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Hi guys Well it's always hard starting these things and knowing what to write about yourself but here goes. I'm a submissive female living in the south wales valleys. I believe i may have slave tendencies as i yearn to be owned and to know that i am safe and protected under the guidance of my 'Master'. Having said that i'm not sure at this stage if i could ever allow anyone complete control over my whole life. I guess ideally what i am looking for is a life partner who can take me on a journey into true submission. He would be a caring and loving Master and a non sadist as i'm a wimp when it comes to pain. As well as this, He would be dominant enough to be strict when needed and be able to expand and push my limits. I enjoy sex and intimacy very much and have a very high sex drive. I love sensuality but i also love a little rough play such as hair pulling, face slapping, being man handled that type of thing. BDSM activities i have enjoyed so far are bondage, suspension, fun with toys, anal play, hot wax, ice play, clamping, suction cups, spanking, shibiri, blindfolds, and a little gentle flogging. Activities i have yet to try but am interested in are electroplay, fisting, gaging, forced sex, and maybe a little water sport fun. I have no interest in exhibitionism, voyeurism, objectification, medical play, piercings, blood play or scat play. I also have no interest in the 'DaddyDom' thing either. Now for the vanilla stuff. I would describe myself as being down to earth with a good sense of humour. I believe myself to be intelligent and have studied a wide range of topics in the past from the social sciences, to straight science, applied science, law, and even a little construction theory. I enjoy travel and cultures (although not yet made it out of europe), cooking, reading, music (tastes range from pop, rnb, reggae, soul, hiphop, rock and classical), clubbing, fine dining, drives in the countryside, social networking and the internet. I don't tend to watch that many films but enjoy a good thriller or horror when i do - love anything to do with vampires and have read Brahm Stokers Dracula, the Anne Rice chronicles, the Twilight books, the Sookie Stackhouse collection and the Vampire Diaries. I prefer the countryside to the city and feel i'm lucky where i live in that i can drive 30 mins south to Cardiff and the city life or 30-40 mins in the other direction will take me to the heart of the Brecon Beacons. I guess i have a romantic side as well as a darker side and love being in the countryside, open fires in the winter, long evenings in maybe with a glass or 2 of wine all cwtched up with that special person.... If you're looking for a small delicate dainty sub then that definitely is not me. I am tall at 5'9" with a large frame and plenty of extra padding. I am currently a uk 18-20 but have been known to go down to a 14 before now. Also if you're married and think you can get away with keeping it hidden then please stay away - having been played for the last year by someone who tried that i have no wish to go back there again. So if you are out there, my perfect 'Master' then please do let me know. P.S. I think I'm a bit of a sapiophile, so any intellectual types out there please do get in touch.
1/8/2017 6:17:28 AM
I've had a few people lately ask if i was looking for poly, or for ffm use.  As my profile states, i am straight and i am seeking dominant men only.  If i was interested in anything poly then i would have ticked the option on my profile, and if i was bi-curious at all then i would also have ticked that option on my profile.  Thank you. 
1/6/2017 8:13:59 AM

For those who are interested, although not sure just how accurate this kind of test is
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Submissive
99% Rope bunny
97% Degradee
85% Slave
84% Masochist
79% Experimentalist
56% Brat
56% Primal (Prey)
34% Non-monogamist
21% Girl/Boy
16% Pet
15% Exhibitionist
4% Voyeur
4% Vanilla
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Rigger
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Sadist
1% Degrader
1% Dominant
1% Switch
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Brat tamer
0% Ageplayer

6/27/2013 9:42:31 AM

I came across this on a profile here and the owner has rather kindly given permission for me to use it.  It's a shame so many fail to understand or adopt this philosophy, would make a single subs life so much easier.  Thank you for letting me borrow it :-)

 

"An inherently dominant personality can inspire and bring out the need to submit in a submissive rather than forcing it or trying to take the submission. That is where the difference between dominating and domineering lies."

anjumMK
 
 Age: 30
 Mc Cook, Nebraska