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Male Dominant, 40, Chandler, Arizona
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Male Switch, 45, Chandler, Arizona
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Female Submissive, 32, Wheeling, WV area, West Virginia
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About ChandlerShael
What you need to know...
Firstly, I'm married (poly) and I have one child. Husband and baby always come first.
Secondly, I am not really into "lifestyle bdsm" I am into kink. I suppose if the right person came along, something more serious could be worked out but typically that is the way it is.
Thirdly, I am always looking for friends *first*, if it goes somewhere else, great.
And lastly, my husband (miseryscompany) and I do not come as a pair, though on rare occasion we will play (BDSM, DnD, Monopoly lol) as one. To put it in clear terms, he is a Dom (much more into lifestyle), and I am a "switch". We have very different interests.
In terms of what to expect when emailing me, it's all pretty simple. I'm always open to friends. Though if you approach me as if there is some sort of protocol already set into play you will be sadly mistaken when I either remove your email or tell you off.
Regarding any requests pertaining to interest in me, all I ask is for courtesy.
That's about all I have to say on that but if anything needs clarification please feel free to write!
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Hey look at me! I'm online... go figure. Think I'm gonna delete my account..................... |
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I feel absolutely sick to my stomach... |
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Looking for some subby guys to hang out with........ perhaps |
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Haven't been responding to email, nothing personal just busy busy busy... |
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Parents are funny. My father came to our wedding at the BDSM club Ryan and I met at. My mother, on the other hand, blames herself for everything thats *wrong* with me...
So went the argument for today.
- The Management |
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Off to work... slightly bruised and a little worse for wear. But I'm so much more relaxed.
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**Morning musings...**
I think I need a chaeuffer, I get sick of being the one to drive everywhere.... :(
A houseboy would be nice too. Very little compensation short of doing my bidding for the sake of my convenience. Yes... something detached. |
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So it took me two years to realize this thing doesn't update age... LOL |
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This isn't necessarily kink related but I'm looking for friends/people to hang out with...
Taking a break from kink relationships because.... I'm expecting. That should clear it up for those people who email thinking they can convince me out of looking for simply friendship.
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Bollocks! What's to do in WA? |
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Woohoo for scarification :) I just love the smell of burning flesh, don't you? |
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Right now, for everyone's prying little eyes, I have some important information, so perk up.
I'm not looking for ANYTHING but friends right now. Not casual play, nor sub, nor dom, nor hookup, or whatever the hell else it is you might be looking for :)
Thanks,
- The Management |
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Bah!
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Observation time, my dear, Watson :)
So I've been looking through ALOT of profiles lately. Mostly of the female variety. I've read alot of really well written profiles and I have found that they have one very similar thread (most of them).
After reading who knows how many bisexual women's profiles, I lost count how many seem to have this vendetta against the single man.
Now, if you're following me you know I'm nto really talking about the bisexual woman. Single men, don't you get it?
I've come across a few that have really rubbed me the wrong way (figuratively speaking). Having said that, I've also told off my fair share of creeps *shrug*
That leaves my question, if you are a single man and find yourself in the position of being constantly told off or ignored, why haven't you gotten the clue? Why can't you try a different approach? I understand that after a certain amount of conditioning in this manner you may feel that this is the *only* response you'll recieve regardless of the approach. And I ask again... have you tried speaking to the message recipient with some actual interest?
I'm sorry but it's a rare successful match where the inital contact is some crude pick up line.
Oh, and for the men who don't go about things this way? Well done, you make checking email alot less of a hassle, and in turn are likely to get a better response or even one at all.
Anyway, it was just a thought *shrug*
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BIRTHDAY BIRTHDAY BIRTHDAY
20 on the 30th yay!
And by the way... sorry about the confusion people. I couldn't figure out why I had an overabundance of mail from people in the valley (not that I'm not in San Fernando quite often anyway) but as of like February I had officially moved to Orange County woops :) |
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A wedding... imagine that :-) |
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Ooookay time for an update. Nursing school officially blows; totally confirms the fact that I do not want to be a nurse. Oh well... I can finish it. Lots of homework keeps me away. Other than that things are good. I suffer from the ever constant paranoia about my financial and romantic situations but oh well what else is new?
I just have to keep telling myself that things are good "things are good, things are good" and maybe I'll escape, sanity intact. |
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Just so everyone stops with the concerned emails... things are pretty fine now. Granted, I'm anxious as hell about the upcoming semester but aside from that things, I have to admit, are okay.
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Back from vacation, and going through a rough spot. I'm going to dissappear to Jinx's for the night.
Peace |
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**Vacation Notice
I will be on vacation from today (July 27th) until the Sunday after the coming one (August 5th). *So* if I do not get the chance to check my email while I am on vacation that is why and I will get back to you when I come back.
- Management |
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Home from *Faire* if I didn't write you, I wake up in 2 1/2 hours I'm tired.
Goodnight. |
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New pictures have been approved and are up... At least 2 more on the way. |
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Good news...
about 4 pictures coming soon!! (I'm so sick of the default one lol)
In other news,
On whining...
I have been confronted with a recent phenomenon. If you offend me in writing me an email and I tell you off, there's still a chance I will talk to you.
As far as people I will not talk to, I'm sick of subs that come at me in a desperate whiney way. You gain no respect that way and I will not talk to you. I've never tolerated that kind of behavior.
I understand the need to have that interaction, counterpart, whatever... but I need to know that anyone speaking to me can converse on a person to person intellectual level before assuming any kind of tone to the discussion.
In general...
To clarify this goes for everyone as a general rule. Another note is that if I have to decipher your message for grammar and spelling, I won't even try to read it. Mistakes are one thing but please... at least put some effort into the email. |
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I feel better, yay!! Things are still stressful but they will be fine... As for my profile it is out of my hands as far as the content. I await it myself.
On another note, *woo* I have now a joint account with the boyfriend/Dom and it actually has profile information. *Go us*
So feel free to check that out the username is jinxandjynxi
la de da... |
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I am *so* unhappy right now. And yes, I know I need to write a profile..... |
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I really must put together a profile. As I am told I know it will probably cut back the amount of annoying extraneous mail I receive. I just have no idea what to say... truly. *sigh* |
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I have had an amazing birthday. The most special part of it is due to the involvement of my bf/Dom, he is an amazing man that just renders me speechless. He has managed to make this one of my best birthdays. It's shocking and wonderful but I can honestly say that I am happy. |
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Well I'm back. It's been a long while since I've been on collarme, I shut down my old account Chandler_Dawn about a year ago when I had just gotten fed up with people and bullshit in general. How amused I am to be back... |
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