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I am a "training master" in BDSM terms, divorced,very experienced, skilled and formally trained as a Dominant by a Domme. Sensitive, tender, and can please and satisfy you without strings attached. If you can cope with the age difference, or if the "older man younger woman" is part of the dynamic you enjoy, then I can guarantee your complete satisfaction - I can outlast men half my age and have the experience most don't ! I am also very comfortable being the 'third' in a marriage if that is desired.
I am a confident and natural dominant and am comfortable with my nature as it is entirely without abuse, in fact I am a pleaser and believe that's what a Dom should be. In addition I know that I am an excellent caring and tender vanilla lover and will give pleasure if the chemistry is right with my partner.
I am too old to be considered as a life partner - I can give you safe and sane experience and "first time" fantasy fulfillment, confidence, teach you how to stay safe and protected in the BFSM lifestyle, and show what I think good BDSM play should be like, together with complete sexual satisfaction and then, when you wish, just friendship for as long as you wish it.
I originally trained as a Dom under "Mistress" Francesca in Rome for three years. She taught that BD/SM was really for pleasure and not pain, that a master must concentrate on a Subs pleasure not his own because that is his whole raison d'etre. That the biggest danger to the BD/SM community is to allow abusers to become dominants. She taught that a master must first experience submissiveness himself and be sensitive, gentle and understanding to become a practitioner in the lifestyle. She demanded that I learn the medical and psychological dangers a sub might face during play, taught me to recognise symptoms of distress and how deal with those things immediately. I have had first aid and CPR training and always play safely protecting my submissive from any harm. She INSISTED that all BD/SM activities are to increase the sexual pleasure of both parties and pain is never,ever,to be considered as an end to itself - the sex act followed by loving embraces must ALWAYS be the culmination of any session. She demanded that I experience all the kinky and sometimes decadent activities available in Rome both as a Dom and as a sub including pony girl play and public play.
I am particularly experienced and have had wonderful experiences with ladies who wish to begin exploring their capacity in BD/SM activities in a safe, consensual and, above all, trusting caring environment. I always observe limits while also concentrating on extending my partners experiences.
Activities COULD include - spanking (OTK, or by hand or slipper, wooden spoon, paddle), cane only if the sub desires that experience, flogging, role-play, anal play, bondage, water sports, enemas, dilation, nipple torture, toys, delayed orgasm, teasing, giving and taking oral, TENS unit play and a host of other "safe and sane" activities.
I am NEVER interested in any edge activities like mummifying, wrapping, scat, piercing, cutting, flame play, or severe pain - I have seen too many injuries and close encounters with danger to think the risk is worth the experience. I AM interested in any thing that increases my partners readiness for sexual satisfaction and multiple orgasms and have a completely open mind. There is little I have not experienced.
I am a mid-seventies white male, straight in orientation but not homophobic - I love women. I have absolutely no racial bias - in fact I hate discrimination of all sorts. I am a professional, CEO of a small company, PhD educated. I was in the Royal Navy for some years. I am 5'10" tall, 155lbs considered fairly attractive as an older man. I am well endowed sexually (8" and thick) never have any problems with erection and am sexually very long lasting - I have good sexual stamina as I was taught to have complete control of my orgasms. I am squeeky clean, socially adept, well dressed, a non-smoker, social drinker (wine is my favourite), vasectomy safe, uncut, D&D free and can operate at any level of society.
I am a hedonist and love women and giving pleasure, I also like good food, conversation and, above all, laughter - when play ceases to be fun it is no longer play. I am not a clinger - when partners want "out" of the relationship then it is over, and "we" fade away except for an enduring mentorship and friendship for as long as she wishes - ONLY if that is her desire.
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