Hello i am very new to this. i am just getting in to learning all about BDSM, so far i feel that i am a sub. i am looking to learn as much as i can. So if any one here can help me i would love all input from any one. Hope to hear some thing soon. If You would like to know more about me just ask. thank you :) i am 39 i am 5 ft 2 3/4 inches tall and i am a dishwater blond with very blue eyes. i am also looking for someone that is close to my age.
when you want something so bad that you try hard to reach it but it seems to be on that top shelf and no matter how hard you work it just seems impossible to reach..... this is how i am feeling in the BDSM Life atm ;) maybe it is a dream that just will not be obtainable by me i have been trying for over a yr and well i am unsure i can take much more......... with all the guys that are out there and the only thing they seem to want is to cheat on their wives or something.... any way i guess that is part of the weeding process and well its getting kinda boring doing the same thing over and over again...... i am a sub that is willing to learn not just a girl to sit on a cam and a guy wanting her to play for him that to me is not what the BDSM Life is about...
well i have found out that i do enjoy a good spanking. not a beating some think a beating is the way to go. i don't see any need in going that far. i do like some pain. i do not think just for fun and being beat is needed and to not be able to sit for a few days. i enjoy a nice glow to my butt, hot to the touch. not where it hurts just to sit on the toilet its not me. so if you are looking for a beating post move a long i am not what you want. i guess what i am saying i am not a pain slut and if that is what you are looking for i am not the one for you...
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1/9/2013 9:57:49 PM
I am now owned by Master John and W/we are a perfect match. please respect this i will keep friend i have made but no advances please. that would just disrespect my Master and I ty
4/9/2010 5:14:17 PM
You Scored as Submissive
(((Note:
This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz
would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological
profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among
people that practice BDSM.)))
It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and
relaxing. Being with a dominant person wouldn't be a bad idea.
well i have been with Sir and Ma'am's for 2 weeks today. i am very happy with Them. i have learned so much in 2 weeks vs being in Indiana. i am very thankful They saw something in me and brought me to Them. i am very excited to learn so much more.to try more also. i know i just have to learn patients this seems to be a hard one for me. this all good i am learning so in time i shall have it down. :) thanks Sir and Ma'am for every thing!!!!!!!!!
10/4/2009 11:34:00 AM
Well i have made it to Sir and Ma'am house yesterday afternoon. They both of them were great with me and understanding i was very nervous. Both have shown me how a slave should be used this is what i have been looking for in this lifestyle. so i feel i have found my place and time shall tell. thank you Both for everything.
9/25/2009 5:41:38 PM
Wow even when i posted i dont want to play games i still get game players this is not very cool . i have feelings and if you think that is what being a Dom is to hurt a sub or a slave then you have another thing coming and it shall catch up with you soon. You know who you are so enjoy your journey
9/4/2009 6:33:57 PM
Well i have been on here a while and all i have seen is men that want to play games. If you are hear to play games then move on i am not into games at all.i am a sub with the potential of being a great slave so its your choice if you are here to play a game cause i am not and please dont waste mine or your time please.
8/5/2009 1:01:09 AM
well i have started my training and i had my first pleasure session. i will be haveing my pain level session sometime this evening i look forward to this but at the same time i am very nervous....
7/15/2009 12:48:35 PM
i am under the protection of DrgnandHisLadies. please do not disrepect my Sire or me ,
6/22/2009 7:36:50 AM
this was just a very nice email .... and the names have been removed
Hello, grasshs
I wanted to write you a quick note just to say
I'm very impressed with your profile. This is not an attempt to get you
to change your mind about couples, I just think there are very few
people on CM who seem real, and you are one of them. The things you
wrote about what you want, and don't want, your views on being new to
the lifestyle, and even the quotes you chose show that you're serious,
and know your own mind.
The person who wins you will be lucky
indeed. We've been very lucky to have found our girl, , and while we
are still searching for a second slave, we are optimistic because we
know real people are out there. Good luck to you, and if you ever need
a no-pressure, no strings attached person to talk to, feel free to drop
me, my wife , or even a line.
Regards,
6/16/2009 1:27:05 PM
when you want something so bad that you try hard to reach it but it seems to be on that top shelf and no matter how hard you work it just seems impossible to reach..... this is how i am feeling in the BDSM Life atm ;) maybe it is a dream that just will not be obtainable by me i have been trying for over a yr and well i am unsure i can take much more......... with all the guys that are out there and the only thing they seem to want is to cheat on their wives or something.... any way i guess that is part of the weeding process and well its getting kinda boring doing the same thing over and over again...... i am a sub that is willing to learn not just a girl to sit on a cam and a guy wanting her to play for him that to me is not what the BDSM Life is about...
6/8/2009 8:12:32 PM
He is Master, and i am slave,
He is owner, and i am owned,
He commands, and i obey,
He is to be pleased, and i am to please.
Why is this?
Because He is Master, and i am slave
this is the slave creed
6/8/2009 11:48:47 AM
~Essential BDSM~
1. Honesty. Without honesty, there can be no trust. Without trust D/s is nothing.
2.
Trust. Trust is sometimes given freely or it is given after a long
slog. D/s relationships rely on trust as the depths physically,
emotionally and mentally can surpass vanilla relationships.
3. Love. Without love, the control a Dominant can have over a submissive, is dangerous. These are real people, real emotions.
4.
Communication. How you communicate youre desires is your choice - but
communicate! Take time to learn about your partner, learn about their
needs, their requirements.
5. Self Respect. Value yourself.
Being a submissive does not mean you are a doormat. Being a dominant
does not mean you treat people like a doormat.
6. Patience. Learn to grow together. Take your time to explore each other, love each other, and respect each other.
6/8/2009 11:47:44 AM
Being your slave, what should I do but tend Upon the hours and times of your desire? I have no precious time at all to spend, Nor services to do till you require. Nor dare I chide the world-without-end hour Whilst I, my sovereign, watch the clock for you, Nor think the bitterness of absence sour When you have bid your servant once adieu. Nor dare I question with my jealous thought Where you may be, or your affairs suppose, But, like a sad slave, stay and think of naught Save where you are how happy you make those.
So true a fool is love that in your will, Though you do anything, he thinks no ill. -W. Shakespear
6/8/2009 11:47:16 AM
~D/s Thoughts~
1. Be patient & understanding. No Dom/me is
perfect; subbies have bad days like anyone else. Both parties are human
and deserve respect even if it is given in different ways.
2. Be there for each other. Do your utmost to stay in contact. Don't just disappear.
3. Dom/me, don't be collectors. How can you possibly have the time for 10, 15 or more subs? They deserve better from you.
4.
Subs, give your gift of submission only after careful consideration.
Meeting someone than asking them to collar you after 30 minutes is NOT
enough. Build trust first.
5. Open communication is key. Subs
should be allowed to talk to thier Dom/me and raise concerns, wants,
desires in a respectful manner. Dom/me should consider carefully what
thier sub has to say. Doesn't mean bend to every request, but if there
are problems you will never know if your sub cannot speak frankly with
you.
6. Dom/me don't take a sub just because you are lonely and subs don't serve just anyone who will say yes.
