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Hetero Male Dominant, 50,  Owosso, Michigan
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Friends First And Always....NO LONGER SEARCHING

Taking a moment or two to reflect on things before i go any further.....Seeking Friends Only at this point.....


A slave cleans your boots until you say they are done. A submissive cleans your boots until they think they are done. A bottom says clean your own damn boots now beat me!hugs to my pals on here....My name is brian...malekinkster50 from flint area of michigan....i have served as a slavesub in the i do understand the subby side of life...looks and riches are not nearly as important as honesty with yourself as well as your partner....

Placing the entire bdsm universe on official notice....the zombie outbreak is upon us....there is an official govt site about what to have been warned...

once again...keep this in mind...


Friends First And Always....NO LONGER SEARCHING












 Dominant Male



 5' 9"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Garage Sales

 Renaissance Faires

 Blindfolding you


 You wearing my collar




 Bar Hopping



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Journal Entries:
3/15/2013 7:25:20 PM

Friends First And Always....NO LONGER SEARCHING

12/15/2012 8:37:36 AM

1. Your approach will be one with respect

2. You will fill out the application fully in order to be considered

3. Tribute must be sent before or with application (this doesn't mean you are owned by me)

4. You will do whatever it is I want or need you to do... no questions asked

5. You will always address me as Mr. Brian or Sir

6. There are no excuse when you serve me.. I do not care about your life or responsibilities... Not my problem!

7. If you seek Real Time then you must earn it... There is no instant gratification with me at all ever!

8. If you ever think in your pee brain you will ever have sex with me then you must be asking for a swift kick in your ass from my size 11 combat boots !

9. I do take short term & long term subs... But do not ever try and tell me what I should or shouldn't do or say...

Trust me, you do not want to get on my bad side.

10. Always know your place!

10/17/2012 4:21:31 PM
to all the bastards and bitches who have harmed me over the years....i have this heartfelt message.....i forgive you

dont mean i will forget....but i only have energy to spend on folks who love and care about me.....and i wont waste energy hating those i should pity...

7/28/2012 8:40:50 PM

Bunnies arent just cute like everybody supposes,
They got them hoppy legs and twitchy little noses,
And whats with all the carrots?
What do they need such good eyesight for anyway?

Bunnies, Bunnies, it must be bunnies!
.... Or maybe midgets?

3/12/2012 6:52:11 AM

3/4/2012 7:43:58 PM

"Cheers (Drink To That)"

Cheers to the freakin' weekend
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Oh let the Jameson sink in
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Don't let the bastards get ya down
Turn it around with another round
There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that
I drink to that.

Life's too short to be sittin' round miserable
People gon' talk whether you doing bad or good, yeah
Got a drink on my mind and my mind on my money, yeah
Looking so bomb, gonna find me a honey
Got my Ray-Bans

on and I'm feelin' hella cool tonight, yeah
Everybody's vibin' so don't nobody start a fight, yeah-ah-ah-ah

Cheers to the freakin' weekend
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Oh, let the Jameson sink in
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Don't let the bastards get ya down
Turn it around with another round
There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that
I drink to that.

'Bout to hop on the bar, put it all on my card tonight, yeah.

Might be mad in the morning but you know we goin' hard tonight
It's getting coyote ugly up in here, no tyra
It's only up from here, no downward spiral
Got my Ray-Bans

on and I'm feelin' hella cool tonight, yeah
Everybody's vibin' so don't nobody start a fight, yeah

Cheers to the freakin' weekend
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Oh let the Jameson sink in
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Don't let the bastards get ya down
Turn it around with another round
There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that
I drink to that.

Cheers to the freakin weekend
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Oh let the Jameson sink in
I drink to that, yeah yeah
Don't let the bastards get ya down
Turn it around with another round
There's a party at the bar everybody put your glasses up and I drink to that
I drink to that.
And I drink to that.
I drink to that.
And I drink to that.

2/16/2012 1:05:45 AM
Getting an idea for a my muse amber...

2/12/2012 8:30:05 PM

had an experience today that was an eye opener.....words cant explain....lets just say one minute i want to laugh at it...and the next i want to weep for the tragic nature of what happened....

11/23/2011 11:47:59 AM

The fastest way to ensure the survivial of this planet is for every man woman and child to acknowledge me as supreme ruler forever the official religion would be keepitrealism and my salary would be a paltry sum compared to what our so called elected officials get for doing nothing but making things worse and worse for the average joe and jane out there trying to do right by their families....Crown me emperor today before it it too late....

9/28/2011 4:19:39 AM
I don't have to look very far to find a lie, but it could take my entire life to find a truth.
If you have to forsake all your friends and family for your mate, that's not a relationship, that's slavery.
Good things may come to those who wait, but not to those who wait too late.
three truths that get me thru the day....brian behave

9/21/2011 4:35:54 AM

(Sweet) Spoken. Showtime!



(Buffy)          Life's a show, and we all play a pa - rt.
                     And when the music sta - rts.
                     We open up our hearts.

                     It's all right, if some thing's come out wr - ong,
                     We'll sing a happy so - ng
                     And you can sing along.

                     Where there's life,         there's hope.
                     Every day's                  a gift.
                     Wishes can                  come true.
                     Whistle while                you work.
                     So hard.                       All day.
                     To be like other gir - ls.
                     Just fitting in this glittering wor - ld.

                     Don't give me so - ngs.
                     Don't give me so - ngs.

                     Give me something to sing about!
                     I need something to sing about!

                     Life's a song you don't get to rehea - rse.
                     And every single ver - se
                     Can make it that much worse.

                     Still my friends don't know why I ignore
                     The million things or mo - re
                     I should be dancing for.

                     All the joy                 life sends.
                      Family                      and friends.
                      All the twists             and bends.
                      Knowing that             it ends.
                     Well, that                  depends.

                     On if they let you g - o.
                     On if they know enough to kn - ow
                     That when you've bowed
                     You leave the crowd

                     There was no pain, no fear no doubt,
                     'Til they pulled me out of Heaven.

                     So that's my refrain.
                     I live in Hell, 'cause I've been expelled from Heaven.
                     I think I was in Heaven.

                     So give me something to sing about!
                     Please, give me something!


(Spike)         Life's not a song.
                     Life isn't bliss, life is just this, it's living.
                     You'll get along,
                     The pain that you feel, you only can heal by living.
                     You have to go on living.
                     So one of us is living.

(Dawn) Spoken. "The hardest thing in this world is to live in it."

8/23/2011 3:50:22 PM

Family isn't alway's blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs.
The ones who accept you for who you are.
The ones who would do anything to see you smile,
and who love you no matter what!

7/13/2011 8:59:05 AM

I hope we do hit the ceiling and cannot raise it! The US economy is FUBAR! Perhaps a total crash will right things. What is the government and business world going to do when all Americans don't pay bills and the like? Throw us all in Jail? Take our homes?? The government should do what we do...If you don't have the money, you don't spend money. However, the government thinks it is entitled to steal from us...Or just take by force.

5/28/2011 9:01:44 PM

What would Brian Boitano do
If he was here right now,
He'd make a plan
And he'd follow through,
That's what Brian Boitano'd do.

When Brian Boitano was in the olympics,
Skating for the gold,
He did two Salchows and a triple lutz,
While wearing a blind fold.

When Brian Boitano was in the alps,
Fighting grizzly bears,
He used his magical fire breath,
And saved the maidens fair.

So what would Brian Boitano do
If he were here today,
I'm sure he'd kick an ass or two,
That's what Brian Boitano'd do.

I want this V-chip out of me,
It has stunted my vo-ca-bu-lar-y.

And I just want my mom
To stop fighting everyone

For Wendy I'll be an activist too,
Cause that's what Brian Boitano'd do.

And what would Brian Boitano do,
He'd call all the kids in town,
And tell them to unite for true
That's what Brian Boitano'd do.

When Brian Boitano travelled through time
To the year 3010,
He fought the evil robot kings
and saved the human race again

And when Brian Boitano built the pyramids,
He beat up Kublai Kahn.

Cause Brian Boitano doesn't take shit from an-y-body

So let's all get together,
And unite to stop our mom's
And we'll save Terrance and Phillip too,
Cause that's what Brian Boitano'd do.

And we'll save Terrance and Phillip too,
Cause that's what Brian Boitano'd dooooo,
That's what Brian Boitano'd do.

5/20/2011 5:40:34 PM


Why is it that subs are expected to exhibit more maturity than the so-called dominants?  How can we really submit and trust ourselves to someone that throws temper tantrums or otherwise behaves like a child?

5/1/2011 7:30:58 AM

not currently looking....except for friends.....i have more than enough play partners to keep me busy.....we can still talk as friends...but if i have not expressed an interest in you by now....please take the hint.....

4/3/2011 8:08:36 AM

there is no ring on my *your* finger....there is no collar around my *your* what right do you have to assume you own me??? did i give myself to you totally??? did i declare my undying love in front of family and friends?? than keep this in mind....i may be a slutty subby at times....but i am not your slutty subby.....treat me with respect or hit bricks.....

3/23/2011 6:17:14 PM

had a blast at a private play party....any party where i get to serve pretty ladies...and get set on a success in my book....i was the most studly gent there...and i am not just tooting my own horn.....smiles.....

3/3/2011 7:17:51 AM

Move over Weight Watchers, there is a new way to lose weight... It's the "I can't afford to buy groceries to feed my family because i just filled my gas tank diet"!

2/17/2011 12:18:06 AM

I Don't Want to Wait Lyrics
Artist(Band):Paula Cole

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So open up your morning light
And say a little prayer for I
You know that if we are to stay alive
And see the peace in every eye

She had two babies
One was six months one was three
In the war of '44
Every telephone ring
Every heartbeat sting
When she thought it was God calling her
Oh would her son grow to know his father


I don't want to wait
For our lives to be over
I want to know right now
What will it be
I don't want to wait
For our lives to be over
Will it be yes or will it be

He showed up all wet
On the rainy front step
Wearing shrapnel in his skin
And the war he saw
Lives inside him still
It's so hard to be gentle and warm
The years passed by and now
He had granddaughters


Oh so you look at me
From across the room
You're wearing your anguish again
Believe me, I know the feeling
It sucks you into the jaws of anger
Oh, so dig a little more deeply,
All we have is the very moment
And I don't want to do what
His father and his father and his father did
I want to be here now

So open up your morning light
And say a little prayer for right
You know that if we are to stay alive
And see the peace in every eye

Chorus (2 times)

So open up your morning light
And say a little prayer for right
You know that if we are to stay alive
And see the love in every eye

1/8/2011 8:13:43 AM

I think I've decided that my New Year's resolution should be something along the lines of not spending time with people who don't bring something positive to my life, ladies in particular. I tend (especially lately) to help those who don't really seem to care about me at all, and I certainly deserve better than that.. Suggestions are welcome (so are friends that aren't selfish). :-)

10/20/2010 8:47:57 AM


When you occasionally have a totally bad day, and you just need to take it out on someone. Don't take it out on someone you know, take it out on someone you don't know.

I was sitting at my desk when I remembered a phone call I'd forgotten to make. I found the number and dialed it.

A man answered, saying "Hello"

I politely said, "This is Chris, could I please speak with Robyn Carter?"

Suddenly, a manic voice yelled out in my ear, "Get the right f***ing number!" and the phone was slammed down on me.

I couldn't believe that anyone could be so rude. When I tracked down Robyn's number to call her, I found that I had accidently transposed the last two digits.

After hanging up with her, I decided to call the 'wrong' number again.

When the same guy answered the phone, I yelled, "You're an asshole!" and hung up.

I wrote his number down with the word 'asshole' next to it, and put it in my desk drawer. Every couple of weeks, when I was paying bills or had a really bad day, I'd call him up and yell.
"You're an asshole!" It always cheered me up.

When caller ID was introduced, I thought my therapeutic 'asshole' calling would have to stop. So I called his number and said, "Hi, this is John Smith from the telephone company. I'm calling to see if you're familiar with our Caller ID program?"

He yelled "NO!" and slammed down the phone.
I quickly called him back and said, "That's because you're an asshole!" and hung up.

One day, I was at the store getting ready to pull into a parking spot. Some guy in a black BMW cut me off and pulled into the spot I had patiently waited for. I hit the horn and yelled that I'd been waiting for that spot, but the idiot ignored me.

I noticed a 'for sale' sign in his back window, so I wrote down his number.

A couple of days later, right after calling the first asshole (I had his number on speed dial), I thought that I'd better call the BMW asshole, too.

I said, "Is this the man with the black BMW for sale?"
He said, "Yes, it is"
I asked, "Can you tell me where I can see it?"
He said, "Yes, I live at 34 Oak tree Blvd, in Fairfax, and the car's parked right out in front."
I asked, "What's your name?"
He said, "My name is Don Hansen."
I asked, "When's a good time to catch you, Don?"
He said, "I'm home every evening after five."
I said, "Listen, Don, can I tell you something?"
He said, "Yes"
I said, "Don, you're an asshole!"
Then I hung up, and added his number to my speed dial too.

Now, when I had a problem, I had two assholes to call.
Then I came up with an idea.

I called asshole #1
He said, "Hello"
I said, "You're an asshole!" (But I didn't hang up)
He asked, "Are you still there?"
I said, "Yeah"
He screamed, "stop calling me."
I said, "make me."
He asked, "who are you?"
I said, "my name is Don Hansen"
He said, "Yeah? Where do you live?"
I said, "Asshole, I live at 34 Oak tree Blvd, in Fairfax. I have a black BMW parked in front"
He said, "I'm coming over right now, Don, and you had better start saying your prayers."
I said, "yeah, like I'm really scared, asshole," and hung up.

Then I called asshole #2.
He said "Hello"
I said Hello, asshole"
He yelled, "if I ever find out who you are..."
I said, "You'll what?"
He exclaimed, "I'll kick your ass"
I answered, "well, asshole, here's your chance. I'm coming over right now"

Then I hung up and immediately called the police, saying that I lived at 34 Oak tree Blvd, in Fairfax, and that I was on my way home to kill my gay lover.
Then I called channel 9 news about what was going down on Oak tree Blvd in Fairfax. I quickly got into my car and headed over to Fairfax. I got there just in time to watch two assholes beating the crap out of each other in front of six cop cars, an overhead news helicopter and surrounded by a news crew.

NOW I feel much better.

Anger management really does work!

7/10/2010 10:23:58 PM

4/6/2010 7:10:45 AM

i survivied another easter...ha ha ha....

3/29/2010 3:48:58 AM
my internet and cable phone are fine...but i have to replace my dvr box...and i have a couple of movies i cant get on dvd....on it...argh....

3/29/2010 3:45:58 AM
i buried my cousin jessie....last thurs...he was only 23 years old....drug and alcohol od....let this be a lesson...drugs are never can tell when your next party...will be your last just say no...or get help if you are already using....god bless you all....

2/6/2010 11:38:09 AM
1st of all if your looking for the sex thing pass me by. if your looking for a 10 pass me up thats not me.iam easygoing down to earth hate drama.had enough in my life. hate games to damm old.been ...if we could find love in our same zip code no one would need this site. iam looking for some one who dosent judge others cause lets face it noones better then some one eles. iam looking for my friend and take it from there. iam looking for a caring understanding person. so one who likes to live life. and just follow what they feel thats so hard these days. some one who likes thunderstorms and walks in the rain cause your not going to melt. some one who you can be your self around. some one who takes chances in life instead of just thinking it will just come to you. some one who has grat arms to be there for someone and to hold you at night to watch a movie or just to do nothing . have you ever wanted to just stop a car and just get and slow dance with some one when a relly good song come on. not caring what anyone eles thinks. cause its all about the two of you any ways.....some one for the good and bad times lets face it life is life it sometimes not all roses. some one to slow dance with in your living room. and just be happy. so tell me why is it so hard to find this.  its not what you have in life that makes you happy. it what you see on others faces at the end of the day.. money cant buy that but happyness can so i guess thats what iam looking for.

2/3/2010 2:24:12 PM
i suspect my modem is going to have to get replaced...i repair the connection and it may last an hour....argh....

1/3/2010 7:00:44 AM
I'm a fluffy kinda guy. No matter how many pictures you request of me, I will be fluffy in all of them. There will be no miracle picture titled "I recently lost 60 pounds, here's a newer picture of me". If you're that concerned about getting an exact idea of "how big", I'm probably not the man for you, and you're probably not the lady for me. I prefer ladies who prefer fluffy guys. I enjoy being someone's "type" rather than being with someone who "looks past" my weight because they like so many other things about me.

12/20/2009 5:44:53 PM
back from the family christmas was fun....i got a nice gift from mystery i can spotlight deer....ha ha ha...just kidding dnr....

12/15/2009 7:09:57 PM

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12/14/2009 10:21:53 PM
so...what are you doing for new years eve????

12/4/2009 8:59:08 AM
turkey day came and time for xmas..and more years eve.....brian wants to get his party on....

11/1/2009 2:34:05 PM
tomorow is a sacred day....thirty nine years ago monday....the world was gifted with the birth of Brian Joe Wells...a smooth pimp who loves the on this special day....a birthday spanking or a million dollar prepaid Visa card make ideal my peeps.....brian

10/5/2009 3:47:10 PM
did you ever consider what life would be like if we  never invaded iraq??? hugs...brian

8/15/2009 8:46:43 AM
it is a damn shame that jerry springer cant be president of the united states...ha ha ha....just imagine his state of the union addresses.....smiles....

8/1/2009 10:18:44 PM
not that anyone cares or anything...but i do believe in KARMA meaning you get back what you give do onto others as you would have done onto you....*hint* hugs...brian

7/23/2009 4:55:39 AM
I have found something on this site that irritates the **** out of me...when someone does not put the city they live in....i understand if you live in a small town...but come on...if you are willing to show your photo...would it kill you to give  a person a rough idea where you are???  for example i live in owosso..but if i was shy...i would tell folks i lived in the flint/lansing area....

7/4/2009 12:44:33 AM
happy fourth of july!!!!!

9/6/2008 7:02:48 PM
just wondering why flint does not have a decent bdsm scene??? sigh...brian

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