Hello!
It's always difficult to decide what to say at first, but I hope you'd like to talk, explore, and maybe meet too! Frankly, that?s my ultimate goal in meeting someone on the web, i.e. meeting and developing a relationship in "real time" (and in "real person" - lol). Therefore, to start with, I'll give you a little background about myself and we'll go from there....
I'm a very frank, upfront, and truthful type of person and I won't have anything to do with anyone who is not the same. Honesty, integrity, and loyalty are basic with me, and I practice them quite fiercely, sometimes to a fault. I am also an extremely sensitive, giving, and caring person, again sometimes to a fault. I am very generous with my time, help, and most everything else (except $$ now - used to be - but don't have much now - lol!) if treated with respect, honesty, and appreciation. Take me for granted, lie to me, or play games with me, and I?m just gone! I try to live by the "golden rule" and I will not deal with anyone who does not do the same!
I think I'm what people would call a newbie to the "formal" BDSM scene and lifestyle (as well as online dating and dating sites, groups, etc.), although I'm 56 years old and have been dominant to some extent for most all of my life!
I enjoy BDSM, (D/s including B/D primarily, with some S/M) and have been practicing it on a one to one (mostly private) basis over many years. Most of my experience has been with women I've had nearly monogamous (with consensual or understood exceptions) relationships with over quite long lengths of time. This while generally (and gently) introducing them to, and developing their appreciation for (and expertise at), the satisfaction of my desire for domination. This has never been a 24/7 thing, being more in a sexual and playtime manner, as I don't like total doormat types, was always taught to respect women of any persuasion, and still do! However, I believe (know actually, as they told me so! - lol) they have also found "joy in their submission to my Domination" as evidenced by the extensive length of time our relationships continued and flourished!
As indicated above, I am a novice to the "formal" BDSM and/or D/s scenes (never even knew they existed except in books and XXX movies until a year or two ago!). Therefore I have much to learn about "true submissives" (I always thought I had to teach someone to be that way for me on occasion), and the art of being a "Dom" as well. Keeping in mind that I'm not really sure what the above quoted terms mean, and while reading, communicating online and in person, etc., I've learned that there are no concrete definitions for any of them. However, we may be able to explore together and satisfy some of our mutual desires as stated in our profiles.
I am currently without a partner (and SINGLE too!) but am actively in search of one; friends with perhaps "play" and/or casual sex at first, with a possibility of a long-term relationship in time if it goes that way! Right now I'm really looking for someone to get out to things involved in the various BDSM group's activities, as well as almost anything else, in general just plain old fun of all types! I do have many other varied interests as well. Some of these include cooking (and eating - lol), following the home sports and college teams (especially when they?re winning!), PBS, hunting, fishing, and being in the great Michigan outdoors (although I haven?t been very active in the latter three lately) and I?m always willing to explore new things.
I live in Pontiac, MI (near I-75 & Baldwin Rd) in a small ranch style one-bedroom apartment with a private single entrance and address. I live with my life partner for now, Eddie my cat, and have since he left his mother. He thinks he owns the place and me as well, and I must keep remembering to occasionally tell him "Wait, I?m the people here you know"!
I'm retired on SSI disability (read *very* limited income), nothing very serious, and not affecting sexual or play relationships for sure! I was 56 years old on August 4th (Leo, the Lion), but I have a much younger mindset! Sometimes I think I'm stuck in my 20s or 30s (lol)! I'm 5 feet 8 inches tall, 212 lbs, brown eyes, brown hair (receding & very sparse on top), white sideburns, and well trimmed very white goatee. I have a picture posted to my profiles, and a few in the same situation (different poses) I can email if interested.
Well, it seems I have done much more than the "short" intro I started to do, and I hope I have covered all the introductory requirements somewhere in this rambling (lol). Why not take a chance. You may be surprised!
I look forward to hearing from you (one way or the other, please and thank you!) really soon!
Sincerely,
TEACHMASTERSIR (aka John or "JD"!) ;-)>
