TravelingWolf

Male Dominant, 42, south bay, California

Male Submissive, 58, Brisbane

Male Dominant, 56

Taking a vacation from the site again. I have my little girl now and I am very happy with her. I'm using this site purely for entertainment and the occasional conversation with select friends.? When will I be back? Hopefully never. There's too much going on in real life to take the wannabes and wish-you-weres of this site seriously.? Farewell attention whores.?

I have to step away from the site tonight. It's like one huge comedy show that is as sad as it is funny. Thank goodness I have my little girl to remind me that there are still sane and intelligent people left in the world.

Ever wake up having one of those days where everything seems to go wrong? How do you cope with them? I no longer have to worry about this. Every morning, my phone rings and I hear the voice of my princess on the other end of the line. I hear her voice and the world's troubles fade away. Now I know what dreams are made of. Mine came true.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again. A picture of your breasts says nothing about you or your personality (unless you're trying to convey the fact that you'll show your breasts to anyone at any time). Ladies fuss about men and their penis pics, then turn around and do the exact same thing. Try letting your personality shine through, then you might not be whining about your endless string of failed relationships.

Those of you who know me know that for some time now I've been seeing shortnsweet. Last night, I asked her to wear my collar and she said yes. Now I'm the happiest Daddy alive.

Ever heard the song Blue Jeans and a Rosary by Kid Rock? Believe it or not, she does exist.?

Another random blurb about something that gets under my skin. It's spelled EXPERIENCED, not experianced. Before you claim to be something, it is wise to know how to spell it. Are there really that many people out here in search of ignorant people who can't spell past a third grade level?

I just felt like posting an entry here today. But I have nothing to say. It's raining here. Randomness, isn't it great?

The English language isn't really that hard to grasp is it? I'm not talking about people who come from a foreign land and speak their native tongue trying to learn it. I'm speaking of people born and raised in the United States. Why is it, that with a FREE education system, there are people who still don't know the meanings of different words? Common words at that. Get a dictionary people. Just because spell check doesn't say it's spelled incorrectly doesn't mean it's used properly.

Who knew Fred Durst was so wise? These lyrics say it all. Hold up you're movin' too fast I'm up for something that lasts I ain't looking to screw on the first night Cause that's a no go And if the vibe's good, go to first base ' cuz the first kiss could be your last taste I ain't looking to screw 'till the vibe's right [chorus] See I'm the only one you know That can put you on cruise control Yeah i'm the only one you'll find That won't waste all my time, on nothing Nothing, on nothing, nothing My will is stronger than most I will not let you get close Until i think that you deserve me Cause that's a no go I'm gonna hold out, so in the meantime Don't expect much from a strong mind Until i think that you deserve me [chorus] I'm holdin' out, i'm gonna wait Wanna make it past the first date A little time then we can do All them nasty things you want to do Don't get me wrong just take my hand And i really hope you understand that It's easier when every second counts So we'll just have to wait It's really no big deal [x2] I'd hate to get you in bed Find out your empty instead No need to knock another home run out Cause that's a no go And i hate to be so filthy If we were not meant to be No need to knock another homerun out [chorus] Nothin', on nothin', nothin' On nothin', on nothin'

Another brief rant. I've come across so many people who don't understand that there definitely IS a difference between a brat and a bitch. Let me give you a quick little lesson in bitchism versus brattiness. A brat will act like she's unattainable just for entertainment but would never be rude and crude to a person before she had even met them. A bitch thinks she is above all and is unattainable in her own mind. She thinks the world owes her something and Brad Pitt will soon be knocking on her door. The reason for this is not that I have been scorned by someone who fits the latter category. I wrote it simply because I see so many people who com off as bitches calling themselves brats. Get over yourself, everyone else got over you long ago.

Please don't bother to contact me if you're cheating on your boyfriend or husband. I'll not be part of a three ring circus bound for Jerry Springer. Also, stay away if you're looking for someone to support you financially. I work to provide for myself, you can too.

Am I the perfect Dominant? I ask myself that a lot. The answer is both yes and no. One day, I will meet the girl for who I will be the perfect Dominant, but as for now, I am not. Sometimes taking an introspective look at myself shows me exactly where I need to be compared to where I am. Right now, I am not where I need to be to consider myself perfect, but I am perfectly me.

Trust Trust is a key element in this lifestyle we've chosen to lead. It must be there in order for anything to work. However, trust can not be one sided. So many relationships have fallen flat over the years because one or the other of the people involved have trust issues.  Sometimes I'm not really sure where to fall on this issue. I want to trust everyone until they give me reason not too, but I want the same in return. Is that too much to ask for? Should I become jaded like most others and not trust until it is earned? What would my world be like if I did that? Would I be a happy man, or a miserable lonely prick? I guess only time will tell.

VOODOO We all see it every day. So many people so insecure in themselves that they spend hours upon hours trying to find just the right angle to snap their photo from. I must admit I chuckle when I see every photo of someone being taken from the same angle and posed. Here's a little tip from me to all of you: Stop with the photo voodoo. Whoever you're searching for will care for you no matter what your looks. Take some natural pics, help weed out the shallow people.

It seems to me that there seems to be a slight discrepency around the site as to what a submissive is. Not that any of the people who need a little lesson will read this, but here goes anyway. To the ones of you who read the profiles and say that a girl is not submissive because she's being bitchy in your opinion about what she doesn't want, that doesn't mean she's not submissive. It may simply mean that you're the kind of asshat that has bombarded her with messages berating her because she has opinions. Try keeping that in mind the next time you try to control someone who isn't yours.

I'm talking with the most amazing girl. We have decided that she will be under consideration for my collar. I'll still be online from time to time, but not as often. She is everything I want and need in a girl. I just pray that I don't wake up to find it all a dream.

Just a slight note. Ladies, if your best asset is your breasts, your ass, or your vagina and that is your only picture, please pass me by.  I know some of you think this is all about sex, but it's not. Surely you have something more than sex to offer, sex can be purchased but interaction can't

A heart felt sarcastic thank you to 10% of the male gender. I'd like to thank the 10% of males that create the stereotype for the rest of us. It is thanks to you that so many women are jaded towards our gender.  Thank you to the cowards who are only looking for a quick piece of ass but don't have the guts to admit to the women they meet that sex is all they really want. Thank you to the abusive pricks who try hiding behind the beauty of a D/s relationship only to escape admitting that they are abusers. Thank you to the players who have 4 or 5 girls all lined up, telling them each that they are the only one for them. Yes, I'd like to thank you all for making the rest of us struggle to prove that we're not you. You are indeed, the asshole kings of the world.

My profile was poorly written, and it will be going through a re-write very soon. If I have messaged you, know that I only message the people I truly find interesting. If you'd like to know the real me, ask me and I'll answer most questions.

Been a while since I've been to this site. A lot has changed. I'm now in the process of getting a divorce, and am very happy about it. I'm not sure what else to say, so, bye for now.

BE WARNED: Everyone on here is not who they seem. I will not call names, but I will say it's not always a delight to get involved with them. Honesty is apparently gone from this site and the fakes and posers are ruining the lifestyle that I love. I'll be back in one week to say my farewells to the few left here that I respect before I delete my account.

A word of thanks. I'd like to thank the indiviual who advised me that my profile made me seem "shady". I have reviewed it, and have had 2 people that have good heads on their shoulders review it as well. The verdict is, the profile stays as is. When I mention my marriage, it is not to say that I am cheating on my wife, but to inform anyone interested that they will never be able to take her place. I am in love with my wife, and she will always be the most important thing in my life. Thank you for your honesty, but I cannot change it and feel good about myself.

My newest rant, 2 line profiles. Why would you take the time to fill out the questionair and all of the other pain in the ass parts of creating a profile to only post two lines of text. If that's how your profile is filled out, don't get mad when people don't message you or just the opposite, you get flooded with messages from what you consider to be trolls and perverts. Tell people about yourself and it may aid in your search.

Fantasy is fiction, and yes it is all in your head. Once again I've been irked by so many profiles I see. Anyone who actually expects people to believe that they were raised as a slave by parents who lived the lifestyle 24/7 is either telling a whopper or needs severe psychological help. I know that training houses do exist, but does anyone actually raise their daughter as a slave? I'm no lawyer or expert on the law, but I do believe there is legislation against that kind of thing. Who, in their right mind, would raise their own child in such a way? Come on people, anything can happen in a book, but not in real life. Tell your true story and people will still like you.

Pretty is a state of mind. I've been gone a couple of months, and in coming back I noticed that some things never change. There are some people on here who would be top contenders in any beauty pagent in the world, until you hear the words they speak. Ladies and gentlemen, just let me reming you that even in this modern world of botox and augmentation, outer beauty fades. If you are truly pretty, it will shine through in your personality.

Money grubbers. Plain and simple, why are they on here and who's falling for it? Ive stumbled across numerous profiles lately in what seems to be a growing trend. People claiming to be submissive and looking for the right Dominant, but only if that Dominant is fool enough to send them loads of cash from hundreds of miles away on the mere chance that they might meet at some undetermined point in the future. You people make me sick, and it is a travesty that you are able to take advantage of people while hiding under the guise of being in the lifestyle.

I'm back, the fog has lifted, the earth has shifted, to raise the gifted. After about a month away from the site due to meeting two people from here that were not who they claimed to be, I've decided to give it another shot. FYI, if you scanned your pics from catalogs or are looking for someone to financially care for you from the minute you meet, move on.

Her we go again, another brief bitching session. Why is it that some women think their breasts are their best attribute? Don't take me wrong, I love breasts, but as a main photo? What happened to getting to know a little about someone? I'm sure I'll get slammed by most of my male friends for this, but ladies, keep your shirts on for a while. Part of the excitement of life is discovery. If you lay it all out there on display from the beginning, there's nothing left to discover.

Just a little note to some of the people I've enchountered lately: Just because you're attractive outwardly doesn't make you an attractive person.

For some reason, 80s power ballads have been running through my head lately. I've found myself actually thinking about the lyrics and seeing how they could actually make sense. I think this is a sure sign that I'm rapidly going insane and should have a labotomy.

This time, there's no pissing and moaning. As you can tell the majority of my blogs are complaints, but not this one. Over the past few weeks on here, I have actually talked to several nice people. There may be hope for this site after all.

After a nearly 2 week break from cm, I decided to come back, and yet again I have something to bitch about. How many people on here are too lazy to type three little letters, "Y O U"? It's not that hard. We're all adults here and there's not letter limitation as their is in text messaging. It also drives me crazy to see people posting about how they want someone who can stimulate their mind and that is well educated when they don't know the difference between the words "than" and "then." Is a sixth grade education seriously that hard to come by these days?

Just a little note to say goodbye. I'm thinking of leaving the site due to the one thing I can't stand in life, RUDE PEOPLE. I've tried to be friendly and polite to the the people I have corresponded with on this site. I guess you just can't be nice to some people. So, for those of you who sit on your pedestal (both D&s) thinking you are better than all others, you're not. The true beauty of this lifestyle is it's openness and acceptances of the differences in others. I see now that that beauty is a rarity here. So, as I continue my debate on whether or not to leave, I say this: Take your preconceived notions about those around you and shove them straight up your.... I need not say more

People are morons. As anyone who knows me will atest, I try to give friendly advice to people to keep them from harm's way. I did this today and was shocked by what I received in return. Someone was looking for a trainer to train her husband to be submissive. I replied to her profile and suggested that perhaps she check out the local BDSM scene to help weed out the perverts and wackos. I was told that she did not ask for advice and not to contact her again. I simply ask this, is it wrong to try steering someone in the right direction?

What's in a name? A lot. I see all of these profiles talking about people calling BBW submissives fat (that's not the only term, but I'll go no further in exploiting them). If you do not like larger women, then simply move past them. There are plenty of anorexic looking women in the world who are afraid of the curvatious beauty that is woman. There's no need to degrade these beautiful women just because they have enough self esteem to not sleep with you just because you call yourself a Dominant. I've got news for you, if you're slamming women you don't know just because their wight is not what you think it should be then you're not a true Dominant. The true beauty of a submissive lies in her heart and her desire to serve.

It's rant and rave time. I've noticed that a lot of people claiming to be submissives seem to be so in name only. I realize we all have our limits and they should be repected, but can we wait until we've actually spoken with someone before shelling out our list of "I don't wants"? I've seen many profiles in my short time here that start out "I'm a submissive, but..." The pervs seem to be making it rough on everyone else. Some of us truly live and love this lifestyle, but others will never know that because they judge before they know.

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