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Hetero Female Submissive, 64,  Des Moines, Iowa
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ldyinthemist1950 - submissive

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I am honest, trustworthy and passionate.

I am old enough to know what I want and strong enough to know what I need..��

I am very submissive, I love bondage, gags and blindfolds.. totally?helpless, his captive sex slave.. to give up total control, to have it taken from me.. and used for his pleasure, over and over...Enjoy being hobbled, plugged and gagged during chores..I am a submissive into restriction, gags, bondage, servitude, sensory deprivation, and TPE/APE... I also have a high sex drive����

Open to trying something new and willing to share ideas..Ready to explore..

Communication is Key..........

I am One on One Only............

I?have bad knees but walk fine,?I can?not crawl around on floors, kneel on them or bend them back to my thighs.....................................

I take this very seriously, and I know this is not a game.....��

I do not cam, phone or cyber to Anyone.
? No Liars or Game Players��Please... you know who you are.�� At least one of you does..................................................

NO MARRIED Men or ATTACHED Men?.............
? I am only?looking for Men in?my age group............
I will NOT Relocate but if You are special enough?I might.............

If you are SERIOUS, please contact me and say hello... I am a very devoted woman to the right one.... would like to find someone local and/or close to local as possible.
But I am open to discuss just how far away is.... Life is a Journey, Not a Dark Road..... = Results from == 100% Submissive 99% Slave 97% Rope bunny 94% Experimentalist 93% Primal (Prey) 91% Degradee 75% Masochist 44% Pet 36% Brat 30% Boy/Girl 12% Exhibitionist 10% Voyeur 10% Non-monogamist 2% Ageplayer 1% Vanilla 1% Switch

������������???? ?<3... Thank You...<3

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 Submissive Female

 Des Moines 


 5' 10"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:





 Sensory Deprivation

 Vacuum Stimulation


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music



 Breast Play




 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage


 Speech Restrictions


 Country Music

 Eighties Music




 Seventies Music


 Anal Play


 Domestic Service

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage


 Low Carb



 Hair Pulling


 Curious About:

 Canes and Crops



 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions




 Serving as a Maid

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing


 Wax play


 Foot Worship



 Female Supremacy


 Hard Limits:




 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play

 Knife Play

 Medical Play

 Needle Play


 Rubber Fetish

 Theatrical Scenes


 1950s Household


 Gorean Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle




 Victorian Household

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Journal Entries:
2/11/2017 10:15:54 AM
I have in the past experienced this... I have become a custom to being kept in leather locking restraints and locking collar.. with chains locked to them and more added like a chain belt locked on to hold the huge plugs I must indure as I cook and clean the house cutting in to my clit.. gagged tight and locked on to keep me honest when hands can reach the buckle.. even though they have a chain between them... Yes, I have come to accept the captive enslaved feeling of my chains that constantly remind me of my place and who I am also who owns me 24/7.. It is a safe place that being that way makes me feel complete, whole, and protected.. even sleeping in them.. hobbled and wrists both have there chains.. the feeling of permanantly being his reminds me at night and drift off feeling safe.. only time those 5 items come off is when we left the house or when I showered.. then they where immediately put back on with gag.. untill being bound for use all day in many ways and different predicaments or just left bound on display for him to tease when he walks by or to be used at will..? To be his private captive sex slave kept in constant slavery...

5/2/2014 9:48:27 PM

Have? been in the lifestyle on and off for 30 yrs. or more.? i am looking for that permanent fit.? i love bondage, gags, blindfolds/hoods.? Predicament bondage for His pleasure and use?or at his leisure.? Then left that way.? i was told once by a Master that a good save is a bound, plugged and gagged slave... and that is what i was.. During chores i was plugged, gagged and hobbled.? When not in use i was left bound or locked away bound, gagged, blindfolded and plugged.. keeping me in constant helpless control...learning obedience, discipline and endurance.? Liberal use of His flogger to keep my attention, gagged and all holes plugged to remind me who owns His holes.? i have no choices?and the?feeling of being?powerless excites me.? The sound of locks excites me..?i crave all these feelings, the adrenalin, the rushes, the high... Seeking to be powerless under His hand... used, tight, silence,?bound, chained, confined, locked?away, gagged, plugged, filled, helpless, hopeless, scared, hidden, changed, free, safe.... desire...complete.... whole.? i know each Dominant is different and i list these things as a guide of what i have?done and?willing to do... i need someone to keep me bound?and chained in my life.. in my mind and into O/our future.? With every breath i shall know and crave?His touch.? i am a submissive slave, i seek His control mentally and physically.. i need?His control to be free.... in my private world i am strong and independent but crave His control and his restraints.? i am a little girl that needs a strong Master to serve, correct me, protect me, keep me safe... One that sternly punishes or lovingly rewards me as He sees necessary.? i need to give my gift freely.? i am not a pain slut, but?i do enjoy moderate pain and the mix of pain and pleasure.. i?know my limits will be tested and pushed.? ?i desire TPE?and to be kept constantly bound and gagged and plugged and chained, and how i crave the intensity and the feelings of utter helplessness and complete surrender.....?? ?i know He is out there...

10/24/2011 7:24:48 PM

Please let me forever be open to learn and understand.....?Please let my service be absolute, to accecpt His guiding hand..... Please let Him be my Master, and correct me should i shout..... Please never let me shame Him, or disappoint Him in any way...... Please give me the strength of my submission, let me make Him prouder every day....... Please know that this prayer is sincere, every word coming deep from this slaves heart....... Please know how much i need to serve Him, my devotion always His from the start.............

10/12/2011 4:32:21 PM

I believe that the lifestyle is more than sex, more than fetishes, I believe it is something so strong inside that when it finally becomes your life it's the most amazing thing in the world.  I believe that if a person finds a special someone who really understands them and really wants to know them then they can reach heights they never thought they could...

10/8/2011 6:21:01 PM

True freedom is having inner peace, loving yourself, feeling complete.  And such a feeling can be accomplished with a Man leading the way....

10/4/2011 5:30:26 PM

Under His hands..... your lessons are taught,

the heart soars, as tears are brushed aside......

Your body blooms, the soul deepens,

your slavery flourishes, serenity exists.....

Under His hands.... the woman in you is discovered........ 

9/3/2011 1:10:01 PM

i find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to my Master in a loving relationship.  i am not weak or stupid. i am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what i want out of my life.  i do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength.  i will look to my loving Master for guideance and protection, for never will i be more completre than when He is with me.  i know He will protect my body, my mind and my soul with His strength and wisdom.  He is evderything to me, as i am everything to Him.  His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me.  Only in serving Him do i find complete freedom and joy.  His punishments maybe harsh, but i accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind.  If He desires my body for pleasure, i shall joyfully give it to Him and take pleasure myself from knowing that i have brought Him pleasure.  However, the pleasure of flesh is but one faucet of O/our relationship.  The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship.  my body is His, and if He says i am beautiful, then i am.  No matter what i look like to others, i am beautiful in His eyes, and because of that i hold my head high.  If He says i am His precious jewel, then i am that.... a beautiful sparkling gem.  If He says i am His pet, His slut, His whore, then i am that..... as His wanton and dirty as He wants me to be.  My mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know only as He can.  i have no secrets from Him... for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being more perfectly His.  Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself.... and i do not want walls.  His lessons are not always ones i would seek on my own, but they are lessons He has decided that i need, and so i learn from Him.  my soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be when i kneel naked at His feet.  Never a moment goes by when i do not feel His presence, be He miles away or standing over me.  If i were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be.  The anguish of my soul that i feel when i disappoint Him is harder to bear than any physical anguish i feel.  i am grateful that he cares enough about me to spend His time and energy so freely on me.  i have the easier job, to feel, to experience, to let myself go and abandon everything to Him.  i am his pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both serioulsy.  i am a submissive woman.  i am proud to call myself that, my submission is a gift that i do not give lightly, and can only be given to the One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.  Only to my Master who has that strength, will i give myself fully, because i am strong and proud.  i am a submissive woman.  Mind, body, soul, heart and spirit.....................................

7/17/2010 11:06:14 PM
I believe during Q/A period that it is important for everyone to disclose if they are taking medication to be mentally and emotionally stable.. That is a BIG RED FLAG.. so not to waste our time..subs should add that question to their list.. if you want to know one I will tell you who that Dom is.. they know who they are. send me an email... I have no problem sharing that important information..

1/11/2010 3:09:11 PM

Some women/subs think when a Dom communicates with them that its ok to start right off doing as the Dom says... Well... that is not me... I firmly believe at the beginning, I am in control... I choose who is worthy of my precious gift... and once that gift is given, totally, unconditionly, concentuelly and that collar is placed around my neck...then the control is his.. but we still have a voice...

More to come soon....

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