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Hetero Male Dominant, 65,  Maryland
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 Dominant Male


 6' 1"

 240 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


 Gourmet Cook


    I am a very creative Dominant of many years experience seeking an intelligent, responsive, and willing submissive or slave with a sense of adventure for friendship and intimacy in BDSM. You should be curious and eager to learn, seeking the presence of playful Dominance in your life, whether it be creative online play or face to face regular or occasional meetings for private fun. My status (yes I’m married and that won’t change) prevents a 24/7 situation (details are available once we are in contact). I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation perhaps who wishes to explore and enjoy this lifestyle while recognizing that it does not have to be a full-time situation to have value and meaning in our lives or to provide us with mutual pleasure. I offer respectful, inventive, strict but fair Dominance with particular focus on sensual explorations with more than a touch of sadistic play. I fully respect limits with the understanding that I will encourage you to stretch your boundaries through trust and patience.


I have been on this journey for many years, but always learning, and hope to take the time to get to know the real woman inside the submissive or slave who offers themselves to me. I am demanding but reasonable, recognizing that real life can provide its limitations, and in return, expect your respect of my time constraints. Honesty is a must as I will offer the same, and if you are interested only in casual play, just be up front about it.


I am an excellent teacher, patient and supportive of newcomers, but able to sustain more to keep the interest of those more experienced partners. I know the importance of the seductive build up, the focused intensity of play, and the importance of aftercare. Strong willed and focused, I seek a strong submissive to meet me as a partner in this adventure. A long-term connection is possible with time and getting to know each other.


I like the arts: photography, theater, history, fine dining, and world travel. If our connection sparks, it is possible that you might be the travel companion I seek.  As for a  photo, I have some recent photos of myself and would gladly share once we are in contact.


Come share the journey with me.  Ulysses


PS.  My profile photographs are my own fine art photographs and I own the copyright and have a model release as well. ALL models are at least 21. years of age
          Sorry for the poor quality of the scans.



She was like the sands

tawdry like the sands

solitary and burning

like the sands.


When I think of you

fireflies in the marsh rise

like the soul's jewels,

lost to eternal longing

abandoning my body.

Izumi Shikibu 970 - 1030 AD



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