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	About lordboundheart I am not seeking online romance or any form of short term relationship. I seek friendships and offer assistance from time to time to those trying to find their center and their place in this lifestyle. My favorite tagline I use on Yahoo is "I am not a licensed therapist, but I often play one on the internet." I am a�50 year old male Dominant living in the Portland area�.�I� have a submissive partner who lives in the Hillsboro area with whom I am rapidly moving towards a deeper relationship and commitment.� We are seeking like-minded individuals and couples to meet as friends and to see if anything evolves from there. If you wish to know more about me, ask. I wont bite unless you negotiate that ahead of time.

I was diagnosed with multiple personalities, However the rest of us have asked for a second opinion!

"There is no more lively sensation than that of pain, its impressions are certain and dependable, they never deceive as may those of the pleasure women perpetually feign and almost never experience." ~?Marquis de Sade~

its amazing how fast the path you are on can turn and change. One minute you are carefree and thinking everything is ok, then one moment later and everything changes. I am not talking of myself, but of friends who are currently struggling in their relationship. I hope everyone out there knows that communication is key to ANY relationship, Especially a lifestyle one.

I strongly believe in the act of punishment. I do not however enjoy the task. Now dont get me wrong, when I choose a punishment for someone its going to be an act that brings me pleasure, However I would like to spend the time that is required to administer the punishment doing things that both parties enjoy. I do get a sense of balance when giving a punishment. It seems to bring order back to the world when something has taken it out of kilter.

I recently made a mistake regarding my past. As many of you know, and many of you dont, Before I found this lifestyle I was a less than noble man. I recently saw someone from that past on Collarme. I made the mistake of trying to find some form of closure with that person. I should have let sleeping dogs lie. Sometimes we all need to just let go of the past. Sometimes trying to "fix" it, just reopens wounds and reminds us of why they were wounds in the first place. Since making the mistake, I have taken time to reevaluate the contacts I have made over the years. Many of the ones we meet from day to day will waft into our lives and waft right back out. Some will stay for a long time. I have taken stock in the relationships that I have clung to over the years that have borne no fruit. I have "cleaned house" in my contacts lists. I had to let go of them in order to maintain my own mental and emotional health. Many who I had hopes of long friendships and have not heard from in a long time are now gone. I have purged myself of a feeling of responsibility to keep their names on my lists even though they have long since abandoned mine. Some may return some day, but I will no longer leave a light on for them, they will have to find their own way back. Somehow I feel lighter and more positive.

One thing about me that people either respect about me, or despise, is my unwavering way of telling it straight. If you dont want the truth or my strong opinion. Dont ask me.
I saw this quote on a profile the other day on yahoo. I find it describes the way I am pretty well. And hell, you gotta love Shakespeare, dont you?

--And since you know you cannot see yourself, so well as by reflection, I, your glass, will modestly discover to yourself, that of yourself which you yet know not of--- William Shakespeare

Wooo hooo!! I took a class on DM training. I passed the test and now am officially a fledgling DM trainee!

I recently was told of a quote from the book Blithe Spirit, and it truly resonated in me. I wanted to share it:

"Its discouraging how many are shocked by honesty, and how few by deceit"

I want to clarify that my entry of finding a sub to play with is NOT my focus here. I seek like minded individuals for FRIENDSHIP first. Anything else would only be explored if there was any chemistry there.

I wonder what happens to people, I have started some friendships on here (and in other places) only to have them disappear without a word. Has our society become so disposable oriented that it includes personal relationships as well? I for one take friendships very seriously. I am saddened when people dont care enough to even say good-bye.

I just noticed that the interests listed are different for each profile. I found the list that they have for Dom is pretty limited. and some are listed as "special skills" - well some of the ones listed are things Im interested in, but would never list myself as an expert in. Hmmmmmmmmm

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