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We are a Dom/Domme couple that individually became involved living this way of life in the early 90’s. We met at a group event in Ohio about 2004 and became friends. After spending time together we decided to live together and are now the closest of friends and more importantly, lovers. After our joining of households we founded a group in the Ohio, Ky, WV area in which we ran for 3 yrs. 2007 we moved our family to SC for personal and financial reasons and founded P.L.E.A.S.E. an educational and social group that has flourished over 3 years. This past year we have been on hiatus and are now ready to get back to doing what we do. We live this way of life respecting not only our beliefs but also the beliefs of those around us. We believe respect and integrity are paramount living this way of life. Service of a submissive or slave is all encompassing to us. Meaning there is no one thing that anyone can provide us but the service in fact as a whole includes sexual, domestic and what it is we do (PLAY TIME). We are business owners, parents, and of course friends, all the time melding who we are into our vanilla life. No we don’t cage submissives 24/7, for how can you serve if you are locked up. No we are not such sexual beings that we can spend all day in the bedroom while letting our responsibilities go (still have to pay the bills). We believe in following protocols as individuals and leaders in the community. Structure and rules must be followed for everyone in the house to be happy and content. We enjoy our BDSM family as well as the vanilla side of life whether we are at an event with others that do what we do or at a club having a few cocktails and dancing with friends. Our door is always open so at any point in the day we may have someone drop by just for a visit. We are people that live our life with honor, integrity and manners.

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9/19/2010 9:00:02 AM
Another successful party. I do  love giving submissives new experiences. One wanted to see what needles felt like and the other a singletail scene. And damn so many others in the play space doing what it is we do! I love our life.

9/7/2010 5:35:01 AM
AFTER HAVING THE KINKY KARNIVAL WITH OVER 120 ppl here our Socials/Parties will be back to their regularly scheduled day starting this month.
Hope to see you here!

6/13/2010 3:27:18 PM
Another great party last night over 30 kinksters and we had a blast. Next month we are holding a day long event and looking for over 100 ppl to attend. I love my life!

5/9/2010 6:39:08 AM
Time for another party! May 15th 2010 We are going to have some folks here to do a rope demo. Everyone loves rope and now that the weather is nice we can even utilize the outside for some fireplay. It is going to be a great night.

4/24/2010 11:10:40 AM
We had a great munch last night over 30 people that do what we do. Soon we will have to get the restaurant to expand the room. For those of you local come meet the kinky people in the area.

4/20/2010 9:55:53 AM
Our monthly munch is this coming saturday, April 24th 2010 in Rock Hill SC. For more information email me.

4/18/2010 10:18:49 AM
Another great party at the chateau last night. Over 40 people attended with some great energy. We are now looking forward to next months.

12/25/2009 7:32:23 AM
Wow....Had our annual christmas party here for our friends in the community. The house was packed and the dungeon full and all nearly 70 people had a good time,,,, We are so thankful for our friends. Merry Christmas everyone!

10/10/2009 6:08:26 AM
Planning a kinky night the end of this month in our new dungeon.

10/6/2009 5:28:41 PM
Love this house. The deer come through the yard everyday at 6 am and again at dusk. What a great life!

10/1/2009 9:36:32 PM
Just got moved ,,,, damn it is nice to have 3 bathrooms and 5 acres of land,,,,,Now to get the dungeon set up

7/12/2009 3:31:58 PM

Damn,,,, Didn't know if you add a pic they all disappear.


2/1/2009 4:21:23 PM

What a terrific munch we had this past friday. The group is growing nicely and we are looking forward to having a demo/workshop on rope presented by a wonderful rope Mistress from ther Ohio/Ky area in March.


1/24/2009 6:19:01 AM
The next munch is fact approaching Jan 30th 2009 7pm until 9 pm in Rock Hill SC at a local resturant. Send me your RSVP's soon. I will send you the resturant name.

12/6/2008 5:49:51 AM
What a great munch last night, the highest attendence yet. It is always great to meet new people in the community and chat.

11/8/2008 1:07:35 PM
Next PLEASE munch Dec 5th in Rock Hill SC. If you are interested in coming send us an email for the time and place.

10/29/2008 6:17:20 AM

A few of us in the community have started a group in Rock Hill (P.L.E.A.S.E.) For the next few months it is a munch group but we plan to expand to much more. If you would like information please email me here.


12/26/2007 3:14:30 AM
What a wonderful christmas. I love South Carolina the weather is terrific. I have been focused on getting the house flipped so I have had little time to spend here on CM. If you would care to chat and get to know us we welcome the opportunity.

10/15/2007 3:30:59 AM
Went to our first community activity since moving to SC this weekend. What a great group of people. We are looking forward to this weekend going to a much larger event,

10/9/2007 9:05:20 PM
Made it to South Carolina. It has taken longer than I had expected to get settled but alas it is finished. Now we can enjoy our new enviroment and become active in the local community.

9/17/2007 4:45:24 PM
We are now in the final week of our move to SC. Where did all this shit come from we have been packing for the last week? LOL We are looking forward to getting settled and meeting some of the people in the community. 

9/4/2007 9:48:12 AM
I have been in South Carolina for 10 days and have yet to find a house. I found property and a house that I love the only problem is the house isn't on the property. So my flight leaves thursday to head back to Ky. I am so looking forward to moving near charlotte, the scene seems to be as close to what Black Rose was like. Anyhow, I am just going to rent a house, that way we will be able to continue the search for the perfect home.
IF anyone knows of a 3 bedroom 2 bath house for rent around Clover SC please email me.

8/20/2007 6:37:39 PM
As my slave and I walked down a rather busy road today she was slightly apprehensive I told here don't worry I will walk on the side of the cars and you walk nearest the grass. She said Master it is my job to take care of you so I should be the one nearest the cars. I then told her, It is your job to serve me, it is my job to protect you.

8/7/2007 4:15:07 PM
The excitement is truely starting to build as we get closer to our move to South Carolina. Even though we it will be in SC we will be just over the North Carolina border. While kitten and I have always been active in the BDSM community. Having founded and directed 2 educational groups. We look forward to joining the scene in Charlotte as we know it will be a nice place to be active without the stress of actually coordinating events. LOOK out SC,,,, Here we come!

6/25/2007 2:26:00 AM
We open our home to many and for various reasons.

As a safe haven to those in the lifestyle that may be in fear or perhaps have been evicted by an unscrupulous person that does not feel the need to care for and keep from harm others.

As a place to learn and experience. Regardless if you are Dominant or submissive, Male or female.  Through our years of being involved in The BDSM scene we have found that many would benefit from practical experience rather than Trail and error method. Primarily because the errors may be fatal.

We talk about safety not only physical but also emotional and mental.

We talk about relationships and discuss reality verses fantasy.

If you wish to experience the sensation of different toys. That can be negotiated.

Do not come with expectations a sexual activity.
Ok so who are we.

We are a M/s couple that has been active in this way of living for nearly 2 decades. Yes, everything can be verified through many others in the community. We do host large events at our. We are educators in the community holding and giving workshops and lectures. We attend local and national events. Founders of a well respected educational group in southern Ohio, as well as the most recent one upon moving to Kentucky.

If you have any questions please don’t hesitate to email us.

We wish you well on your jouney!


3/18/2007 6:04:05 AM
I was kind of set back yesterday. We had a munch at our group and in conversation I was told that I intimidated people. That when I walked in to a room it seemed I took conrol of it. At first I was a little miffed and I said .... Do I seem pompus and the group said no You are just confident and it shows. I am still not sure I like the idea that I intimidate people just by my self confidence but they assured me it wasn't a bad thing. Damn I never want to intimidate people. The things you learn about peoples perception when you ask.

3/12/2007 10:02:53 AM

My personal views and opinions

 

I am sure there will be many that don’t agree hence, the reason I titled this MY views and opinions.

 

This lifestyle though to me it is just life has so much to offer both Dominants and submissives, yet there are so many that take advantage of it or do not respect the way of life.

 

Being Dominant Does NOT mean that you sit on your ass giving orders, then for shits and grins beat someone should they not complete the tasks you have given them. There is much more than that.

 

Qualities of a Dominant!

 

Honesty- Without it there is no trust. Without trust there can be No true submission.

 

Consistency- A Dominant must maintain his thoughts and rules as if Iron clad not only for his submissive but also for himself. Without consistence there is no structure and without structure it is just confusion.

 

Effort- The Dominant must put forth as much effort in helping his submissive grow as the submissive puts for the effort to please and serve.

 

Fairness- No I do not mean equality… I mean Do NOT set a submissive up for failure. If a task is such that it will create harm either emotionally or physically to the submissive. Submissives generally will beat themselves up if they feel they have left down their Dominant by not completing a task or by breaking a rule. DON’T set them up.

 

Hurt verses Harm- I believe that hurt is something that happens during play. Harm is that which will physically or emotionally damage the submissive to the point of NOT being able to recover. Emotional Harm is the worst type, as it will without doubt damage the trust you may have built. Physical harm will also destroy the trust in play.

 

Punishment verses Discipline-

Punishment- It is my belief that punishment is the rarest of both forms of consequences. Punishment should only be imposed the submissive intentionally do a wrong. (My views on submission address my feelings on submissives intentionally doing things to get punished. By the way I don’t believe in corporal punishment, I do however believe the punishment fits the crime or perhaps if severe enough is something that will make the submissive think twice before doing it again.

 

Punishment; The submissive out right says NO… First find out the reason they are saying NO…. Is it a limit? Will it cause them harm? Are they ill? OR Are they being defiant?

 

 

 

Discipline- is breaking a rule unintentionally. Forgot, was too busy (depending on the reason verses excuse).

Discipline is to teach….

 

 

Discipline: Is to teach. What is it you want them to learn?

 

Consistency- DO NOT give rules that can NOT be in place all of the time this will only send confusion to the submissive, If you say you must do this everyday, then regardless of what happens aside from illness they do it everyday. If you don’t follow through with your rules why would they?

 

Responsibility- This is a big one, A Dominant must be responsible for ever rule or command that is given, Don’t say I want you to go to the mall naked and when they get arrested ignore them, You are NOT being responsible (Not sure anyone would request that of their submissive but I have heard of worse things) Most of these types of commands are from a Dominant that didn’t conceder the out come NOR are they willing to take responsibility for it.

 

Theses are just some of my thoughts.

 


1/16/2007 5:34:26 PM
What is it we search for?

First and Foremost. Self Respect, Self Esteem, And Self Worth.

Simply that means..... Don't come to me looking to be fixed.... Come to me with something to offer....

Be who you say you are.... When you look in the mirror Do You See a Submissive?
Don't have motives unbecoming a submissive.

This lifestyle is NOT about SEX,,,,, Sure it is sexually stimulating at times but, I surely hope you have a mind to offer as well as a body to play with.

Always want self improvement.... If you don't know what that means .... Research and figure it out. That will be you first step to self improvement.

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 Age: 30
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