please lets chat.
I am not looking for sex, as it is only a bonus if sex happens, it is not a big part of it for me. I submit to only a select few, I am very picky about who those are. I am NOT looking for a Dom. I am not ready to just give you my trust, it is earned.
I am looking for a female to come play with in a group of 3, myself and another. If you are intrested then feel free to send me email. If your another couple looking to play, then send me a email we can explore if that is a possiblity.
Then please contact me, let's build a friendship. I am not looking for a collar. But I am not ready for one at this time.
I am not looking for anything beyond friendship |
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How many times do I have to say I am not looking for male subs? It's gotten so bad, that I am no longer replying to them. SO if your a male sub and you email me, know it will not be returned nor read.. it gets deleted right away.
Thank you I'm done with my rant...
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Hello,
Another long absence, but hey that is life. Summer was here and now it is almost gone. I had a very good summer. Spending it with friends and loved ones. Making new friends at Black Beat 2005 It's your thang.. Yes you guessed it.. it was a 70's theme and very nicely put on.
I am now trying to seatleback into "fall/winter routine.. i doubt i will make it. But let me saw this to Ones who feel the need to send me a email that says "Your search is over, I am your Master now obey.." *smirks* If you send emails like that don't bother me. If your intrested in being friends. As that is all i can offer you. Then send away.
I am involded with someone. I am happy in that relationship. I have no desire to mess with it change it ect ect. If more happens then friendship then it will, but do not come to me demanding more. *g*
Well, my son is off to collage in a year. Already been accepted and has accepted a dorm placement. He was a honor role last year. We did his senior pics a mth or so ago. He is well on his way. My daughter is now living on her own and working a fairly good job. Soon my house will be all to my lonesome. (Not a bad thing let me assure you)
OK time for me to get working and stop chatting here.. have a GREAT DAY! |
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Hello,
A very long time in me writing here. I have been remodeling my home. Working weird hours and basically behaving. I was very ill in Dec. had to spend a few weeks in the hospital. Let's see I had to buy a bunch of new office stuff as mine broke or was just soold it was not sane to keep it.
Time does heal all wounds, I am still slowly healing emtionaly and physically. I am involded with someone who has to date helped allot with this healing. Time will tell just how far I heal. I am looking forward to the lessons. *grins* So, at this time I amno longer looking for anything beyond friendship. If you looking for a new friend send me a email.
Be safe,
golden
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Hello,
Well almost another mth has passed by. I am not sure about other submissives, but for myself... i get to a point that i want/need to have a scene. One that means something beyond just laying there and accepting what is happening. Not sure how to put this in words. But it is a ache, a place that when i get to do a scene that maeans something then it fills that void.
I am now at that place, these feelings do pass, but it takes so much to make them pass. And not to jump at the first thing that is offered to you. *L* It has been almost 3 years of healing. I figure this is just another part of that healing. Now at a place i am willing to give over totally to someone. *grins* Ok, not totally but you get the ideal.
Be safe,
golden
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I know it has been awhile for me to write here, but come on those that say they have read everything i have posted here are just fibbers. Becouse if you have half of those would not bother to write me. Or maybe they just like being added to my igorne listing. Who knows.
Let's see Here are a few ground rules i follow when dating anyone be they are "vanilla" or BDSM.
1. I do not dated or play with married men. (Not knowingly)
2. I do not need a man to support me money wise.
3. Do not expect me to relocate, as i highly doubt that would happen. I just bought my home and like living in it.
4. I live in the boone docks of Gettysburg Pa. I love it.
5. I am not looking for collar. Now you ask yourself why? Becouse i am no ready for one. If and when i am then i will deal with it. But for now do not asume just becouse i am a Submissive, I am a floor mat. That is not the case.
Be safe,
golden
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I know it has been awhile for me to write here, but come on those that say they have read everything i have posted here are just fibbers. Becouse if you have half of those would not bother to write me. Or maybe they just like being added to my igorne listing. Who knows.
Let's see Here are a few ground rules i follow when dating anyone be they are "vanilla" or BDSM.
1. I do not dated or play with married men. (Not knowingly)
2. I do not need a man to support me money wise.
3. Do not expect me to relocate, as i highly doubt that would happen. I just bought my home and like living in it.
4. I live in the boone docks of Gettysburg Pa. I love it.
5. I am not looking for collar. Now you ask yourself why? Becouse i am no ready for one. If and when i am then i will deal with it. But for now do not asume just becouse i am a Submissive, I am a floor mat. That is not the case.
Be safe,
golden |
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Well, it has been awhile for me to write in this, where to begin. I am slowly opening more to people close to me. But then i never releised i had closed off parts of me to my friends after my break up almost 2 years ago. But i did, it is hard opening back up, exposing yourself to hurts. I have taken steps forwards and 2 back for ever one forward. But i am slowly making it. I guess that is all that matters.
Well, now that said i am heading off to work inmy small flowerbed. Be safe and write if your looking to make a friend.
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I have made my finally plans for visting NYC for the day. *grins* and then moving onto the new club warehouse located there. I can't wait. I have never been to NYC and so this will be fun going to play in the city durning the day then to have dinner with a bunch of friends. Then on to the BDSM club. I have heard differant sides to this club and some are good and some are bad. My visit ... well i almost went to paddles but chose to go to the warehouse. I just hope it is nicer then some of the reports that have trickled back to me.
I have friends on their way from ohio to go with me and others from delware who are planning on attending. Dam i sure can draw a group together when i put my mind to it. As, I doubt I will be on here much except in the evening when my friends finally head to my guest room. (which is finished) Be safe and stay happy. |
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Another day, I have finally moved my bedroom into what will noe be my bedroom. I have a real bed instead of just a mattress on the floor. Hard to sleep now. Not sure why, could be becouse now I ma about 3 feet off the ground. Where as before my mattress was on the floor. I also got my bathroom, livingroom also partly finished. Finally moved my office into the cooler part of the house for summer. Now just need to finish the guest bedroom and my house will be back in order. I hate spring cleaning but it needs to be done. Not that i needed to put all that here.
For some who have asked if I would relocate? No, I am not willing to at this time. I just moved back to my hometown. I am looking for a Dom who can do vanilla things as well as the BDSM things. He has to be willing to "date" me. (I hate the word date but no other comes to mind at this time.) Get to know me as a person and respect me before we move into the BDSM part. I also do not sleep around. I don't see sex as a big part of this. It is a lifestyle for me. I live it everyday of my life, even without a DOm in my life. I act and behave in a way if where to come to my home he would hear nothing but good things about me. Becouse someday The one I choose may just do that.
Yes I did say the one I choose. As, in the end it is the sub that offers herself to the Dom. exposes herself to his rejection. Not the other way around. I guess, I have been thinking allot of this. In a way i see it as my healing time working. I am slowly going out to munches and play parties. I am starting to desire that bounding of One with a sub. But I am in no rush to get there. As I see it I have all the time in the world to find what I seek. So please do not be in a rush to push me. Don't tell me I am not submissive becouse i will not accept the first email sent to me telling me "You will show me what a real cunt you can make of me." Or something along those lines. It will only push me further away. If I give it is my choice to give. You can't demand or take something I have to offer.
Be safe,
golden1
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Hello again,
I am wondering if there is something about my profile that says "write her a one liner. She will not care." Well let me say i hate one liners. I dislike email that demands i come to heel, when the person writing the email doesn't know me. Please You may read my profile...... you maybe will even read some of my journal. But do not asume you know me. I am made of allot of differant things not just one thing.
Sorry for the rant, but I guess fighting with a friend of mine for 2 days off and on again has gotten to me. Now I am having to make a choice. I hate having choices to make. I on a norm pick the wrong one. So now I am waring with myself over this.
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Hello again,
I know it has been awhile for me to write in this but let's see i have had many major changes in my life. No, I am not collared or anything like that. My pc went on the blinks, so am having to repair and replace some major parts in it. I have only 1 child living at home. Plus my 4 cats which is soon to be 3 like it was before my daughter brought in strays off the street.
I am also looking over what i want and what i need from someone who is Dom. I don't need a man who thinks he is god's gift to woman. he need not be cocky or be a bully. But i do need a man who respects himself and others. In that he takes personal pride in how he looks and how others see him. He must be willing to learn from me as much as I learn from him. He also has to have understanding that trust is earned and not a given.
I could go on but if you want to know more of me then write me. Make sure you do more then a one liner as that will just get you a smart ass remark from me. I am know for having a quick mind and wit. My personal saying is protect the property before anything. That is how i see what My job is currently. I am too protect myself til I can entrust myself into ones hands.
I guess thats enough for now, as I need to run and do something in real life. Be safe and remeber always keep a smile on your face so everyone else wonders what you are up too.
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Hello again,
Let's see i have had the week from hell, I was thinking earlier in the week how nice it would be to be able to stay in my room and do nothing. Now, be careful for what you ask for. I am now stuck in my bedroom/office. I fell down my bedroom stairs and ripped my ankle up pretty good. Now on crutches for at least 6 weeks. No going any place or doing anything. SO i am killing time on line. It gets boring fast!!! *grins* Be safe and be happy. I'll write more tomarrow. |
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I will now add what I do like, as this site does not allow you to do that in a check list. Cuffs, collars, (sometimes a lesh), canes, paddles, floggers, nipple clamps just to name a few. I also like breath play if i trust the person i am with, as most know that takes allot of trust. Dildos, some role play, ropes, some anal play (more or less a virgin), blind folds are plus, tens units are great! Ok i guess thats enough for now. *grins* Will add more later. |
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Let's see i keep getting email from people who are not understanding what a slave is to a submissive. I thought I would give a lesson in the differance is. I am a submissive female, not a slave so below you will find the differance. Please read them, understand them.
SLAVE:
- One bound in servitude as the property of a person or household.
- One who is abjectly subservient to a specified person or influence: ?I was still the slave of education and prejudice? (Edward Gibbon).
- One who works extremely hard.
- A machine or component controlled by another machine or component.
- Submissive:
\Sub*mis"sive\, a. 1. Inclined or ready to submit; acknowledging one's inferiority; yielding; obedient; humble.
Not at his feet submissive in distress, Creature so fair his reconcilement seeking. --Milton.
2. Showing a readiness to submit; expressing submission; as, a submissive demeanor.
With a submissive step I hasted down. --Prior.
Syn: Obedient; compliant; yielding; obsequious; subservient; humble; modest; passive. |
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Let's See what else to add about myself. I am a grandmother of identical twins. I figure i will try to write in here daily (but i highly doubt I will.) I belong to Black Rose and attend their yearly event. I am a DM for them. Most are asking where I live, what part of Pa... I am in the battlefields of Gettsyburg. *S* I couldn't wait to leave as a child but as an adult I couldn't wait to get back.
I did live in Philadelphia for awhile, but i am a country girl at heart and have no desire to go back to the city.
be safe,
golden1
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Let's see i thought this would be a good place for me to add more info on myself. BDSM is part of who i am but not all.
Hobbies are roller skating, bike riding, reading, walks in the woods or on a beach. I love Law & Order and CSI they are about the only thing i do watch when/if i watch tv.
I think that is enough for now. |
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